Deal With It
Frou Frou Lyrics


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Do I really know you?
I feel as if I'm outside looking in,
There's something very beautiful,
Is there any room in there for me?

Calm, calm, calm, calm,
Oh deal with it,
You deal with it,
'Cause I'm too high.

Were you ever happy?
Was it only me just loving you?
When I wanna ignore it,
Why you making out like it's nothing?
I don't wanna be here,
No I don't wanna be a part of it,
I've had enough of fightin'
I don't even know the reason why we are.

Calm, calm, calm, calm,
It's pouring down,




All in decay,
We're puttin' all...

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Frou Frou's "Deal With It" seem to speak to the complex emotions involved in a deteriorating relationship. The singer expresses feelings of detachment, questioning whether or not they truly know their partner and feeling like they are on the outside looking in. Despite this, the singer also acknowledges something beautiful about their partner that they are drawn to. However, the singer also admits feeling overwhelmed and "too high" to deal with the situation.


The second verse seems to delve deeper into the conflict at the heart of the relationship. The singer questions whether their partner was ever truly happy or if their affection was all one-sided. They express a desire to ignore or avoid the issue, but feel like their partner is making light of their problems. The singer is clearly feeling disillusioned and disconnected from the relationship, and declares that they don't want to be a part of it anymore, even if they don't understand exactly how things got to this point.


Overall, the lyrics paint a picture of a relationship that has gone sour, filled with confusion, disappointment, and emotional numbness. Despite this, there is still a hint of affection and yearning present, which only adds to the complexity of the situation.


Line by Line Meaning

Do I really know you?
Questioning if the singer truly knows the other person they are addressing.


I feel as if I'm outside looking in,
Experiencing a feeling of being disconnected or distant from the other person.


There's something very beautiful,
Acknowledging that there is something positive in the situation or relationship.


Is there any room in there for me?
Wondering if there is any space or place for the artist to fit into the dynamic with the other person.


Calm, calm, calm, calm,
Encouraging a state of tranquility or peacefulness.


Oh deal with it,
Urging the other person to confront or handle the situation or issue.


You deal with it,
Placing the responsibility to handle the situation on the other person's shoulders.


'Cause I'm too high.
Admitting that the artist is incapable of handling the situation due to being intoxicated or high.


Were you ever happy?
Asking if the other person was ever truly happy in the relationship.


Was it only me just loving you?
Asking if the love in the relationship was one-sided or unrequited.


When I wanna ignore it,
Desiring to avoid or overlook the issues in the relationship.


Why you making out like it's nothing?
Questioning why the other person is acting as if the issues don't exist or are insignificant.


I don't wanna be here,
Expressing a desire to not be in the current situation or relationship.


No I don't wanna be a part of it,
Clarifying that the singer wants no involvement in the situation or relationship.


I've had enough of fightin'
Reaching a state of exhaustion or weariness in the battle or struggle within the relationship.


I don't even know the reason why we are.
Admitting to a lack of understanding or comprehension regarding the motives or reasons for the relationship.


It's pouring down,
Describing a heavy or intense downpour of emotions or conflict.


All in decay,
Depicting everything as deteriorating or falling apart.


We're puttin' all...
Cut off before completing the thought, leaving the listener to finish or interpret the meaning of the phrase.




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