The Real Damage
Frank Turner Lyrics


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I woke up on a sofa in an unfamiliar house, surrounded by sleeping folks I didn't know.
On failing to find my friends, I decided it was clearly time to go.
So I made my way out of the door as quietly as I could - there was no one there I knew to say goodbye,
Squinting in the sadly sobering sunshine of the Sunday morning light.

I started the night with all my friends and I ended up alone.
I started out so happy now I'm hungover and down.
It was about then that I realized I was half-way through the best years of my life.

I scanned the local landmarks, trying to find out where I was, and maybe even find a bus back home,
Longing for a shower, and for clean sheets, and a charger for my phone.
Suddenly it hit me - I got paid this Friday last, and so I rifled through my pockets for some change.
But all I found was a packet of broken cigarettes and a sinking sense of shame.

I had to ask myself:
Is is really worth it? Is any of this worth it?
Well the whole thing's far from perfect,
But I've yet to figure out a better way to spend my time.

Too many suits and dirty looks made me rack my brains - the real damage started to sink in.
It'd been quite a heavy weekend and I could just about remember where I'd been.
Well I started the night with all my friends and I ended up alone,
I started out so happy now I'm hungover and down.




I stood on a street corner and I felt a little sick.
It was about then that I realized I was halfway through the first day of the week.

Overall Meaning

"The Real Damage" by Frank Turner tells the story of a heavy night of drinking and partying, ending with the singer waking up alone on a stranger's sofa. As he attempts to navigate his way home, he realizes the toll that his lifestyle is taking on him. He is hungover, broke and feeling a sense of shame as he rummages through his pockets and only finds broken cigarettes. Despite all of this, he still believes that the party scene is the best way to spend his time.


The song highlights the darker side of a casual, carefree lifestyle. The constant partying and drinking inevitably lead to a sense of loneliness and loss of control. The singer's realization that he is halfway through the best years of his life is also a poignant moment, as he acknowledges that he may be wasting his youth on empty pleasures.


The lyrics also touch on the themes of identity and loneliness. The singer is surrounded by strangers, and his search for a way home becomes a search for something more meaningful. This sense of searching and not finding what one is looking for is a universal feeling that many people can relate to.


Overall, "The Real Damage" is a cautionary tale about the perils of too much indulgence, and the loss of self that comes with it.


Line by Line Meaning

I woke up on a sofa in an unfamiliar house, surrounded by sleeping folks I didn't know.
I found myself in an unknown place, on a couch, with strangers sleeping around me.


On failing to find my friends, I decided it was clearly time to go. So I made my way out of the door as quietly as I could - there was no one there I knew to say goodbye, Squinting in the sadly sobering sunshine of the Sunday morning light.
Unable to locate my friends, I left quietly, unnoticed, and stepped out of the house, greeted by the harsh reality of the Sunday morning sun.


I started the night with all my friends and I ended up alone. I started out so happy now I'm hungover and down. It was about then that I realized I was half-way through the best years of my life.
The night started with camaraderie, but it ended with loneliness and regret. It dawned on me then that I was already halfway through my best years, now filled with a hangover and disappointment.


I scanned the local landmarks, trying to find out where I was, and maybe even find a bus back home, Longing for a shower, and for clean sheets, and a charger for my phone. Suddenly it hit me - I got paid this Friday last, and so I rifled through my pockets for some change. But all I found was a packet of broken cigarettes and a sinking sense of shame.
I searched for my bearings, hoping to find my way back home. Tired, alone, and still craving a shower and clean bed, I looked for some cash in my pockets, realizing only then the sorry state of my finances, all while dealing with a sense of guilt.


I had to ask myself: Is is really worth it? Is any of this worth it? Well the whole thing's far from perfect, But I've yet to figure out a better way to spend my time.
Trying to justify my actions, I questioned whether it was all worth it, yet unable to think of a better way to spend my time.


Too many suits and dirty looks made me rack my brains - the real damage started to sink in. It'd been quite a heavy weekend and I could just about remember where I'd been.
Feeling overwhelmed and confused, I started questioning the people around me and the situations I found myself in, realizing the true harm it was causing; all while struggling to remember the events of the past few days.


Well I started the night with all my friends and I ended up alone, I started out so happy now I'm hungover and down. I stood on a street corner and I felt a little sick. It was about then that I realized I was halfway through the first day of the week.
Once again reflecting on my situation, I dwelled on my solitude and hangover, feeling ill and alone on a street corner, realizing then it was already Monday, and still questioning where it all went wrong.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: FRANCIS EDWARD TURNER

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@thegreatmoustachio

Just turned 25, and this song popped into my head.

@benmackeen5080

This song is amazing I saw him perform it last night at hay festival and it was a great moment when the whole crowd joined in. The show was unbelievable can't wait to see you again frank

@SallycrosbyUk

Aaaaaaahhhhh I've been looking for this song for so long and didn't realise it! The lines 'Is it really worth it/ Is any of it worth it' just kept cropping up and I couldn't think where from, even gone around asking people lol. Aaah sweet, sweet victory... And to think I almost skipped this song cause I love it too much and don't want to overplay it...

@nicfernald1850

its great! :D
but i love "if ever i stray" the most. 
what an amazing artist

@Xtonisher

Just found this song again the other day after so many years.. do a cover of it, yeah?

@buddytyree

The chorus to this song is some of the realest shit I've ever heard.

@erica9076

when people ask me why i love this guy. #whatalegend

@TheDragswolf

Glad this isn't my life anymore, cheers to getting older

@nicholasrutkowski7412

I always listen to this song when I feel like I really fucked up after a night of drinking.

@OldAijo

This is basically Sunday Morning Coming Down.

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