ur just lonely
GAYLE Lyrics


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I sent you straight to hell
Showed you new sides of yourself
Took scissors to your chastity belt
Then you screwed me over
You lied, you lied just a little
I guess I liked it a little
I let it slide every single
Time, but I'm gettin' bored, ugh

You don't wanna be friends, you're just lonely
And drunk at 2 AM in the mornin'
Say you've changed and you mean it
Say everything's different, but I think I'd rather sleep in
You don't wanna be friends, you're just lonely

You don't wanna be my friend
You just wanna see me naked again

The more I get to know ya
The more I wish I never did
Those things that I can't take back
My nails runnin' down your back
Who the hell are you tryna kid
When you tell yourself we got somethin'?
Hit me up just to turn me on
And then turn me down like it's nothin'

You don't wanna be friends, you're just lonely
And drunk at 2 AM in the mornin'
Say you've changed and you mean it
Say everything's different, but I think I'd rather sleep in
You don't wanna be friends, you're just lonely

You don't (you don't) wanna (wanna) be my (be my) friend
You just (you just) wanna (wanna) see me naked again
You don't wanna be my friend
You just wanna always know that you can

I know you think I'm a fool and you're smooth, but you're not
You've been obsessin' over a night I forgot
Maybe deep down, you just wanna get caught
I don't just stay friends and you already missed your shot
So tell me

You don't wanna be friends, you're just lonely
And drunk at 2 AM in the mornin'
Say you've changed and you mean it




Say everything's different, but I think I'd rather sleep in
You don't wanna be friends, you're just lonely

Overall Meaning

In the song "ur just lonely" by Gayle, the lyrics explore the dynamics of a complicated relationship where one person is seeking validation and companionship but is unable to truly commit. The singer recalls how they gave their all to this person, exposing new sides of them and breaking down barriers. They describe taking actions that were intimate and personal, symbolized by "taking scissors to your chastity belt," only to be betrayed and deceived by the other person.


Despite the hurt and the lies, the singer admits that they were drawn to the excitement and perhaps even enjoyed the drama of the relationship. However, over time, the repetition of the same patterns and the superficiality of the other person's intentions have caused the singer to grow tired and bored. They realize that the other person doesn't genuinely want friendship but is just seeking temporary comfort in their loneliness.


The song captures the frustration and disappointment of the singer as they confront the realization that the other person is not interested in a genuine connection. The repeated refrain of "You don't wanna be friends, you're just lonely" highlights the contrast between the genuine desire for friendship and the other person's craving for temporary closeness. The singer recognizes that the other person's actions are driven by loneliness and alcohol-fueled vulnerability, rather than a real desire to change or establish a meaningful bond.


Overall, "ur just lonely" delves into the complexities of a relationship where one person is seeking validation and companionship, while the other person is more interested in the immediate satisfaction of their own loneliness. It portrays the singer's journey of realizing their own worth and understanding that they deserve more than superficial connections.


Line by Line Meaning

I sent you straight to hell
I exposed the darker parts of your personality and made you confront them


Showed you new sides of yourself
I revealed aspects of your character that you were unaware of


Took scissors to your chastity belt
I broke down the barriers you had set up to protect yourself emotionally


Then you screwed me over
But in return, you betrayed and hurt me


You lied, you lied just a little
You deceived me, even if it was just a small lie


I guess I liked it a little
I admit that I found some allure in your deceit


I let it slide every single time, but I'm gettin' bored, ugh
I forgave your lies repeatedly, but now I'm growing tired and fed up


You don't wanna be friends, you're just lonely
You desire companionship, but only because you are feeling isolated and empty


And drunk at 2 AM in the mornin'
Your attempts to reach out to me come when you are intoxicated and vulnerable in the early hours of the day


Say you've changed and you mean it
You claim that you have transformed and you genuinely believe it


Say everything's different, but I think I'd rather sleep in
You insist that everything has changed, but I would prefer to stay in bed and avoid this situation


You don't wanna be friends, you're just lonely
You don't truly desire a genuine friendship; you are simply seeking solace in someone's company


You don't wanna be my friend
You don't genuinely want to establish a close bond with me


You just wanna see me naked again
Your intentions are purely sexual; you only want to engage in intimate acts with me


The more I get to know ya
As I continue to understand you better


The more I wish I never did
I find myself regretting the knowledge I have gained about you


Those things that I can't take back
The actions I committed that cannot be undone


My nails runnin' down your back
The physical and passionate encounters we had


Who the hell are you tryna kid
Who do you think you're fooling?


When you tell yourself we got somethin'?
How can you convince yourself that we have a genuine connection?


Hit me up just to turn me on
You reach out to me purely for your own pleasure and arousal


And then turn me down like it's nothin'
But then you reject me as if it means nothing to you


You don't (you don't) wanna (wanna) be my (be my) friend
You truly don't desire a meaningful friendship with me


You just (you just) wanna (wanna) see me naked again
Your only interest is in engaging in sexual activity with me once more


You don't wanna be my friend
Establishing a genuine friendship is not your true intention


You just wanna always know that you can
You simply want the assurance that you can have me whenever you please


I know you think I'm a fool and you're smooth, but you're not
You may believe that you can manipulate me and that you are charming, but you're mistaken


You've been obsessin' over a night I forgot
You have been fixating on a particular evening that I have long since moved on from


Maybe deep down, you just wanna get caught
Perhaps deep inside, you actually desire to be exposed and confronted for your actions


I don't just stay friends and you already missed your shot
I don't settle for remaining friends, and you have already lost your chance with me


So tell me
Now, please confess to me


You don't wanna be friends, you're just lonely
Your intentions of wanting friendship stem from a place of loneliness rather than genuine connection


And drunk at 2 AM in the mornin'
You reach out to me when you are intoxicated and vulnerable in the early hours of the day


Say you've changed and you mean it
You insist that you have transformed, and you genuinely believe it


Say everything's different, but I think I'd rather sleep in
You claim that everything is different now, but I would prefer to avoid this situation by staying in bed


You don't wanna be friends, you're just lonely
Your desire for friendship is fueled by a sense of isolation and emptiness




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Peermusic Publishing
Written by: Sara Davis, Taylor Gayle Rutherfurd, Daniel John Kyriakides

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Stoic Nihilist

I like the way she makes various versions of her songs 😁

griny

it's for charts

Tessa

Same

Yodenko

It's for our american fellows who can't have bad language on TV/Radio

laalitya

@Yodenko for all countries not only for america

Rocker Dude

As a fan of pop rock and pop punk who has been longing for those kinds of music to return to fame again, I love how she does that. Younger generations can enjoy the songs without being scolded by their parents.

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This girl will change the music industry forever, she has changed my life with her music so I just wanted to say thank you for creating this wonderful music

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