I Really Don't Want to Know
Gene Clark Lyrics


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How many arms have held you
And hated to let you go
How many, how many I wonder
But I really don't want to know

How many lips have kissed you
And set your heart a-glow
How many, how many I wonder
But I really don't want to know

So always make me wonder
Always make me guess
And be there if I ask you
Darling don't confess

Just let it remain your secret
Cause darling I love you so




How many, how many I wonder
But I really don't want to know

Overall Meaning

The song "I Really Don't Want to Know" by Gene Clark is a classic country tune dealing with the painful emotions of jealousy and insecurity. The song's protagonist is struggling with the idea of his lover's previous romantic experiences. He is wondering how many people have held and kissed his lover before him. Although he is curious, deep down he knows that the truth might hurt him, so he decides he doesn't want to know about their past. The singer is questioning his partner's fidelity and sincerity towards him. This is likely due to his own feelings of inadequacy and fear of losing his partner.


The lyrics convey the complex emotions that come with this type of relationship. The singer fears that if he knows too much about his lover's past, he might not be able to handle it. He would rather stay in blissful ignorance than confront the harsh reality that his lover has had other romantic experiences. The line "just let it remain your secret, cause darling I love you so" suggests that the singer is willing to put up with his own fears and doubts in order to hold onto his love for his partner.


The song's timeless themes of jealousy, insecurity, and fear of abandonment have resonated with audiences for decades. It highlights the challenge of dealing with romantic vulnerability and the difficulty of trusting someone completely. The raw emotions expressed in the song have made it a classic not only in the country genre but in popular music as a whole.


Line by Line Meaning

How many arms have held you
How many people have held you in their arms


And hated to let you go
And were reluctant to let you go


How many, how many I wonder
I wonder how many


But I really don't want to know
But I don't actually want to know


How many lips have kissed you
How many people have kissed you on the lips


And set your heart a-glow
And made your heart feel happy and excited


So always make me wonder
So always keep me guessing


Always make me guess
Always keep me guessing


And be there if I ask you
And be present if I ask you about it


Darling don't confess
Darling, don't tell me the truth


Just let it remain your secret
Just keep it a secret


Cause darling I love you so
Because I love you so much


How many, how many I wonder
I wonder how many


But I really don't want to know
But I don't actually want to know




Lyrics © Wixen Music Publishing, DistroKid, BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Royalty Network, Spirit Music Group, Songtrust Ave, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Howard Barnes, Don Robertson

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