When Did You Stop Loving Me
George Strait Lyrics


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When did you stop loving me?
How long have I been a memory?
I've gotta know for my own sanity
Tell me when did you stop loving me?

Was it that night that you stayed out until dawn?
You know that night has haunted me for so long
Or was your love already cold?
Tell me please, I've gotta know
Darling, when did you stop loving me?

There was a time when you worshiped where I stood
Heaven knows I'd bring it back if I could
Now I can tell when we make love
It ain't me you're thinking of
Tell me when did you stop loving me?





Darling, when did you stop loving me?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of George Strait's song "When Did You Stop Loving Me?" tell a sad story of a love that has ended, leaving the singer with a broken heart and a lot of unanswered questions. Throughout the song, the singer pleads with his former lover to tell him when their love affair started to crumble, asking her if it was a specific night or if her love had been cold for longer than he realized. He recalls a time when she worshiped him, and he longs to bring that back, but he knows that her passion has gone cold. The song ends with the singer begging for answers that he may never get as he asks, "Darling, when did you stop loving me?"


The song paints a vivid picture of a love gone sour, and its lyrics brilliantly capture the pain and confusion that many people experience when they've been left by someone they love. The questions that the singer asks throughout the song are those that anyone who has been through heartbreak will understand, and his plea for answers is one that we can all relate to. George Strait's emotive vocals add to the song's power, and its gentle melody is soothing even as it carries a deep sense of loss.


Line by Line Meaning

When did you stop loving me?
Asking the person when exactly they stopped loving the singer


How long have I been a memory?
Wondering how long the person has been just a memory to the ex


I've gotta know for my own sanity
Expressing the need to know for the singer's own sanity


Tell me when did you stop loving me?
Reiterating the question for clarity


Was it that night that you stayed out until dawn?
Asking if the night when the person stayed out until dawn was the reason for falling out of love


You know that night has haunted me for so long
Stating that the night has been lingering in the singer's mind for a long time


Or was your love already cold?
Asking if the person's love was already gone before that night


Tell me please, I've gotta know
Asking for an honest answer to clear things up


Darling, when did you stop loving me?
Adding an affectionate address before repeating the question


There was a time when you worshiped where I stood
Recalling a time when the person adored the artist


Heaven knows I'd bring it back if I could
Expressing the desire to go back to that time if possible


Now I can tell when we make love
Saying that the artist can tell when they make love if the person is not fully into it


It ain't me you're thinking of
Concluding that the person is not thinking of the singer when they make love


Tell me when did you stop loving me?
Repeating the question one last time




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Donny Kees, Monty Holmes

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