Born in Hoboken, New Jersey, to Italian immigrants, Sinatra began his musical career in the swing era with bandleaders Harry James and Tommy Dorsey. Sinatra found success as a solo artist after he signed with Columbia Records in 1943, becoming the idol of the "bobby soxers". He released his debut album, The Voice of Frank Sinatra, in 1946. Sinatra's professional career had stalled by the early 1950s, and he turned to Las Vegas, where he became one of its best known residency performers as part of The Rat Pack. His career was reborn in 1953 with the success of From Here to Eternity, with his performance subsequently winning an Academy Award and Golden Globe Award for Best Supporting Actor. Sinatra released several critically lauded albums, including In the Wee Small Hours (1955), Songs for Swingin' Lovers! (1956), Come Fly with Me (1958), Only the Lonely (1958) and Nice 'n' Easy (1960).
Sinatra left Capitol in 1960 to start his own record label, Reprise Records, and released a string of successful albums. In 1965, he recorded the retrospective September of My Years, starred in the Emmy-winning television special Frank Sinatra: A Man and His Music, and released the tracks "Strangers in the Night" and "My Way". After releasing Sinatra at the Sands, recorded at the Sands Hotel and Casino in Vegas with frequent collaborator Count Basie in early 1966, the following year he recorded one of his most famous collaborations with Tom Jobim, the album Francis Albert Sinatra & Antonio Carlos Jobim. It was followed by 1968's collaboration with Duke Ellington. Sinatra retired for the first time in 1971, but came out of retirement two years later and recorded several albums and resumed performing at Caesars Palace, and reached success in 1980 with "New York, New York". Using his Las Vegas shows as a home base, he toured both within the United States and internationally until a short time before his death in 1998.
Sinatra forged a highly successful career as a film actor. After winning an Academy Award for From Here to Eternity, he starred in The Man with the Golden Arm (1955), and received critical acclaim for his performance in The Manchurian Candidate (1962). He appeared in various musicals such as On the Town (1949), Guys and Dolls (1955), High Society (1956), and Pal Joey (1957), winning another Golden Globe for the latter. Toward the end of his career, he became associated with playing detectives, including the title character in Tony Rome (1967). Sinatra would later receive the Golden Globe Cecil B. DeMille Award in 1971. On television, The Frank Sinatra Show began on ABC in 1950, and he continued to make appearances on television throughout the 1950s and 1960s. Sinatra was also heavily involved with politics from the mid-1940s, and actively campaigned for presidents such as Harry S. Truman, John F. Kennedy and Ronald Reagan, though before Kennedy's death Sinatra's alleged Mafia connections led to his being snubbed.
While Sinatra never formally learned how to read music, he had an impressive understanding of it, and he worked very hard from a young age to improve his abilities in all aspects of music. A perfectionist, renowned for his dress sense and performing presence, he always insisted on recording live with his band. His bright blue eyes earned him the popular nickname "Ol' Blue Eyes". Sinatra led a colorful personal life, and was often involved in turbulent affairs with women, such as with his second wife Ava Gardner. He went on to marry Mia Farrow in 1966 and Barbara Marx in 1976. Sinatra had several violent confrontations, usually with journalists he felt had crossed him, or work bosses with whom he had disagreements. He was honored at the Kennedy Center Honors in 1983, was awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom by Ronald Reagan in 1985, and the Congressional Gold Medal in 1997. Sinatra was also the recipient of eleven Grammy Awards, including the Grammy Trustees Award, Grammy Legend Award and the Grammy Lifetime Achievement Award. After his death, American music critic Robert Christgau called him "the greatest singer of the 20th century", and he continues to be seen as an iconic figure.
Sinatra died with his wife at his side at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center in Los Angeles on May 14, 1998, aged 82, after a heart attack. Sinatra had ill health during the last few years of his life, and was frequently hospitalized for heart and breathing problems, high blood pressure, pneumonia and bladder cancer. He was further diagnosed as having dementia. He had made no public appearances following a heart attack in February 1997. Sinatra's wife encouraged him to "fight" while attempts were made to stabilize him, and his final words were, "I'm losing." Sinatra's daughter, Tina, later wrote that she and her sister, Nancy, had not been notified of their father's final hospitalization, and it was her belief that "the omission was deliberate. Barbara would be the grieving widow alone at her husband's side." The night after Sinatra's death, the lights on the Empire State Building in New York City were turned blue, the lights at the Las Vegas Strip were dimmed in his honor, and the casinos stopped spinning for a minute.
Sinatra's funeral was held at the Roman Catholic Church of the Good Shepherd in Beverly Hills, California, on May 20, 1998, with 400 mourners in attendance and thousands of fans outside. Gregory Peck, Tony Bennett, and Sinatra's son, Frank Jr., addressed the mourners, who included many notable people from film and entertainment. Sinatra was buried in a blue business suit with mementos from family members—cherry-flavored Life Savers, Tootsie Rolls, a bottle of Jack Daniel's, a pack of Camel cigarettes, a Zippo lighter, stuffed toys, a dog biscuit, and a roll of dimes that he always carried—next to his parents in section B-8 of Desert Memorial Park in Cathedral City, California.
His close friends Jilly Rizzo and Jimmy Van Heusen are buried nearby. The words "The Best Is Yet to Come", plus "Beloved Husband & Father" are imprinted on Sinatra's grave marker. Significant increases in recording sales worldwide were reported by Billboard in the month of his death.
Why Can't You Behave
Frank Sinatra Lyrics
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After all the things you told me
And those promises that you gave
Oh, why can't you behave?
Why can't you be good and do just as you should?
Won't you turn that new leaf over
So your baby can be your slave?
There's a farm I know near my old home town
Where we two can go and try settling down
There I'll care for you forever
Cause you're all in the world I crave
But baby, why can't you behave?
I said,"I'll care for you forever"
Cause you're all in the world I crave
But why, why can't you behave? Baby I'm all confused
In “Why Can’t You Behave,” Frank Sinatra sings to a lover who cannot seem to keep their word or act in a responsible and moral way. The singer is clearly frustrated by their lover’s behavior and feels confused and hurt. The lyrics suggest that the singer’s lover has made promises and declarations of love, but has failed to follow through on them. The singer implores their lover to change their ways, to turn over a new leaf, and to be good and do what they should.
The song presents a common theme in love songs of the era: the struggles and frustrations of trying to make a relationship work when one partner is unreliable and irresponsible. The lyrics suggest that the singer is willing to do whatever it takes to make the relationship work, including moving to a farm and caring for their lover forever. However, the singer cannot understand why their lover cannot seem to behave.
Overall, “Why Can’t You Behave” is a poignant lament about the challenges of love and the struggles of trying to make a relationship work when one partner cannot seem to fulfill their responsibilities.
Line by Line Meaning
Why can't you behave? Oh why can't you behave?
The singer is asking their partner to act sensibly and respectfully towards them.
After all the things you told me
The singer is referring to the promises made by their partner in the past.
And those promises that you gave
Continuation of the previous line with emphasis on the promises made by their partner.
Why can't you be good and do just as you should?
The singer is suggesting that their partner should behave correctly and do what is expected of them.
Won't you turn that new leaf over
Encouragement for their partner to change for the better.
So your baby can be your slave?
The singer is using a rhetorical question to suggest that their partner needs to earn their love and respect.
There's a farm I know near my old home town
The singer is offering a peaceful alternative to their current relationship troubles.
Where we two can go and try settling down
The singer is proposing a new beginning for their relationship, starting with a fresh slate.
There I'll care for you forever
The singer is promising to love and support their partner unconditionally.
Cause you're all in the world I crave
The singer is expressing how important their partner is to them and how much they need them in their life.
But baby, why can't you behave?
The singer is repeating their earlier plea for their partner to behave and act appropriately.
I said,"I'll care for you forever"
The singer is reaffirming their commitment to their partner.
But why, why can't you behave? Baby I'm all confused
The singer is exasperated and confused by their partner's behavior, and questioning why they can't simply behave like they should in the relationship.
Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: COLE PORTER
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