No Son of Mine
Genesis Lyrics


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Well, the key to my survival
Was never in much doubt
The question was how I could keep sane
Trying to find the way out

Things were never easy for me
Peace of mind was hard to find
And I needed a place where I could hide
Somewhere I could call mine

I didn't think much about it
Till it started happening all the time
Soon I was living with the fear everyday
Of what might happen at night

I couldn't stand to hear the
Crying of my mother
And I remember when
I swore that, that would be the
Last they'd see of me
And I never went home again

They say time is a healer
And now my wounds are not the same
I rang the bell with my heart in my mouth
I had to hear what he'd say

He sat me down to talk to me
He looked me straight in the eyes

He said:
"You're no son, you're no son of mine
You're no son, you're no son of mine
You walked out, you left us behind
And you're no son, you're no son of mine"

Oh his words how they hurt me
I'll never forget it
And as the time, it went by
I lived to regret it

You're no son, you're no son of mine
But where should I go
Please tell me what should I do
You're no son, you're no son of mine
But I came here for help
Oh I was looking for you

Well the years they passed so slowly
I thought about him everyday
What would I do, if we passed on the street
Would I keep running away

In and out of hiding places
Soon I'd have to face the facts
We'd have to sit down and talk it over
And that would mean going back

They say time is a healer
And now my wounds are not the same
I rang the bell with my heart in my mouth
I had to hear what he'd say

He sat me down to talk to me
He looked me straight in the eyes

He said:
"You're no son, you're no son of mine
You're no son, you're no son of mine
You walked out, you left us behind
And you're no son, you're no son of mine"

Oh his words how they hurt me
I'll never forget it
And as the time, it went by
I lived to regret it

You're no son, you're no son of mine
But where should I go
Please tell me what should I do

You're no son, you're no son of mine




But I came here for help
Oh I was looking for you

Overall Meaning

The song No Son of Mine by Genesis is a heart-wrenching take on the experience of a child who runs away from home and tries to outrun their past, only to come back seeking forgiveness. The singer describes the difficulty they faced growing up, with peace of mind and a place to call their own hard to come by. They couldn't bear to hear their mother crying and they swore that they would never return home. The haunting chorus of "You're no son, you're no son of mine" shows the pain of the separation from their family.


As time passes by, the singer realizes that they need a resolution to the pain that they have been carrying. They go back to try and make amends with their family, even though they know it will not be easy. They describe the physical pain they feel as they go to ring the doorbell, knowing that what they are seeking might be hard to come by. The song ends with a sense of uncertainty, with the singer not knowing if they will be welcomed back home.


No Son of Mine is a moving song with a universal theme of the pain of separation and the search for forgiveness. The lyrics touch a chord with listeners and have helped the song become one of the most popular hits by Genesis. The symbolism of the idea of home and the powerful emotion of regret and longing make for a poignant song that continues to resonate with audiences.


Line by Line Meaning

Well, the key to my survival
My ability to survive was never in question


Was never in much doubt
I always had confidence in my survival


The question was how I could keep sane
My main concern was maintaining my mental health


Trying to find the way out
I was seeking a way to escape my difficult circumstances


Things were never easy for me
I faced many challenges in my life


Peace of mind was hard to find
I struggled to find contentment and tranquility in my life


And I needed a place where I could hide
I required a space where I could seek refuge and safety


Somewhere I could call mine
A place to call my own


I didn't think much about it
I didn't consider the consequences


Till it started happening all the time
Until it became a regular occurrence


Soon I was living with the fear everyday
I experienced fear regularly


Of what might happen at night
Specifically, I was afraid of what could occur during the night


I couldn't stand to hear the
It was painful for me to hear the


Crying of my mother
My mother's tears brought me agony


And I remember when
I recall the time when


I swore that, that would be the
I made a promise that it would be the


Last they'd see of me
The last time my family would see me


And I never went home again
I never returned to my family after that


They say time is a healer
It is often said that time can heal emotional wounds


And now my wounds are not the same
My emotional wounds have changed over time


I rang the bell with my heart in my mouth
I nervously approached the door, unsure of what to expect


I had to hear what he'd say
I needed to hear what he had to say to me


He sat me down to talk to me
He invited me to sit and have a conversation


He looked me straight in the eyes
He made a direct and serious eye contact with me


"You're no son, you're no son of mine
"You are not my son"


You're no son, you're no son of mine
Repetition to emphasize lack of relationship


You walked out, you left us behind
You abandoned us and left us alone


Oh his words how they hurt me
His words caused me pain


I'll never forget it
I will always remember that moment


And as the time, it went by
As time passed


I lived to regret it
I was filled with regret


But where should I go
Where should I turn to


Please tell me what should I do
I need guidance and advice


But I came here for help
I am seeking assistance


Oh I was looking for you
I wanted to find you


Well the years they passed so slowly
Time seemed to pass slowly


I thought about him everyday
I would think about him every day


What would I do, if we passed on the street
If we met each other on the street


Would I keep running away
Would I continue to avoid him


In and out of hiding places
I would hide from him in various places


Soon I'd have to face the facts
I realized that I could no longer hide from the truth


We'd have to sit down and talk it over
We needed to have a conversation


And that would mean going back
To have a conversation, I would need to return to my past




Lyrics © CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC
Written by: Michael Rutherford, Phil Collins, Tony Banks

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LYRICS: (didn't see them posted):

Well the key to my survival
Was never in much doubt
The question was how I could keep sane?
Trying to find a way out

Things were never easy for me
Peace of mind was hard to find
And I needed a place where I could hide
Somewhere I could call mine

I didn't think much about it
Till it started happening all the time
Soon I was living with the fear everyday
Of what might happen that night?

I couldn't stand to hear the crying of my mother
And I remember when I swore that
That would be the last they'd see of me
And I never went home again

They say that time is a healer
And now my wounds are not the same
I rang a bell with my heart in my mouth
I had to hear what he'd say

He sat me down to talk to me
He looked me straight in the eyes
He said, "You're no son, you're no son of mine
You're no son, you're no son of mine
You walked out, you left us behind
And you're no son, you're no son of mine"

Oh, his words how they hurt me, I'll never forget it
And as the time it went by, I lived to regret it
You're no son, you're no son of mine
But where should I go? And what should I do?
You're no son, you're no son of mine
But I came here for help, oh I came here for you

Well the years they passed so slowly
I thought about him everyday
What would I do if we passed on the street
Would I keep running away?

In and out of hiding places
Soon I'd have to face the facts
We'd have to sit down and talk it over
And that would mean going back

They say that time is a healer
And now my wounds are not the same
But I rang that bell with my heart in my mouth
I had to hear what he'd say

He sat me down to talk to me
He looked me straight in the eyes
He said, "You're no son, you're no son of mine
You're no son, you're no son of mine
You walked out, you left us behind
And you're no son, you're no son of mine"

Oh, his words how they hurt me, I'll never forget it
And as the time it went by, I lived to regret it
You're no son, you're no son of mine
But where should I go? And what should I do?
You're no son, you're no son of mine
But I came here for help, oh I was looking for you

You're no son, you're no son of mine, oh
You're no son, ha yeah, ha yeah, ha yeah
You're no son, you're no son of mine, oh, oh

Songwriters: Anthony Banks / Phil Collins / Michael Rutherford



All comments from YouTube:

@charlesstull4582

This song hits home my dad was a piece of s____. But I got 3 boys now & they all know that I'm here for them. The good Lord has blessed me 🙏

@vxy357

Good for you. Be the father he never was.

@vonhayes6391

My dad beat the shit outta me and my brother weekly as young children and I loved him til the day he died, serious shit

@skystorm569

God bless you. Jesus Christ be praised.

@Zizzyyzz

@Willie Gordon Twisted logic. As if that's an excuse to abuse a child. You sound like an abuser as well.

@knumbugs

@Willie Gordon I'm not sure that's any consolation. Not ever existing isn't so bad. Think about it. None of us existed for the first 13+ billion years of the universe.... Personally I don't remember thinking all that time, "this non existence really sucks, oh if only someone could bring me into life!"

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@rjheidt

Who’s still listening to this masterpiece in 2040 ?

@markchavez3264

Holy Sh*T, I had forgotten that Genesis and Phil Collins put this song out there. A very powerful song.

@mikeyates7931

Prediction : the vast majority of us listening to this can relate to it for very personal and very painful reasons

@luciezak3671

Yes 😢

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