The Deepest Sighs the Frankest Shadows
Gang of Youths Lyrics


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There's a sky full of lights and none of them stars
But each white, silvery flicker's a faithful reminder to us
Of a weight that's in youth that makes a dick of us all
If it happened today, then it's probably happened before
In a crowd unfamiliar, I just wanna touch a familiar face
And make friends at the parties I've feared the likes of an age
To be wanted with truth and make formidable love
See light in myself that I see inside everyone else I know

It's not a lacking of spine, nor of physical pulse
It's just a feeling of distance akin to a feeling of loss
Of love in the youth of my limited life
That passed in a violent and ritual screwing inside
And the years unfamiliar are made of increasingly digital days
And I am grieving the loss of myself with frightening malaise
When there's weightness in youth and the sum of it's small
Just stand in the darkness and laugh with your heel on its throat

'Cause not everything means something, honey
So say the unsayable, say the most human of things
And if everything is temporary
I will bear the unbearable, terrible triteness of being

Alone in my house, frozen in time
But don't get me wrong now, honey, I am trying

There's a warmth in the eyes and a clearness of thought
When the deepest of sighs and the frankest of shadows are gone
We're pushing a stone up a mountainous waste
And the lines at the store look like lines on a beautiful face
See, I'm not so assured
Nor unusually strong or outstandingly brave
I'm more just fumbling around in the dark for the bulk of my day
When there's weight that's in youth and the sum of it's small
I will stand in the darkness and laugh with my heel on its throat

And not everything means something, honey
So say the unsayable, say the most human of things
And if everything is temporary
I will bear the unbearable, terrible triteness of being

Alone in my house, frozen away
But don't get me wrong now, honey, I'm okay

Ah, cast me a line
Ah, honey, cast me a line
Won't you fear me tonight?
Goddamn do you fear me tonight?
Ah, pass me a light
Ah, honey, pass me a light
Won't you feel me tonight?
Goddamn do you feel me tonight?

'Cause not everything means something, honey
So say the unsayable, say the most human of things




If everything is temporary
I will bear the unbearable, terrible triteness of being

Overall Meaning

The song "The Deepest Sighs the Frankest Shadows" by Gang of Youths is a reflection on the weight of youth, the feeling of loss and disconnection associated with aging, and the impermanence of everything. The opening line sets the tone for the track, stating that the lights in the sky are not the stars people typically associate with hope and guidance but rather a reminder that there is a weight to youth that makes our lives difficult. The singer is searching for familiar faces in unfamiliar crowds, wanting to make connections, and find meaningful relationships.


The song alludes to the idea that the singer may have lost a part of themselves in the transition to adulthood. While they are not lacking in spine or physical pulse, they feel a distance from the experiences of the youth, the kind that can be rooted in the loss of love. In the chorus, the singer repeats the phrase "not everything means something" as an affirmation that things will happen and sometimes it's necessary to accept them and move forward.


One of the most striking portions of the song is the repeated refrain that seems to alternate between casts and feelings; "cast me a line," "pass me a light," "fear me tonight," "feel me tonight." These precarious moments reveal an underlying vulnerability that the singer wants to mask with connection and understanding. Ultimately, the song is a message about resilience and finding a way through the darkness, even if the way is simply laughing with your heel on its throat.


Line by Line Meaning

There's a sky full of lights and none of them stars
The lights in the city are not natural stars, but they remind us of the weight of our youth and how it can cause foolish behavior.


But each white, silvery flicker's a faithful reminder to us
The lights serve as a constant reminder of our past and how it has led us to where we are today.


Of a weight that's in youth that makes a dick of us all
The weight of youth can sometimes lead to immature behavior and foolish decisions.


If it happened today, then it's probably happened before
History often repeats itself, and the mistakes we make today have likely been made in the past.


In a crowd unfamiliar, I just wanna touch a familiar face
When surrounded by strangers, we long for the comfort of someone we know.


And make friends at the parties I've feared the likes of an age
We often fear social situations that we perceive to be inappropriate for our age group.


To be wanted with truth and make formidable love
We desire to be loved for who we truly are, and want to experience a deep, powerful love.


See light in myself that I see inside everyone else I know
We see a light within ourselves that we also see in those around us, and it gives us hope that we can overcome our struggles.


It's not a lacking of spine, nor of physical pulse
Our struggles are not a result of weakness or lack of physical stamina.


It's just a feeling of distance akin to a feeling of loss
We feel disconnected from the world around us and it can be a painful experience.


Of love in the youth of my limited life
We mourn the love we had when we were young, knowing that it can never be recaptured.


That passed in a violent and ritual screwing inside
Our youth has passed, and it sometimes feels like it was wasted in meaningless pursuits.


And the years unfamiliar are made of increasingly digital days
The modern world is becoming increasingly digital, and it can be difficult to adjust to the changes.


And I am grieving the loss of myself with frightening malaise
We are grieving the loss of who we used to be, and it can be a scary and lonely experience.


When there's weightness in youth and the sum of it's small
The weight of our youth can feel heavy, even though it may seem insignificant in the grand scheme of things.


Just stand in the darkness and laugh with your heel on its throat
We can overcome our struggles by facing them head-on and finding joy in the darkness.


'Cause not everything means something, honey
Not everything in life has a deeper meaning, and it's okay to let go of that pressure.


So say the unsayable, say the most human of things
We should speak our truth and express our most human emotions, even if they are difficult to say.


And if everything is temporary
Everything in life is fleeting and impermanent.


I will bear the unbearable, terrible triteness of being
We will endure the mundane and repetitive aspects of life, even though it may be difficult.


Alone in my house, frozen in time
We sometimes feel lonely and stuck in our current situation.


But don't get me wrong now, honey, I am trying
Despite our struggles, we are still putting in effort to improve our lives.


There's a warmth in the eyes and a clearness of thought
We feel warmth and clarity when we are at peace with ourselves.


When the deepest of sighs and the frankest of shadows are gone
We can find peace when we let go of our deepest emotions and darkest thoughts.


We're pushing a stone up a mountainous waste
Life can feel like an endless struggle or an impossible task.


And the lines at the store look like lines on a beautiful face
Even the mundane aspects of life can have beauty if we look for it.


See, I'm not so assured
We are not always confident in ourselves and our abilities.


Nor unusually strong or outstandingly brave
We are not always exceptionally courageous or strong.


I'm more just fumbling around in the dark for the bulk of my day
We often feel lost and unsure of ourselves as we navigate through life.


I will stand in the darkness and laugh with my heel on its throat
Despite our struggles, we can still find joy in life and feel empowered.


Ah, cast me a line
We sometimes need someone to guide us or offer us support.


Ah, honey, cast me a line
We want someone we love to offer us support and help us through difficult times.


Won't you fear me tonight?
We want to be seen and understood by those around us, even if we seem scary or intimidating.


Goddamn do you fear me tonight?
We want to be seen and understood, even if it is difficult for others to do so.


Ah, pass me a light
We sometimes need someone to help brighten our path or guide us through a dark time.


Ah, honey, pass me a light
We want someone we love to help us see the way forward and find hope in difficult situations.


Won't you feel me tonight?
We want to connect with others on a deep level and feel understood by them.


Goddamn do you feel me tonight?
We crave connection and understanding, even if it may be difficult to achieve.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: David Immanuel Menachem Sasagi Leaupepe

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@chrishutcheson3358

There's a sky full of lights
And none of them stars
But each white, silvery flicker's
A faithful reminder to us
Of a weight that's in youth
That makes a dick of us all
If it happened today
Then it's probably happened before

In a crowd unfamiliar
I just wanna touch a familiar face
And make friends at the parties I've feared
The likes of an age
To be wanted with truth
And make formidable love
See light in myself
That I see inside everyone else I know

It's not a lacking of spine
Nor of physical pulse
It's just a feeling of distance
Akin to a feeling of loss
Of love in the youth
Of my limited life
That passed in a violent
And ritual screwing inside

And the years unfamiliar
Are made of increasingly digital days
And I am grieving the loss of myself
With frightening malaise
When there's weightless in youth
And the sum of it's small
Just stand in the darkness
And laugh with your heel on its throat

'Cause not everything means something, honey
So say the unsayable
Say the most human of things
And if everything is temporary
I will bear the unbearable
Terrible triteness of being

Alone in my house
Frozen in time
But don't get me wrong now, honey
I am trying

There's a warmth in the eyes
And a clearness of thought
When the deepest of sighs
And the frankest of shadows are gone

We're pushing a stone
Up a mountainous waste
And the lines at the store
Look like lines on a beautiful face

See, I'm not so assured
Nor unusually strong
Or outstandingly brave
I'm more just fumbling around in the dark
For the bulk of my day

When there's weight that's in youth
And the sum of it's small
I will stand in the darkness
And laugh with my heel on its throat

And not everything means something, honey
So say the unsayable
Say the most human of things
And if everything is temporary
I will bear the unbearable
Terrible triteness of being

Alone in my house
Frozen away
But don't get me wrong now, honey
I'm okay

Ah, cast me a line
Ah honey, cast me a line
Won't you fear me tonight?
Goddamn, do you fear me tonight?

Ah, pass me a light
Ah honey, pass me a light
Won't you feel me tonight?
Goddamn do you feel me tonight?

'Cause not everything means something, honey
So say the unsayable
Say the most human of things
If everything is temporary
I will bear the unbearable
Terrible triteness of being



All comments from YouTube:

@Beeyourself321

This is the type of music that makes you want to keep living. Even when you feel like all hope is lost. Their music gives me light. Infuses my bones with life.

@johnanraad7311

Completely agree! When I am down Gang of Youth begs you to keep giving life a shot

@deneon2209

word. it's like most of their songs were written for people that is on the verge of giving up. and they reach to tell them "hey it's gonna be ok dude. you're not alone ". truly bands like these can save a life.

@user-xq5dh8fv2i

Amen to that.. There's hints of Bruce Springsteen, Jamie cullam, temper trap.. Positive vibe that just lifts the spirit.. A friend forwarded it to me, utterly perfect

@OhShanna

I was your Uber driver tonight in Oklahoma City, just showing some love to your videos <3. This is my new favorite song, thanks for the great advice and I hope you guys had fun in OKC!

@tayzatun6351

Damn! that's wholesome

@kamvans

This comment man.. Wauw! I can imagine it. Life has surprises at times unbelievable. Have a nice day, driver!

@drmoreno98

What was his advice, I'm dying to know?

@QKvox

Thats awesome

@Beeyourself321

"To be wanted with truth, and make formidable love.
See light in myself that I see inside everyone else I know".
Those lyrics get me every time. Bring me to tears. So raw. Truthful. And beautiful.

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