The Girl That I Marry
Frank Sinatra Lyrics


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The girl that I marry will have to be
As soft and as pink as a nursery
The girl I call my own

Will wear satins and laces and smell of cologne
Her nails will be polished and, in her hair,
She'll wear a gardenia and I'll be there
Stead of flittin', I'll be sittin'

Next to her and she'll purr like a kitten
A doll I can carry, the girl that I marry must be
Her nails will be polished and, in her hair,
She'll wear a gardenia and I'll be there
Stead of flittin', I'll be sittin'





Next to her and she'll purr like a kitten
A doll I can carry, the girl that I marry must be

Overall Meaning

The Girl That I Marry is a classic love song written by Irving Berlin and sung by Frank Sinatra. It is a song about a man who dreams of the perfect woman he will marry. The lyrics describe the qualities he desires in his future wife. He wants her to be soft and pink like a nursery, wearing satin and laces, and smelling of cologne. He also desires a woman with polished nails, hair adorned with a gardenia, and a gentle personality that makes her purr like a kitten. He envisions her as a doll that he can carry with him, and someone who will bring out the best in him.


The lyrics of the song suggest that the man is looking for the traditional qualities of femininity in a wife. He desires a woman who is beautiful, delicate, and nurturing. The references to satin and laces, gardenias, and polished nails all suggest a high level of elegance and refinement. The line "Stead of flittin', I'll be sittin'" suggests that he is looking for a woman who is loyal and committed, rather than someone who is always on the move.


The song has a timeless quality that continues to resonate with audiences today. It speaks to the universal desire for love, companionship, and a long-term commitment. It also captures the romanticized version of femininity that was popular in earlier times. Despite the outdated gender roles, the song's beautiful melody and evocative lyrics have ensured it remains a classic.


Line by Line Meaning

The girl that I marry will have to be
The woman I choose to marry needs to meet certain standards for me to commit to her.


As soft and as pink as a nursery
She needs to be gentle, delicate and nurturing like a newborn baby's room.


The girl I call my own
The woman I call my own should be loyal and devoted to me, exclusively.


Will wear satins and laces and smell of cologne
She should dress elegantly and wear perfume to maintain her femininity and grace.


Her nails will be polished and, in her hair,
She must maintain perfect hygiene and flawless beauty with manicured nails and well-styled hair.


She'll wear a gardenia and I'll be there
She'll add a finishing touch to her appearance by wearing a gardenia flower, and I will be there to appreciate it.


Stead of flittin', I'll be sittin'
Rather than wandering about in search of other women, I'll be content and seated beside her only.


Next to her and she'll purr like a kitten
By treating her right and pampering her, I'll make her content and happy like a purring kitten.


A doll I can carry, the girl that I marry must be
She should be easily manageable and delicate enough to carry like a doll, as I am protective of her and want her to rely on me.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: IRVING BERLIN

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Comments from YouTube:

@Mar7Vit

The girl that I marry will have to be
As soft and as pink as a nursery
The girl I call my own
Will wear satins and laces and smell of cologne

Her nails will be polished and, in her hair,
She'll wear a gardenia and I'll be there
'Stead of flittin', I'll be sittin'
Next to her and she'll purr like a kitten

A doll I can carry, the girl that I marry must be.

@mikecalvin74

Beautiful song... timeless..Thank you Frank..

@mikecalvin74

Beautfully sung.

@clydep9870

Hard to believe, but I think I remember this song from at only two years of age (Sept 1946 per Cashbox).

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