The way you love me
Friends Lyrics


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I was built an optimist
Way before it got to this
And baby you got me now
Oh baby you got me now
Why don’t you say you love me
C’mon say you love me
C’mon save me honey
I’m a thousand miles away
But you can say you love me
C’mon say you love me
C’mon say you love me
Why don’t you say you love me babe
Way before it got to this
Oh baby you had it bad on my list
And baby you got me now
Oh baby you got me now
Why don’t you say you love me
C’mon say you love me
C’mon save me honey
I’m a thousand miles away
But you can say you love me
C’mon say you love me
C’mon say you love me
Say you love me
C’mon say you love me
C’mon save me honey
I’m a thousand miles away
But you can say you love me
C’mon say you love me




C’mon say you love me
Why don’t you say you love me babe

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Friends' song "The way you love me" depict a conversation between two people who are in a long-distance relationship. The singer begins by stating that they have always been an optimist, even before the circumstances of their relationship became difficult. They then address their partner directly, asking them to say that they love them and to save them. Throughout the song, the singer repeats this request, demonstrating their vulnerability and need for reassurance.


The lyrics are simple yet powerful, effectively conveying the emotions of the singer. The repetition of the phrase "Why don’t you say you love me" emphasizes the singer's desperation for affection and connection. The use of the word "save" suggests that the singer feels lost and in need of rescue, further highlighting their vulnerability. The line "I’m a thousand miles away" adds to the sense of distance and isolation that the singer feels, making the need for reassurance even more urgent. Ultimately, the lyrics of "The way you love me" offer a raw and honest portrayal of the complexities of long-distance relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

I was built an optimist
I have always had a positive outlook on life


Way before it got to this
Even before the current situation, I had a positive attitude


And baby you got me now
You have captured my heart and attention


Why don’t you say you love me
Express your emotions verbally, let me know what you feel


C’mon say you love me
Come on, don't be shy, tell me your feelings


C’mon save me honey
Rescue me with your love and affection


I’m a thousand miles away
Physically distant, but emotionally close


But you can say you love me
Despite the distance, love can be expressed verbally


Oh baby you had it bad on my list
You are a high priority to me


Say you love me
Verbally express your affection for me


C’mon say you love me
Encouragement to express feelings of love


C’mon save me honey
Express love and affection to rescue me emotionally


Why don’t you say you love me babe
Request for verbal expression of love




Lyrics © DistroKid
Written by: Jake Stam

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@lenaevans5972

We met 7 weeks ago
He started flirting
I flirted back
He puts his hand on my shoulder
We stare into each other’s eyes
A week later
We start hanging out
Walking together at school
Flirting even more
Then…
A week later
He gets a girlfriend
He doesn’t even say hi to me
It’s like I never existed
And my poor heart is still broken.



@logicboy2976

100 reasons to stay alive:
1. to make your parents proud
2. to conquer your fears
3. to see your family again
4. to see your favourite artist live
5. to listen to music again
6. to experience a new culture
7. to make new friends
8. to inspire
9. to have your own children
10. to adopt your own pet
11. to make yourself proud
12. to meet your idols
13. to laugh until you cry
14. to feel tears of happiness
15. to eat your favourite food
16. to see your siblings grow
17. to pass school
18. to get tattoo
19. to smile until your cheeks hurt
20. to meet your internet friends
21. to find someone who loves you like you deserve
22. to eat ice cream on a hot day
23. to drink hot chocolate on a cold day
24. to see untouched snow in the morning
25. to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire
26. to see stars light up the sky
27. to read a book that changes your life
28. to see the flowers in the spring
29. to see the leaves change from green to brown
30. to travel abroad
31. to learn a new language
32. to learn to draw
33. to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them
34. Puppy kisses.
35. Baby kisses (the open mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek).
36. Swear words and the release you feel when you say them.
37. Trampolines.
38. Ice cream.
39. Stargazing.
40. Cloud watching.
41. Taking a shower and then sleeping in clean sheets.
42. Receiving thoughtful gifts.
43. “I saw this and thought of you."
44. The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you."
45. The relief you feel after crying.
46. Sunshine.
47. The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention.
48. Your future wedding.
49. Your favorite candy bar.
50. New clothes.
51. Witty puns.
52. Really good bread.
53. Holding your child in your arms for the first time.
54. Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.)
55. The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling.
56. The smell before and after it rains
57. The sound of rain against a rooftop.
58. The feeling you get when you’re dancing.
59. The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them.
60. Trying out new recipes.
61. The feeling you get when your favorite song comes on the radio.
62. The rush you get when you step onto a stage.
63. You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable.
64.Breakfast in bed.
65. Getting a middle seat in the movie theater.
66. Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning).
67. Pray (if you are religious)
68. Forgiveness.
69. Water balloon fights.
70. New books by your favorite authors.
71. Fireflies.
72. Birthdays.
73. Realizing that someone loves you.
74. Spending the day with someone you
85. Being wrapped up in a warm bed.
86. Someone’s skin against yours.
87. Holding hands.
88. The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person’s, and you feel like the only two people in the world.
89. Singing off key with your best friends.
90. Road trips.
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93. The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees.
94. Thunderstorms.
95. Your first (or hundredth) trip to Disneyland.
96. The taste of your favorite food.
97. The child-like feeling you get on Christmas morning.
98. The day when everything finally goes your way.
99. Compliments and praise.
100. to look on this moment in 10 years time and realise you did it.
Ps : Never forget you are a beatiful person 💕 Life is so beatiful so live, live like no one else exist, live for yourself, don't care of bad people, you are strong, i love you 🫶🏼



@annoyedkaren6726

I heard this playing in a restaurant today. So amazing.

I remember very clearly Tate’s first professional song, titled “One Day” and immediately knowing that this girl was bound to go far. Her then young voice knew no limits.

I remember “Strangers”, “3am”, “Teenage Mind”… etc etc etc.

2 years ago when she published Dear Parents, I remember thinking, “wow! Tate’s gotten so much older! I remember her when she was very young!”

A while later, I remember seeing Tate McRae on multiple VEVO ads. Whenever I saw her, I teared up in pride over all her accomplishments.

I called it 4 and a half years ago that Tate McRae would be very successful.. and clearly, “successful” was an UNDERSTATEMENT! I’m so proud of my lil tatey baby 🥺🥺



@bentsquirrel2416

He looks at me
I look back.
The kids at school say were meant to be
That we cannot see.
I realise he's more than a friend
I think about him when I close my eyes
I think about him when I open them
I think I love him, but I ruin it and now it's the end.
'Were just friends.' Friends don't look at friends that way...



@Sally_Williamsisback

I tried not to cry to this song but I sobbed my eyes completely, i sobbed for 12 hours, because this song reminded me of my friends

Who passed away

Mary lee Thompson (who had cancer) died in 2022


Karen Melony Harvey (who had Epilepsy) 2020


Kayla Jenna Luck (who had diabetes)2017


Freida Bourk Wilson (who had cancer)2019


Mia Amara Watson (who had Epilepsy)2021


And who recently passed away due to cancer...

Rebecca Emily White (who had cancer)


R.I.P My besties



@bel7830

I’ve known him for almost 5 months now and how we met is definitely not something you would see everyday.
On my birthday one of my close friends posted a happy birthday message for one of his other friends
I thought, huh let’s add him for the craic and say happy birthday. I thought I would never talk to him again after this
He added me back and I said happy birthday and he said I was just gonna say the same
We became best friends after a short amount of time and he was second on my best friend list for a long time
Then he started getting distant and i confronted him about it and everything went back to normal
Then one day in March he said something that kind of hurt my feelings and I told him I wasn’t gonna talk to him anymore and he just responded with “ok”
After a few weeks I was out and saw him with another girl and that was the moment I realised I had feelings for him, when I had stopped in my tracks and my heart literally broke
I had become friends with one of his close friends and asked him for advice
After a couple of messy days we became friends again and he apologised for what he had said
That was about 6 weeks ago
He stopped talking to that girl he was with
Now in the past two weeks he has been acting different
Always wanting to hang out with me, always answering my FaceTimes and talking to me for hours, and he walked me home one night, even though he lives on the complete other side of town
We also both like marvel, and are going to see doctor strange mom together on thursday ❤️



@claudiamaria1772

Run me in circles like you always do
Mess with me on purpose, so I'll hang on to you
I know what you mean when you act like that
But you don't know it's breaking my heart
Said that it was just never gonna happen
Then almost kissed me in the dark
Every time we talk, it just hurts so bad
'Cause I don't even know what we are
I don't even know where to start
But I can play the part
We say we're friends, but I'm catching you across the room
It makes no sense 'cause we're fighting over what we do
And there's no way that I'll end up being with you
But friends don't look at friends that way
Friends don't look at friends that way
Still can't tell
If we both mean well
Keep me guessing
If this is life or hell
Think I might've said too much, bit the dust
Now I'm kinda dizzy
Overthinking us, until I'm drunk
And sick of this whole city
Don't know where to start
Don't know how to hold my heart
And if we're really what we say we are, then why is this so hard?
We say we're friends, but I'm catching you across the room
It makes no sense 'cause we're fighting over what we do
And there's no way that I'll end up being with you
But friends don't look at friends that way
Friends don't look at friends that way
Friends don't look at friends that way (ah)
Friends don't look at friends that way, mm, hey
We say we're friends but I'm catching you across the room
It makes no sense 'cause we're fighting over what we do
And there's no way that I'll end up being with you
But friends don't look at friends that way
Friends don't look at friends that way



All comments from YouTube:

@RoyalVibesOfficial

Friends don't look at friends that way 💙

@jaynam6061

She needs to do this as a duet with a guy

@juliadeoliveira4692

Friends don't look that way

@itsmeeereneee9895

Nope. I’m going to rant a lil. So I was in love with my guy friend and he said he didn’t feel the same. Then me and his best friend got together and now this song describes us

@cassey9629

I like my guy best friend and he knows it but pretend like he doesn't 😭

@chloeh8332

@jayna m maybe an ex

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@EMECOSMETICS

This song is meant for those best friend we all have and want to be with but dont want to ruin the friendship

@flosskhan776

weve known each other since we were 10 and we're now 16. hes one of my closest friends and i always deny to ppl when they say i like him but some part of me feels different. but the thought of ruining the friendship

@sastina6714

@floss khan Those are the hardest love confessions imo. I hope you both turn out with good outcomes, either friends or not :).

@bee4658

yessss exactly.

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