All by Myself
Gilbert O'Sullivan Lyrics


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Having been so long a loner
Always coping on my own
Girls were more or less
A trail of one night stands
But with you I realized
The morning after you arrived
A change of plans (a change of plans)
Instead of wishing you'd leave
I got down on my knees
Begged and pleaded with you
Not to get dressed
It's no secret that I love you
But what good is our affair
If I can't have you all to myself

She says while you're having fun
You are not the only one
There is someone else she sees
From time to time
Into detail she won't go
Only that he loves her so
But that's unkind (that's unkind)

Well you'll have to decide
I may not be riding high
In fact I'm so down
That I'm almost in hell...
Have you no consideration
What am I supposed to feel
If I can't have you all to my
(Can't have you all to my)
Can't have you all to myself

If I (can't have you all) to myself
If I (can't have you all) to myself
If I (can't have you all,
Can't have you all,
Can't have you all) to myself

I don't know what I'm supposed to do
Love they say can break your
Heart in two
I always thought, rubbish, that's
Not true
It's true

You think you should run around
You don't want to settle down
Still you like me more than anyone else
It's not like me to be jealous
But what else is there to do
If I can't have you all to my




(Can't have you all to my)
Can't have you all to myself

Overall Meaning

In Gilbert O'Sullivan's song "All By Myself," the singer confesses that he has always been a loner and has had a history of one-night stands with girls. However, his perspective changes when he meets someone who he wants to have a more serious relationship with. He realizes that he doesn't want her to leave and pleads with her to stay. He admits that he loves her but wonders what good their relationship is if he can't have her all to himself.


The woman responds by telling him that she has someone else in her life but doesn't want to go into detail. She challenges him with the idea that he is not the only one who can have fun with her. He is hurt and asks her to consider his feelings. He declares that he wants her all to himself but acknowledges that he may not be in a position to demand that.


The song explores the themes of jealousy, possessiveness, and the desire for exclusivity in a relationship. It is a poignant portrayal of the complexities and challenges that can arise in romantic relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

Having been so long a loner
Having lived single for a long time


Always coping on my own
Always managing things without anyone else's help


Girls were more or less A trail of one night stands
His prior relationships with girls were short-lived and casual


But with you I realized The morning after you arrived A change of plans (a change of plans)
Meeting a special person made him reconsider his perspective on relationships


Instead of wishing you'd leave I got down on my knees Begged and pleaded with you Not to get dressed
He enjoyed being with this special person and didn't want them to leave


It's no secret that I love you But what good is our affair If I can't have you all to myself
He loves this person and wants to be exclusive with them


She says while you're having fun You are not the only one There is someone else she sees From time to time
The person he loves is seeing someone else casually


Into detail she won't go Only that he loves her so But that's unkind (that's unkind)
The person he loves won't reveal much about their other relationship, which he finds hurtful


Well you'll have to decide I may not be riding high In fact I'm so down That I'm almost in hell...
He is leaving the decision with the person he loves, but is suffering because of their divided attention


Have you no consideration What am I supposed to feel If I can't have you all to my (Can't have you all to my) Can't have you all to myself
He feels neglected and unimportant, and needs exclusivity to be happy


If I (can't have you all) to myself If I (can't have you all) to myself If I (can't have you all, Can't have you all, Can't have you all) to myself
He repeats his desire for exclusivity with the person he loves


I don't know what I'm supposed to do Love they say can break your Heart in two I always thought, rubbish, that's Not true It's true
He is conflicted and doesn't know how to proceed, although he always thought love was more positive than negative


You think you should run around You don't want to settle down Still you like me more than anyone else
The person he loves doesn't want a committed relationship, but likes him the most


It's not like me to be jealous But what else is there to do If I can't have you all to my (Can't have you all to my) Can't have you all to myself
He doesn't want to be jealous, but he can't help it if he can't have exclusivity with the person he loves




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@craig1538

Sad news from his official website: Eric Carmen passed away today aged 74. His music will live on in our hearts and minds, and our condolences go to his family, friends and fans at this sad time.

@bluesky11187

Oh my heart is broken such a masterpiece , rest in peace 😭

@AlgoNudger

First comment, huh?

@Imnottapinata

RiP

@lmeupos218

Just read the sad news. That’s why I’m here. Great singer.

@sharoncorbin5466

RIP his music will live on. Classic

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@michealsullivan4205

Shortly after graduating from high school, my girlfriend died in a car accident. After a few months of trying to heal from her loss I enlisted in the Navy as a Hospital Corpsman. I eventually found myself in the middle of the Mojave desert at Marine Corps base 29 Palms as a field medic/base dispensary corpsman. A "sand sailor"...and about as isolated as one could get. At that time you couldn't get radio or television reception unless you paid for a cable sevice. 1976 I found this album at the base exchange and could really relate to this song. On my "down days" I would play this song from time to time. I still have the album. RIP Eric Carmen.

@theminecrafthaag1609

God bless you, life teaches to be resilient and strong.

@angelaangela7356

@johnmorrison3970

Was that near China Lake in the Mojave?

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