I Understand
Freddie & The Dreamers Lyrics


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Well, you call me your baby
When you're holding my hand
But the way that you hurt me
I just don't understand

Well, you say that you need me
Like an ocean need sand
But the way you deceive me
I just don't understand

Well, you know that I love you
More than anyone can
But a one-sided love
I just don't understand

Well, you know that I love you
More than anyone can
But a one-sided love
I just don't understand

Well, you call me your baby
When you're holding my hand




Oh, how you can hurt me
I just don't understand

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "I Just Don't Understand" by Freddie & The Dreamers express confusion and hurt regarding a one-sided love. The singer is called "baby" by their partner when they are physically present, but the pain and deceit in the relationship make it hard for them to comprehend the meaning behind those words. The partner claims to need the singer like an ocean needs sand, but their actions do not align with those words, leaving the singer feeling blindsided and trying to make sense of it all.


The singer expresses their love for their partner, but it appears that their love is not returned in the same way. The mention of a "one-sided love" adds to the sense of confusion and frustration, as the singer is left wondering why they are putting so much energy into a relationship that is not reciprocal. The repetition of the line "I just don't understand" emphasizes this confusion and lack of closure.


Overall, the lyrics of "I Just Don't Understand" convey the unpredictable and painful nature of love, particularly when one person's feelings are not reciprocated. Despite the title's promise of understanding, the song ends with the singer still struggling to grasp the situation they are in.


Line by Line Meaning

Well, you call me your baby
You refer to me with a term of endearment


When you're holding my hand
When we interact physically


But the way that you hurt me
However, your actions cause me emotional pain


I just don't understand
I am unable to comprehend why you would hurt me in this way


Well, you say that you need me
You claim that you cannot live without me


Like an ocean needs sand
Using a simile to express how integral my presence is to you


But the way you deceive me
Yet, you still betray my trust


I just don't understand
I am at a loss as to why you would do this


Well, you know that I love you
You are aware of the depth of my affection for you


More than anyone can
It surpasses the amount of love anyone else could give you


But a one-sided love
However, my love is not reciprocated


I just don't understand
I cannot fathom why you would not feel the same for me


Oh, how you can hurt me
Expressing the pain caused by your actions


I just don't understand
Reiterating my bewilderment at your behavior towards me




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Written by: NELSON

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@johnharvey3527

A little gem of a song. I was a kid when it was released so the lyrics went over my head, but it was definitely Freddie's finest hour.

@sunryse111

Agreed!

@rw8733

Still magical in 2021.

@IzukuMidoriya568

Me too because this was played at my nans funeral it was her favourite song and it was me and my father singing this at her funeral but it was recorded

@nowhereman6945

@R W jan. 4, 2023 still listening

@rw8733

@@nowhereman6945 It's lovely isn't it?

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@monikascheler9742

Was hab ich damals geweint sie gehen zu lassen.... wieder und wieder dieses Lied am Strand von Es Trenc gehΓΆrt und da war die Hoffnung auf ein Wiedersehen !
1997 und bis 2023 nicht vergessen.
I miss you so, belive me ... β™₯

@accelphoenixcorpuz6702

Heard this song from my lola. And used this as lullaby song for my kids. I love you lola. Thank you for the memories.

@joginns778

Heaven must rock.quite literally god bless Freddie. Taken to soon miss you

@donnaaitken423

This was my parent party piece. My dad passed away last year and I played this to him whilst holding his hand as he slipped away. I hadn't realised it had Auld Lang Syne running through it. Had to give it a listen today on his birthday.

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