Today
Gary Allan Lyrics


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Today, he told her that he loved her
Put a ring around her finger
And promised her forever, together.

Today, she smiled for all the pictures
And he was right there with her
Making all the memories without me
And it hurts to say this out loud
Looks like she's really gone now

Today, is the happiest day of her life
I should be happy for her today
So tell me why are these tears in my eyes?
I know I should be happy for her
But I've lost everything
I've lost everything I've ever wanted today

Today, I thought about the moment I could have said I loved her
And promised her forever together
Today, today it really hit me
That she don't really miss me
She's found a new beginning
And I'm wishing I had one more chance
God knows it's too late for that

Today, is the happiest day of her life
I should be happy for her today
So tell me why are these tears in my eyes?
I know I should be happy for her
But I've lost everything
I've lost everything I've ever wanted today

Today, is the happiest day of her life
I should be happy for her
But I've lost everything
I've lost everything I've ever wanted




Today, he told her that he loved her
Put a ring around her finger

Overall Meaning

The song 'Today' by Gary Allan tells the story of a man who has just witnessed the woman he loves getting married to someone else. He reminisces on the moments he could have said 'I love you' and promised forever, but now it's too late. He watches her smile in all the pictures, creating new memories without him, and realizes that he has lost everything he ever wanted. He should be happy for her, but the tears keep flowing. He is looking back on what could have been and what should have been, but now he has to accept that she is really gone.


Allan's emotive vocals paired with the poignant lyrics explore the feelings of heartbreak and regret, making this song a popular choice for those going through a similar situation. It speaks to the pain of watching someone you love move on without you and the realization that there is no turning back. The chorus, where Allan repeats that today is the happiest day of her life and that he has lost everything he ever wanted today, brings the listener right into the character's sadness and despair.


Line by Line Meaning

Today, he told her that he loved her
He expressed his love to her on this day.


Put a ring around her finger
He proposed to her by giving her a ring.


And promised her forever, together.
He vowed to be with her for eternity.


Today, she smiled for all the pictures
She was happy and posed for all the photos.


And he was right there with her
He was by her side in all the photographs.


Making all the memories without me
They created memories while I was absent.


And it hurts to say this out loud
Admitting this is painful.


Looks like she's really gone now
It seems she has moved on completely.


Today, is the happiest day of her life
This is her happiest day on record.


I should be happy for her today
I should be joyful for her success.


So tell me why are these tears in my eyes?
Why do I feel saddness when she is prospering?


I know I should be happy for her
I am aware that I should be happy for her.


But I've lost everything
I have lost all that I had.


I've lost everything I've ever wanted today
I have lost all that I have always wished for, today.


Today, I thought about the moment I could have said I loved her
I reflected on the moment when I could have expressed love to her.


And promised her forever together
And vowed to spend life with her.


Today, today it really hit me
Today, it really dawned on me.


That she don't really miss me
That I was never missed by her.


She's found a new beginning
She's found a fresh start.


And I'm wishing I had one more chance
I desire one more opportunity.


God knows it's too late for that
It's too late for that now.


Today, is the happiest day of her life
This is her happiest day on record.


I should be happy for her today
I should be joyful for her success.


So tell me why are these tears in my eyes?
Why do I feel saddness when she is prospering?


I know I should be happy for her
I am aware that I should be happy for her.


But I've lost everything
I have lost all that I had.


I've lost everything I've ever wanted
I have lost all that I have ever wanted.


Today, he told her that he loved her
He expressed his love to her on this day.


Put a ring around her finger
He proposed to her by giving her a ring.






Lyrics Β© BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: TOMMY JAMES, TOMMY LEE JAMES, WILLIAM BRICE LONG

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@theo1492

This guy understands pain and sorrow....that's why his music is so darn good! Pain carves the human soul into something beautiful. Respect from Arizona!

@chrisgraham3614

That's because he has lived the same pain that we all have

@toddolson801

HES A WORDS N MUSIC GUY SO REAL

@richardwatson6799

His wife committed suicide. It’s A Beautiful Life is about that.

@djblanco9928

Im from AZ. Yea the one he does Its not the whiskey.....says it all....

@ambercollins7683

You couldn't have said that better

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@brendairvin4047

He doesnt get enough recognition from country music hes one of the best in country music. So much emotion in his music. I'm a big fan

@lindasherman7022

Me too

@lesliescott1688

Gary Allan is one of the best if not the best artist !❀️❀️❀️❀️ You can feel the pain in his songs. He can bring a grown man to tears 😭

@jaibatson4682

In 1989 I fell in love as a young Marine, I found out I would be gone for 2 years overseas. I told her not to wait for me because I thought it would be unfair to her to wait on me in her first year of college. I came back and she ended up marrying the guy she dated after me. It doesn't matter when or where, but when I hear this song, I still think of her 31 years later.

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