Slowly
Frida Lyrics


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We take so much for granted, he and I
We share a life in one dimension
Our problems always seem to cloud the sky
But we don't pay them much attention

And with every day
We drift apart
I can feel it in my heart
That man is not the man I used to know

And though a part of me still needs him so
There's something wrong
And I feel my love die
Slowly, slowly

No angry words and no heart-rending scenes
And we should take it as a warning
We keep on going through the old routines
Exchanging kisses in the morning

And with every day we drift apart
And the fear is in my heart
I read the signs and I should be mature
And yet a child could not be more unsure

There's something wrong
And I feel my love die
Slowly, slowly
Our passion's just a distant memory

And in its place a dull frustration
A cold indifference where there used to be
At least a frequent irritation
But a feeling still

Of tenderness
And of pity, so I guess
I'll be the woman in his arms tonight
If he should need someone to hold him tight

He's like a child
But I feel my love die
Slowly
That man is not the man I used to know

And though a part of me still needs him so
There's something wrong
And I feel my love die

Slowly, slowly
Slowly, slowly




Slowly, slowly
Slowly, slowly

Overall Meaning

The song "Slowly" by Frida is a melancholic ballad that touches on the struggles of a relationship. The chorus of the song repeats the phrase "slowly, slowly," which implies the slow deterioration of love and passion within the relationship. The opening lines describe the couple's tendency to take each other for granted, despite living life in one dimension. They have problems, but they tend to ignore them or not pay attention, which causes a slow drift apart, as the singer can feel in her heart that the man she once knew is not the same.


The second verse implies that the couple's relationship has turned into a routine without any excitement or genuine affection, and they exchange kisses in the morning as if it is just a duty they need to perform. The singer feels fear in her heart after reading the signs that show their slow drift apart, and despite knowing that she should be mature, she feels unsure like a child. In the bridge, she admits that even though the passion is lost, a feeling of tenderness and pity still exists, and that is why she might still be the woman in his arms tonight, so she can hold him tight like a child, but she is aware that her love is dying slowly.


Overall, the song portrays the slow and painful process of falling out of love and losing passion, even though there might still be some tenderness left. It highlights the importance of paying attention to the little things, identifying issues, and taking actions to find solutions before it is too late.


Line by Line Meaning

We take so much for granted, he and I
We have become too comfortable and complacent in our relationship, no longer cherishing each other.


We share a life in one dimension
Our lives and our relationship lack variety and depth.


Our problems always seem to cloud the sky
We tend to focus too much on our problems, allowing them to overshadow the good things in our relationship.


But we don't pay them much attention
We choose to ignore our problems instead of confronting and resolving them.


And with every day
As time goes by


We drift apart
We are becoming emotionally distant from each other.


I can feel it in my heart
My intuition is telling me that our relationship is suffering.


That man is not the man I used to know
My partner has changed, and not in a positive way.


And though a part of me still needs him so
Despite our problems, I am still emotionally attached to my partner.


There's something wrong
I can sense that there is an underlying issue in our relationship that needs to be addressed.


And I feel my love die
My feelings of love for my partner are slowly fading away.


Slowly, slowly
This process is happening gradually, over time.


No angry words and no heart-rending scenes
We haven't had any major fights, but that doesn't mean our relationship is healthy.


And we should take it as a warning
Our lack of communication and emotional intimacy is a sign that our relationship is in trouble.


We keep on going through the old routines
We are going through the motions of our relationship without really connecting with each other.


Exchanging kisses in the morning
We still have some physical affection, but it has lost its meaning and passion.


And the fear is in my heart
I am afraid of what our relationship has become and what it could mean for our future.


I read the signs and I should be mature
I am aware of the problems in our relationship and know that I should be taking mature steps to address them.


And yet a child could not be more unsure
Despite my awareness, I still feel unsure and lost about how to save our relationship.


Our passion's just a distant memory
The passion and emotional connection we once had seems like a long-forgotten memory.


And in its place a dull frustration
We are now left with a sense of frustration and disappointment in our relationship.


A cold indifference where there used to be
We are no longer emotionally invested in each other, just going through the motions.


At least a frequent irritation
We used to have arguments and disagreements, but now we don't even have that level of emotional engagement.


But a feeling still
Despite everything, there is still a small flicker of feeling between us.


Of tenderness
We still have moments of warmth and tenderness between us.


And of pity, so I guess
I feel pity for our relationship, and am resigned to trying to salvage what is left.


I'll be the woman in his arms tonight
I will try to give him some physical comfort and intimacy, hoping it will rekindle our connection.


If he should need someone to hold him tight
I will be there for him, even as I struggle with my own emotions and doubts.


He's like a child
My partner is immature, and not capable of truly addressing the problems in our relationship.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: BENNY ANDERSSON, BJOERN K ULVAEUS

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