Where or When
Frank Sinatra Lyrics


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It seems we stood and talked like this before
We looked at each other in the same way then
But I can't remember where or when

The clothes you're wearing are the clothes you wore
The smile you are smiling you were smiling then
But I can't remember where or when
Some things that happened for the first time
Seem to be happening again

And so it seems that we have met before
And laughed before, and loved before
But who knows where or when?

Some things that happened for the first time
Seem to be happening again
(I can't remember, my darling, I can't remember when)

And so it seems that we have met before

And laughed before, and loved before
But who knows where or when?

Overall Meaning

Frank Sinatra's song "Where or When" portrays the feeling of familiarity and nostalgia associated with encountering someone from the past. The lyrics indicate a sense of déjà vu and confusion as the singer tries to pinpoint the moment or place where they previously met the person. The singer notes that they are experiencing a sense of repetition, with the clothes and smile of the person resonating with their memories. The closing lines express a sense of uncertainty, as the singer muses on the possibility of having met, laughed, and loved before.


Overall, the lyrics of "Where or When" evoke a sense of longing and introspection, as the singer grapples with the intangible nature of memory and the persistence of past experiences in the present. The song speaks to universal themes of love, loss, and the passage of time, reminding listeners of the power of nostalgia and the importance of cherishing meaningful moments.


Line by Line Meaning

It seems we stood and talked like this before
We are in a situation that feels familiar, like we have been here before.


We looked at each other in the same way then
Our gaze at each other is reminiscent of a time when we were in a similar situation.


But I can't remember where or when
Despite the familiarity, I cannot recall the exact time or place where we met before.


The clothes you're wearing are the clothes you wore
Your attire right now is similar to what you wore in the past, adding to the feeling of déjà vu.


The smile you are smiling you were smiling then
Your smile right now resembles the one you had during the previous encounter, further emphasizing the déjà vu effect.


Some things that happened for the first time
Events that occurred for the initial time in the past.


Seem to be happening again
These events are reoccurring, creating the illusion of familiarity.


And so it seems that we have met before
It appears that we have met in the past, but the exact time and date are unclear.


And laughed before, and loved before
We've shared happy moments and might have even been in love previously.


But who knows where or when?
But the question remains: when and where did we meet before?


(I can't remember, my darling, I can't remember when)
Even though I want to remember, my memory doesn't permit me to do so.




Lyrics © CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Lorenz Hart, Richard Rodgers

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@norahj.9970

It seems we stood and talked like this, before
We looked at each other in the same way then
But I cant remember where or when

The cloths you're wearing are the cloths, you wore
The smile you are smiling you were smiling then
But I can't remember where or when

Some things that happened for the first time
Seem to be happening again

And so it seems that we have met before
And laughed before, and loved before
But who knows where or when



@MarkBlackburnWPG

“Best of Nancy for Frank - 8/10/2008” is playing now (8/12/2021) on Siriusly Sinatra satellite radio
Wish we had the set list for this one, don't you?
Nancy says "One of our Forum members Bob Freed suggested we pair this famous Sinatra song with another version of the same song – by a different artist. [and] we are happy to oblige! Bob suggested Where Or When – Dad and Tierney Sutton .... "

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Frank's 'Where or When' opens with solo piano, played out-of-tempo – Bill Miller and Frank alone together, building to a peak of vocal greatness – ending with an orchestral crescendo that distorts:
I always imagine the engineer allowing the volume to slip 'into the red' zone and allowing it to be declared a 'take' before anyone listened really closely to the ending. Wonder how many mics recorded the orchestra that night? Details no longer just a mouse click away in the 'discography.'
First version offered at YouTube this night -- this one, from nine years ago, set to an inspired slide show with a note that the pictures are from

“Henri Cartier-Bresson (August 22, 1908 -- August 3, 2004) – a French photographer considered to be the father of modern photojournalism. "...Te amo sin saber cómo, ni cuándo, ni de dónde, te amo directamente sin problemas ni orgullo: así te amo porque no sé amar de otra manera.." [Translation, anyone?]

Thanks again, for sharing this one Catman 916 -- celebrated elsewhere this night [search] " Great Melody, Great Lyric, Great Rendition, Songwriting Workshop, Harmony Central "



@howard1beale

It seems we stood
and talked like this
Before
We looked at each other in the same way then
But I can't remember
Where or when

The clothes you're wearing
Are the clothes you wore
The smile you are smiling you were smiling
then
But u can't remember
where or
When

Some things that happened for the first time
Seem
to be happening again

And
so it seems
that we have met
before
and laughed
before
and loved before
But who
knows where or
when?



@MarkBlackburnWPG

WHERE OR WHEN -- saving the best until last . . .
Listening at the computer to Siriusly Sinatra satellite radio and left a note to Nancy at Sinatra Family:

Hit the "back an hour" button (twice) to re-listen to the closing segment -- just ended. You and Chuck (Granata) saved the best till last, Nancy. That final segment and especially the concluding song, WHERE OR WHEN. Yes, we can see your Dad smiling down in appreciation, Nancy.

Rodgers & Hart's best-ever song about 'deja vu' -- and the finest reading ever: Frank & Bill Miller, alone together for a minute and forty seconds -- out-of-tempo (that accompanist Miller makes look so easy). Timeless beauty that will never grow old.

This one, posted by "Catman916" has the best slide show and most views]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sA2wkej7DFE

[Closing orchestral crescendo of WHERE OR WHEN -- followed immediately by Nancy's lovely voice:]


"It's time again to say 'Farewell' from all of us at Nancy for Frank . . . "


Sinatra Family -- Forum -- "Siriusly Sinatra" -- NANCY FOR FRANK SHOW #472


https://sinatrafamily.com/forum/showthread.php/50421-NFF-SHOW-472-Week-of-July-28-2019



All comments from YouTube:

@arnoldblashak171

It took me a while to appreciate Frank Sinatra but after I got a little bit older yeah he he's the man

@thomasgrantvickers2875

Frank's voice is liquid Gold. The man and his voice are immortal.

@Glenn1970-y7b

As always, no one could sing this song with such emotion & passion. His Diction and Phrasing will never be matched. Thanks for all of the wonderful memories. I got to see him live in London, New York and at Sanctuary Cove in Queensland, Australia. I will never forget those great performances.

@anthonydecruz4515

Sinatra's singing, especially on songs like this, or' what's new,' has the uncanny ability to go past musicality and touch your emotions in a way no other singer can. Utterly and totally Unique!

@lavenderfields2910

Sinatra's good, but you need to listen to George Michael ! Nobody touches your emotions, like George !

@hughmanatee7657

This is the greatest version ever sung of this great song. When he begins he’s almost talking, and intimately, but then he gradually builds up to an operatic crescendo that gives the words a universal meaning.

@lavenderfields2910

It's a good version, but George Michael's is the best ! Michael Buble's version is awesome, too !

@FacheChanteDeux

Frank was the master of song delivery. Chairman of the Board.

@marcelosebastian4171

Escucha la versión de George Michael… después me contás!

@rodbutler4054

@@lavenderfields2910I like the group Dion and the Belmonts version.

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