I Just Don't Know What To Do With Myself
Gary Puckett & The Union Gap Lyrics


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I just don't know what to do with myself
I don't know what to do with myself
Planning everything for two
Doing everything with you
And now that we're through
I just don't know what to do
I just don't know what to do with myself
I don't know what to do with myself
Movies only make me sad
Parties make me feel as bad
Cause I'm not with you
I just don't know what to do
Like a summer rose
Needs the sun and rain
I need your sweet love
To beat love away
Well I don't know what to do with myself
Just don't know what to do with myself
Planning everything for two
Doing everything with you
And now that we're through
I just don't know what to do
Like a summer rose
Needs the sun and rain
I need your sweet love
To beat love away
I just don't know what to do with myself
Just don't know what to do with myself




Just don't know what to do with myself
I don't know what to do with myself

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Gary Puckett & The Union Gap's “I Just Don't Know What To Do With Myself” speak of the agony of heartbreak and the uncomfortable feeling of not knowing what to do with oneself after a painful separation. The singer is lost, struggling to come to terms with the sudden emptiness in his life, and the loneliness that arises from being accustomed to doing everything with his former partner. The first stanza talks about how he planned everything for two and did everything with his partner, but now that they are separated, he is unsure of what to do with himself.


In the second stanza, he says that nothing seems to make him happy anymore. He used to like watching movies, but now they only make him feel sad. Even going to parties reminds him of his former partner and only makes him feel worse. The chorus repeats the fact that he is lost and doesn't know what to do with himself. He likens himself to a summer rose that needs the sun and rain to flourish, but now that his partner is not with him, he needs their love to blossom and grow.


Overall, the song captures the feeling of heartbreak and the aftermath that comes with it. There is a sense of lost identity and uncertainty that anyone who has gone through a breakup can relate to.


Line by Line Meaning

I just don't know what to do with myself
Feeling lost and directionless without the person they had been planning and doing everything with


I don't know what to do with myself
Continuing to express feeling lost and directionless without their former partner


Planning everything for two
Having made plans and decisions together as a couple


Doing everything with you
Having done activities and daily tasks with their partner


And now that we're through
Acknowledging the end of their relationship


Movies only make me sad
Movies no longer bring enjoyment, but rather sadness as they remind them of their ex-partner


Parties make me feel as bad
Social gatherings also elicit negative emotions as they are no longer shared with their former partner


Cause I'm not with you
Confirming that their negative emotions are due to the absence of their former partner


Like a summer rose
Comparing their need for their former partner's love and presence to a rose's need for sunlight and water


Needs the sun and rain
Further elaborating on the metaphor, emphasizing the necessity of love and attention


I need your sweet love
Expressing the deep desire for their former partner's love and affection


To beat love away
Implying that their former partner's love is necessary to get over their breakup


Just don't know what to do with myself
Reiterating their continued sense of confusion and aimlessness




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