Wives And Lovers
Frank Sinatra Lyrics


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Hey, little girl, comb your hair, fix your make-up
Soon he will open the door
Don't think because there's a ring on your finger
You needn't try any more
For wives should always be lovers too
Run to his arms the moment he comes home to you
I'm warning you
Day after day, there are girls at the office
And the men will always be men
Don't stand him up with your hair still in curlers
You may not see him again
Wives should always be lovers too
Run to his arms the moment he comes home to you
He's almost here

Hey, little girl, better wear something pretty
Something you wear to go to the city
Dim all the lights, pour the wine, start the music
Time to get ready for love

It's time to get ready for love




Yes, it's time to get ready for love
It's time to get ready, kick your shoes off, baby

Overall Meaning

The song "Lover" by Frank Sinatra tells a story of a wife's duty to remain a lover to her husband even after marriage. The song speaks to the societal expectations of wives in the 1940s and 1950s to maintain their appearance, be attentive to their husbands, and avoid neglecting them. In the first verse, Sinatra advises the woman to comb her hair and fix her make-up because her husband will soon arrive home. Though she is married and has a ring on her finger, Sinatra suggests that she still needs to make an effort to be a lover to her husband, implying that she shouldn't take her marriage for granted.


In the second verse, Sinatra warns the woman not to stand up her husband and to always be a lover to him because men will always be men. He encourages the woman to run into his arms the moment he arrives home, suggesting that they should have a romantic and passionate reunion. In the final verse, Sinatra instructs the woman to get ready for a special night. He advises her to wear something pretty and to dim the lights, pour some wine, and start the music. This is the woman's chance to show her husband that she is still his lover and that she values their relationship.


Overall, "Lover" is a song that speaks to the societal expectations of wives in the 1940s and 1950s. It tells a story of a wife who must remain a lover to her husband even after marriage. Sinatra's advice to the woman is that she should always make an effort to maintain her appearance and be attentive to her husband, while also reminding her that neglecting her husband could lead to the deterioration of their marriage.


Line by Line Meaning

Hey, little girl, comb your hair, fix your make-up
Take care of yourself, make sure you look your best because your lover is coming soon


Soon he will open the door
Your lover is about to arrive


Don't think because there's a ring on your finger You needn't try any more
Just because you're married, you should still put in effort to keep the spark alive


For wives should always be lovers too
Married partners should also maintain a romantic relationship


Run to his arms the moment he comes home to you
Greet your lover with enthusiasm and affection when they come home


I'm warning you
This advice is important and should be heeded


Day after day, there are girls at the office And the men will always be men
There will always be temptation, but men should remain faithful to their wives


Don't stand him up with your hair still in curlers You may not see him again
Don't take your partner for granted, because you never know what could happen


He's almost here
Your lover is getting closer


Hey, little girl, better wear something pretty Something you wear to go to the city
Put on your best outfit to impress your lover


Dim all the lights, pour the wine, start the music
Set the mood for a romantic evening


Time to get ready for love
It's time to focus on your relationship and prioritize intimacy


It's time to get ready for love Yes, it's time to get ready for love It's time to get ready, kick your shoes off, baby
Reiterating the message that it's important to put effort into your romantic relationship




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BURT BACHARACH, HAL DAVID

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@artistsingerwriterproducer8288

Romantic days for you and me,

@roxannadorsey9716

Take nothing for granted. The little things, the sweet surprises life gives.

@roxannadorsey9716

Take nothing for granted. The little things the sweet surprises of this life.

@primetimetv8452

I love the original production sound where you can hear the slight echo from the singers mike! The remastered albums they have done away from.

@peterblack1639

Franks the Postman because he always delivers.......

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