Why Can't You Behave
Frank Sinatra Lyrics


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Why can't you behave? Oh why can't you behave?
After all the things you told me
And those promises that you gave
Oh, why can't you behave?

Why can't you be good and do just as you should?
Won't you turn that new leaf over
So your baby can be your slave?
Oh, why can't you behave?

There's a farm I know near my old home town
Where we two can go and try settling down
There I'll care for you forever
Cause you're all in the world I crave

But baby, why can't you behave?
I said,"I'll care for you forever"




Cause you're all in the world I crave
But why, why can't you behave? Baby I'm all confused

Overall Meaning

In “Why Can’t You Behave,” Frank Sinatra sings to a lover who cannot seem to keep their word or act in a responsible and moral way. The singer is clearly frustrated by their lover’s behavior and feels confused and hurt. The lyrics suggest that the singer’s lover has made promises and declarations of love, but has failed to follow through on them. The singer implores their lover to change their ways, to turn over a new leaf, and to be good and do what they should.


The song presents a common theme in love songs of the era: the struggles and frustrations of trying to make a relationship work when one partner is unreliable and irresponsible. The lyrics suggest that the singer is willing to do whatever it takes to make the relationship work, including moving to a farm and caring for their lover forever. However, the singer cannot understand why their lover cannot seem to behave.


Overall, “Why Can’t You Behave” is a poignant lament about the challenges of love and the struggles of trying to make a relationship work when one partner cannot seem to fulfill their responsibilities.


Line by Line Meaning

Why can't you behave? Oh why can't you behave?
The singer is asking their partner to act sensibly and respectfully towards them.


After all the things you told me
The singer is referring to the promises made by their partner in the past.


And those promises that you gave
Continuation of the previous line with emphasis on the promises made by their partner.


Why can't you be good and do just as you should?
The singer is suggesting that their partner should behave correctly and do what is expected of them.


Won't you turn that new leaf over
Encouragement for their partner to change for the better.


So your baby can be your slave?
The singer is using a rhetorical question to suggest that their partner needs to earn their love and respect.


There's a farm I know near my old home town
The singer is offering a peaceful alternative to their current relationship troubles.


Where we two can go and try settling down
The singer is proposing a new beginning for their relationship, starting with a fresh slate.


There I'll care for you forever
The singer is promising to love and support their partner unconditionally.


Cause you're all in the world I crave
The singer is expressing how important their partner is to them and how much they need them in their life.


But baby, why can't you behave?
The singer is repeating their earlier plea for their partner to behave and act appropriately.


I said,"I'll care for you forever"
The singer is reaffirming their commitment to their partner.


But why, why can't you behave? Baby I'm all confused
The singer is exasperated and confused by their partner's behavior, and questioning why they can't simply behave like they should in the relationship.




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Mike


on The Lady Is A Champ

eight

She gets too hungry for dinner at eight
She can't eat late and stay up all night, because unlike society types, she has to get up in the morning.

She likes the theatre and never comes late
She cares more about seeing the play than being seen making an entrance.

She never bothers with people she'd hate
Her friends are friends, not social trophies.

Doesn't like crap games with barons or earls
While barrns and earls probably don't play craps, she associates with friends, not people to be seen with.

Won't go to Harlem in ermine and pearls
She doesn't "slum", the practice of the rich in the 30's, when the song was written, of touring poor neighborhoods dressed in rich clothes to "tut, tut" about the deplorable conditions, and congratulate each other for "caring about the poor"

Won't dish the dirt with the rest of the girls
Doesn't trade gossip for acceptance among an in-crowd


She likes the free, fresh wind in her hair
She cares more about how her hair feels than conforming with current hair fashions

Hates California, it's cold and it's damp
Since most of California is noticeably warmer and / or drier than New York, where the play the song was written for is set, this is probably a facetious excuse to like what she likes.


And she won't go to Harlem in Lincoln's or Ford's
Another reference to slumming, but facetious, since Lincolns and Fords were middle-class, not luxury brands when the lyric was written

Anonymous


on Try a Little Tenderness

Here are the correct lyrics

Try A Little Tenderness - Frank Sinatra - Lyrics

Oh she may be weary
Women do get wearied
Wearing that same old shabby dress
And when she’s weary
You try a little tenderness

You know she’s waiting
Just anticipating things she’ll may never possess
While she is without them
Try just a little bit of tenderness

It’s not just sentimental
She has her grieve and her care
And the words that soft and gentle
Makes it easier to bear
You wont regret it
Women don't forget it
Love is their whole happiness
And it’s all so easy
Try a little tenderness

Musical Interlude

And, it’s all so easy
Try a little tenderness

Daniel


on The Way You Look Tonight

I met Frank Jr. in Las Vegas, a real gentleman. RIP you both.

Giorgi Khutashvili


on Theme from New York, New York

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