It Doesn't Really Matter
George Michael Lyrics


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It doesn't really matter that I loved you
How many reasons call
It doesn't really matter at all
It doesn't really matter that I failed to
Break down your father's wall
It doesn't really matter at all

Why tell me you don't understand when you do
I thought I had something to say

But it doesn't really matter at all...
I changed my name to be rid of the things that I want from you
It's strange but the name is a name and the truth is a truth

Oh, there is always, always someone there to remind me
So I learn to live with shame
I tell myself I feel no pain
But I do and if I have to tell you

Then it doesn't really matter at all...
And it's no good looking back
Because time is a thief and I believe that I'm too old for that
We're just saying the things that we have said forever

It doesn't really matter that I loved you
How many reasons fall




It's too bad
It really doesn't matter at all

Overall Meaning

In "It Doesn't Really Matter," George Michael laments the end of a past relationship with someone he loved deeply but failed to break down their father's wall, indicating that he was unable to make a meaningful connection with this person's family. The lyrics convey a sense of resignation and acceptance, as he admits that all of his love and effort ultimately didn't matter. He also touches on the theme of regret, wishing he could go back and change things, but acknowledging that time is a thief and it's too late to do so.


The chorus, "It doesn't really matter at all," is repeated throughout the song, emphasizing the idea that sometimes love and effort are futile, and there's nothing that can be done to change the past. Michael changes his name in an attempt to distance himself from his former love and move on, but he's haunted by memories and reminders of this failed relationship.


Overall, the song is a melancholic reflection on lost love and missed opportunities, and the feelings of shame and regret that can accompany these experiences.


Line by Line Meaning

It doesn't really matter that I loved you
The fact that I loved you doesn't hold any significance now


How many reasons call
No matter how many reasons there were to love you, it's irrelevant


It doesn't really matter at all
The previous two lines emphasize that the love is in the past and has no bearing on the present


It doesn't really matter that I failed to
It's not important that my attempts to break down your father's wall weren't successful


Break down your father's wall
Refers to a literal or metaphorical wall that held them apart - either way, the attempt failed and is inconsequential now


Why tell me you don't understand when you do
The other person is pretending not to understand, despite actually comprehending


I thought I had something to say
George Michael originally intended to express something meaningful, but now feels it doesn't matter


But it doesn't really matter at all...
Reiterates the point that the whole situation is of no importance


I changed my name to be rid of the things that I want from you
George Michael took a drastic step to distance himself from wanting anything from the other person


It's strange but the name is a name and the truth is a truth
The name change was a superficial attempt to change the reality of the situation


Oh, there is always, always someone there to remind me
There are reminders of their past relationship everywhere, making it hard for George Michael to move on


So I learn to live with shame
Feeling ashamed for still thinking about the relationship, George Michael has learned to live with the struggle


I tell myself I feel no pain
George Michael tries to convince himself that he's not in pain, but he really is


But I do and if I have to tell you
The pain is there and if necessary, George Michael will admit it to the other person


Then it doesn't really matter at all...
Again, no matter what is said, it won't change the past, so it doesn't matter


And it's no good looking back
Looking back is fruitless, as they can't change anything


Because time is a thief and I believe that I'm too old for that
The passage of time is like a thief that has stolen the opportunity to revisit their past relationship, and in any case, George Michael feels too old for that kind of sentimental nonsense now


We're just saying the things that we have said forever
They're stuck in a cycle of repeating the same unproductive conversations about their past relationship - something that will continue forever if they don't move on


It doesn't really matter that I loved you
The song comes full circle, emphasizing once again that the love is in the past and doesn't matter anymore


How many reasons fall
Despite the many reasons there may have been to love the other person, they're inconsequential now


It's too bad
A sentiment of regret, acknowledging that things didn't work out


It really doesn't matter at all
The final reiteration of the song's central theme - that regardless of what was felt in the past, it has no bearing on the present




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: GEORGE MICHAEL

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InSleeplessToronto1

I was doing my internship for MBA at Harrods of London for three months. I saw this beautiful man in person on the 4th floor in October 1993. Despite my efforts, I missed shaking his hands due to huge crowd around him. A true gentleman inside out. It actually does not matter what anyone says, George was a real star singer, a rare talent.

Michael Crawford

were you at the concert of hope in 1993?

InSleeplessToronto1

@Michael Crawford no, I never had a chance to attend any of his concerts.

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Biggest Talent Since The Invention Of Music

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