The Loser
Gary Lewis & The Playboys Lyrics


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The Loser (with A Broken Heart)
THE LOSER (WITH A BROKEN HEART)
Gary Lewis & the Playboys
Have I got the right to call myself a man
Or will I go livin′ up to my name again?
When I get the chance to love I let it pass
It's not the first I lost & it won′t be the last
CHORUS:
'Cause I'm a (loser) with a broken heart
(Loser) tearin′ me apart
(Loser) & The Loser is my name
When I use my heart just like a stepping stone
& When it′s torn apart I feel so all alone
Feelin' sorry for myself is all I do
Things don′t ever turn out like I want 'em to
(Chorus)
I′m not asking much from love
Not expecting much from love
If just once I could win
I could fall in love again
In the end I know that I will always choose
I have only one direction I can choose:
Stay & let me treat her like the fool I am
Have I got the right to call myself a man?
'Cause I′m a (loser) with a broken heart
(Loser) tearin' me apart (loser)




...& fade
From: Collins Crapo

Overall Meaning

In "The Loser (With A Broken Heart)," Gary Lewis expresses his feelings of despair and inadequacy in love. He questions whether he deserves to be called a man, as he continuously lets opportunities for love slip away. Lewis recognizes that he has a pattern of losing in love and has accepted the label of "loser." He acknowledges that he uses his heart as a stepping stone, which creates a sense of loneliness and self-pity within him. The chorus emphasizes his feelings of being torn apart, as his broken heart continues to weigh him down.


Lewis is not asking for much from love, just the chance to win and to fall in love again. However, he recognizes that he will always choose to stay and continue treating his partner poorly, acknowledging that he is a fool. The lyrics suggest that Lewis is trapped in a cycle of self-sabotage, and his expectations for love have become clouded by past failures. Overall, "The Loser (With A Broken Heart)" is a poignant reflection on the emotional turmoil that comes with failed relationships and the struggle to find love again.


Line by Line Meaning

Have I got the right to call myself a man
Am I deserving of the label 'man' or will my actions continue to prove me a failure?


Or will I go livin′ up to my name again?
Will I continue to live up to my reputation as a loser?


When I get the chance to love I let it pass
I often let opportunities for love slip away without taking action.


It's not the first I lost & it won′t be the last
I have experienced love that ended in loss before, and I know it will happen again in the future.


'Cause I'm a (loser) with a broken heart
I am a loser who is experiencing heartbreak.


(Loser) tearin′ me apart
The pain of losing is causing me emotional distress.


(Loser) & The Loser is my name
Being a loser and experiencing failure is a defining part of my identity.


When I use my heart just like a stepping stone
I often use my emotions and those of others as a means to an end, without considering the potential consequences.


& When it′s torn apart I feel so all alone
When my heart is broken, I feel isolated and alone in my pain.


Feelin' sorry for myself is all I do
I often wallow in self-pity rather than taking responsibility for my actions and trying to improve my situation.


Things don′t ever turn out like I want 'em to
I constantly experience disappointment and frustration when life doesn't meet my expectations.


I′m not asking much from love
I don't have high expectations for love and just want it to be simple and fulfilling.


Not expecting much from love
I'm not anticipating love to provide me with anything extraordinary or life-changing.


If just once I could win
If I could experience just one successful and fulfilling romantic relationship...


I could fall in love again
...I would be open to the possibility of falling in love again.


In the end I know that I will always choose
Ultimately, my actions will reflect my true character and tendencies.


Stay & let me treat her like the fool I am
I will likely choose to remain in a romantic relationship and continue to act irresponsibly and foolishly.


Have I got the right to call myself a man?
I am questioning my own worth as a person, and wondering if I even deserve to be called a man.


'Cause I′m a (loser) with a broken heart
Once again, I am acknowledging that I am a loser who is experiencing heartbreak.


(Loser) tearin' me apart (loser)
The pain of losing is continuing to cause me emotional turmoil.




Writer(s): Leon Russell, Don Nix

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