To Love Somebody
Gary Puckett & The Union Gap Lyrics


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There's a light
A certain kind of light
That never shone on me
I want my life to be
Lived with you
Lived with you

There's a way
Everybody says
To do each and every little thing
But what does it bring
If I ain't got you
I ain't got you

You don't know what it's like
Baby, you don't know what it's like
To love somebody
To love somebody
The way I love you

In my brain
I see your face again
I know my frame of mind
You ain't got to be so blind
And I'm blind
So, so, so very blind

I'm a man
Can't you see what I am?
I live and I breathe for you
But what good does it do
If I ain't got you?
I ain't got you

You don't know what it's like
Baby, you don't know what it's like
To love somebody
To love somebody
The way I love you

No, no, no, no, no, no, no
You don't know what it's like
Baby, you don't know what it's like




To love somebody
To love somebody

Overall Meaning

The song “To Love Somebody” by Gary Puckett and The Union Gap is a heartfelt ode to unrequited love. The lyrics capture the singer’s longing and desire to be with someone who doesn’t feel the same way. The first verse talks about a certain kind of light that has never shone on the singer, highlighting the fact that they’ve never experienced the kind of love they want until they met this person. The chorus, with its repetition of “You don’t know what it’s like, baby…” shows the frustration and hurt the singer feels that their love is not being reciprocated.


The second verse brings in the idea of societal pressure to conform to certain ways of doing things, but questioning what the point of it is if the person they love is not with them. The singer feels like they’re blind to everyone else because all they can see is the object of their affection. The line “I’m a man, can’t you see what I am?” emphasizes the singer’s desperation and willingness to be vulnerable for this person. The repetition and intensity of the chorus toward the end of the song reflect the singer’s anguish over the situation.


Overall, “To Love Somebody” is a poignant and relatable portrayal of unrequited love that showcases the emotional depth of Gary Puckett’s vocals.


Line by Line Meaning

There's a light
There's a certain kind of hopefulness in my life now


A certain kind of light
It's a specific kind of light that brings this hope


That never shone on me
This hope and light has never been present in my life before


I want my life to be
I desire to have a life that


Lived with you
You are the one I want to share my life with


Lived with you
You are the one I want to share my life with


There's a way
People say that there's a certain way


Everybody says
This is something that everyone talks about


To do each and every little thing
To live life


But what does it bring
But what good is it


If I ain't got you
If I don't have you in my life


I ain't got you
I don't have you in my life


You don't know what it's like
You can't understand what it feels like because you haven't experienced it


Baby, you don't know what it's like
I'm calling you 'baby' to emphasize how disconnected you are from this feeling of love


To love somebody
It's a feeling of intense love for someone else


To love somebody
It's a feeling of intense love for someone else


The way I love you
The specific way in which I love you is beyond words


In my brain
In my mind


I see your face again
I can vividly picture your face in my head again


I know my frame of mind
I understand my own thoughts and emotions


You ain't got to be so blind
I'm asking you to be more aware of what's going on between us


And I'm blind
But I also realize that I'm not seeing things so clearly either


So, so, so very blind
I'm extremely unaware


I'm a man
I'm a human being with emotions and needs


Can't you see what I am?
Can't you recognize what kind of person I am?


I live and I breathe for you
You are the reason why I'm alive and well


But what good does it do
But I'm not sure that this is really benefiting us both


If I ain't got you?
If I don't have you in my life?


I ain't got you
I don't have you in my life


No, no, no, no, no, no, no
I'm repeating 'no' for emphasis


You don't know what it's like
You can't understand what it feels like because you haven't experienced it


Baby, you don't know what it's like
I'm calling you 'baby' to emphasize how disconnected you are from this feeling of love


To love somebody
It's a feeling of intense love for someone else


To love somebody
It's a feeling of intense love for someone else




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