Best Friends and Hospital Beds
Funeral for a Friend Lyrics


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Cold hard lines, across my face
Into a mirror I don't recognize myself anymore.
The deepest blacks, the empty greys
There is no going back, there is no in-between.

How many friends can I loose before it all makes sense?
How many friends can I loose?
Who knows what to say?
When I'm speaking out to a quiet crowd
And at the back of the hall the eyes are silent
[x2]

Words mean nothing but empty providence,
All for a God that doesn't seem to care
Who lives and who dies, these are no choices.
Each like a body broken struck from the face of a man.

How many friends can I loose before it all makes sense?
How many friends can I loose?

Who knows what to say?
When I'm speaking out to a quiet crowd
And at the back of the hall the eyes are silent
[x2]

How many friends can I loose before it all makes sense?
How many friends can I loose before it all makes sense?
How many friends can I loose before it all makes sense?
How many friends can I loose?

Who knows what to say?
When I'm speaking out to a quiet crowd
And at the back of the hall the eyes are silent
[x2]





How many friends can I loose before it all makes sense?
How many friends can I loose before it all makes sense?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Best Friends and Hospital Beds" by Funeral for a Friend speak to themes of loss, grief, and loneliness. The opening lines describe the physical manifestation of the emotional turmoil the singer is experiencing. "Cold hard lines, across my face / Into a mirror I don't recognize myself anymore" suggests a feeling of disconnect with the self. The subsequent lines, "The deepest blacks, the empty greys / There is no going back, there is no in-between," emphasize the singer's sense of hopelessness and the lack of options available to them.


The chorus serves as a refrain, repeating the question, "How many friends can I lose before it all makes sense?" This query speaks to the idea that perhaps there is some deeper meaning or purpose to the singer's losses. They are searching for a greater understanding of the world and their place in it.


The second verse describes the difficulty of finding solace or understanding within religion or spirituality. The lines, "Words mean nothing but empty providence / All for a God that doesn't seem to care" suggest a questioning of religious beliefs in the face of tragedy. The final repetition of the chorus serves as a plea for answers and understanding.


Overall, "Best Friends and Hospital Beds" speaks to the complex emotions surrounding loss and grief, and the difficulty of finding meaning or understanding in the face of tragedy.


Line by Line Meaning

Cold hard lines, across my face
My face shows visible signs of pain and grief.


Into a mirror I don't recognize myself anymore.
My current state of emotions and experiences have caused me to lose touch with who I am.


The deepest blacks, the empty greys
I feel sadness and emptiness to a great extent.


There is no going back, there is no in-between.
I feel trapped in my current emotional state with no easy way out.


How many friends can I loose before it all makes sense?
I question the value of relationships when I experience the loss of so many close friends.


Who knows what to say?
I feel helpless and uncertain of what to do or say in my time of pain.


When I'm speaking out to a quiet crowd
Even when I try to express myself, it feels like no one is there to listen or offer guidance.


And at the back of the hall the eyes are silent [x2]
I feel like I am being watched and judged, but no one is stepping forward to help or comfort me.


Words mean nothing but empty providence,
I don't find comfort in words of support or religious beliefs.


All for a God that doesn't seem to care
I question the existence of a higher power who would allow so much pain and suffering in the world.


Who lives and who dies, these are no choices.
I feel helpless to control the outcomes of the circumstances causing my pain.


Each like a body broken struck from the face of a man.
I feel like I am losing parts of myself with each instance of loss.


How many friends can I loose?
I fear losing even more friends and loved ones and feel powerless to stop it.


How many friends can I loose before it all makes sense?
I struggle to understand the reason or meaning behind so much loss and pain.




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SleepStarIgnition

The lead guitar riff in the chorus is fucking phenomenal. 

Vinny Venom

This has been my favorite band, for as long as I can remember, they've gotten me through some tough times

Jamie Ward

Amen brother

Tara Wells

@Vinny Venom couldn’t agree more.
They created that amazing metal songs but they actually meant something.
What is you favourite album?
‘Casually dressed and deep in conversation on my end’
I equally love the art work but I can’t remember for the life of me the photographer who first created this style.
I don’t know how heavy you like but Gojira are good for heavy metal combined with purpose.
So sad to see them not together….also reminds me how old I am living my old dreams where I had friends that weren’t tied down and wanted to go out on the scene

Vinny Venom

@Chris H aw man I know! I like your taste in music my dude!
FFAF's style was so unique and deep! Not to sound pretentious but I think their beautiful, heartfelt, passionate and poetic style is the reason they weren't bigger, it was just too deep for most! Maybe they'll do some reunion stuff one day

Chris H

Damn shame they aren't together anymore. Kills me every day. Just put it on repeat and all is ok

Felipe Santos

I don't have words to explain how awesome this song and band are

P C

I actually met these guys in one of my local pubs and the bassist played me on a game of Mario Kart. I lost but it was so fucking awesome to actually meet them!!

TheTonyandhisguitar

i hope they'll finally get the worldwide recognition that they deserve with that album

Alex

Wow, I started listening to these lads when I was 13 or so, now at 22 I am still listening. It's amazing to think that this band is still as good as when I first started listening, it really shows how quality they are

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