Relative
Gavin DeGraw Lyrics


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A flashlight
Isn't quite sunlight
But any light at all seems bright
When you're looking in the dark
A wet Dream
Isn't the real thing
It isn't really anything
But at least it makes a spark
And all is relative, relative
Everything is relative, yes it is

[Chorus]
It's all about the way we receive it
How much we believe it
Depending on the life you lead, if you lead it
Compare it to yourself
Compared to someone else, you care
And if you pick the threads in your closet, the cash in your wallet
The color of the skin in your blood, and how you got it
Compare it to yourself
Compared to someone else, you care

Pre-made isn't quite home made
But pre-made with a home name
Is almost just the same
Your girlfriend
Isn't your best friend
But any friend is best when
You're freezing in the rain
And all is relative, relative
Everything is relative, yes it is

[Chorus]

You're either underweight or you're unfit
Under dressed or over zipped
Too social or you're just too shy
Too depressed or you're too high
Night to day
Day to night
Rich to poor
Black or white
All is relative
Everything is relative
All is relative

[Chorus: x2]

All is relative
Everything is relative
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah
Everything is relative





All is relative
You care

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Relative" by Gavin DeGraw speak about how everything in life, including our own perception of things, is relative and subjective. The song highlights that there is no absolute right or wrong or superior or inferior. Different perspectives, experiences, and circumstances may lead individuals to different interpretations of reality. The song uses various analogies to show that even though things may not be perfect, we can still find value in them because of our perception of them.


The lyricist starts by comparing a flashlight to sunlight, believing that any source of light is bright when we are in the dark. Similarly, a wet dream is not the real experience but still manages to ignite something within us. The chorus emphasizes the importance of personal perspective and interpretation. It highlights how much we believe in something and how we compare our lives to someone else's.


The song then touches upon the idea that pre-made food is not equivalent to home-made food; however, if it comes with a home name, it is comparable. Similarly, our girlfriend isn't our best friend, but any friend is better than none. The second chorus suggests that we compare ourselves to the past versions of ourselves as opposed to others. The song concludes by stating that there is no better or worse, but everything in life is relative.


Line by Line Meaning

A flashlight
A small portable device that provides light when there is none.


Isn't quite sunlight
It is not as bright or strong as sunlight.


But any light at all seems bright
Even a little bit of light in darkness can seem very bright.


When you're looking in the dark
When there is no light around you.


A wet Dream
An erotic dream which causes sexual arousal.


Isn't the real thing
It is not the physical act of making love.


It isn't really anything
It is not a physical experience, just a mental one.


But at least it makes a spark
It can at least provide some level of excitement or arousal.


And all is relative, relative
Everything is subjective and depends on the person looking at it.


Everything is relative, yes it is
This is a statement that reinforces the previous line.


[Chorus]
This is the chorus of the song, which is about the relative nature of things.


It's all about the way we receive it
Our perspective or the way we look at things affects how we perceive them.


How much we believe it
Our beliefs also impact how we perceive things.


Depending on the life you lead, if you lead it
Our life experiences play a huge role in how we view things.


Compare it to yourself
When comparing something, we should compare it to our own experiences and perspective.


Compared to someone else, you care
When we compare to others, it is because we care about how we measure up or stack up against them.


And if you pick the threads in your closet, the cash in your wallet
This is a reference to material things that people often use to compare themselves to others.


The color of the skin in your blood, and how you got it
This is another reference to physical features like race or ethnicity that are often used as a basis for comparison.


Pre-made isn't quite home made
Something that is premade or store-bought is not the same as something you make at home.


But pre-made with a home name
If something has a brand name that you know and trust, it can be almost as good as something homemade.


Is almost just the same
It is very similar in quality or taste.


Your girlfriend
A romantic partner, usually female.


Isn't your best friend
A romantic partner is not the same as a close, platonic friend.


But any friend is best when
Having any friend is better than having no friends, especially when in need of support or comfort.


You're freezing in the rain
This is a hypothetical scenario in which someone is cold and exposed to the weather.


You're either underweight or you're unfit
This is a reference to body image and the societal pressure to be a certain weight or level of fitness.


Under dressed or over zipped
This is another reference to personal appearance and how it is judged by society.


Too social or you're just too shy
This refers to personality traits that are often praised or criticized in our culture.


Too depressed or you're too high
This refers to mental states that are also often criticized or praised depending on context.


Night to day
This line refers to the shift between day and night, which is a natural and inevitable cycle.


Day to night
This line is the same as the previous one but in reverse order.


Rich to poor
This line refers to socioeconomic status and the relative nature of wealth and poverty.


Black or white
This line refers to race and ethnicity, which are often used as the basis for comparison and judgment.


All is relative
This is a restatement of the main idea of the song.


Everything is relative
This is another way of saying that everything is subjective and depends on one's point of view.


[Chorus: x2]
This is a repetition of the chorus, which highlights the relative nature of things.


Oh yeah, yeah, yeah
This is a common phrase used in music to add emphasis or emotion to a song.


All is relative
This is a reaffirmation of the main idea of the song.


You care
The final word of the song is a reminder that we care about these things because they matter to us and our perception of the world around us.




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: GAVIN DEGRAW

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