love/hate
Girls Aloud Lyrics


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Same old routine
It's just a different day
Still I don't know what's going on
With you
The smell of you, still lingers on my skin
But you are nowhere to be seen
And boy
I bet you're balling up
Even though it's tough
I'm gonna lay it on the line
And if I'm asking you boy
Open up and let me know

Is it love, hate?
What's it gonna be?
Baby make, break
Tell me what you see
Is it you, me?
Are we gonna make it through?
Always up, down
Running me around
When I give, take
You don't reciprocate
Is it love, hate?
Tell me what it's gonna be

No one deserves
What you have put me through
won't tolerate a life this way with you
Worth so much more
That a bad excuse to leave
You take a piece of me
You do

I bet you're balling up
Even though it's tough
I'm gonna lay it on the line
And if I'm asking you boy
Open up and let me know

Is it love, hate?
What's it gonna be?
Baby make, break
Tell me what you see
Is it you, me?
Are we gonna make it through?
Always up, down
Running me around
When I give, take
You don't reciprocate
Is it love, hate?
Tell me what it's gonna be

Is it love, hate?
What's it gonna be?
Baby make, break
Tell me what you see
Is it you, me?
Are we gonna make it through?
Always up, down
Running me around
When I give, take
You don't reciprocate
Is it love, hate?
Tell me what it's gonna be

Oh, oh
Is it love, hate?
What's it gonna be?
Baby make, break
Tell me what you see
Is it you, me?
Are we gonna make it through?
Always up, down
Running me around
When I give, take
You don't reciprocate




Is it love, hate?
Tell me what it's gonna be

Overall Meaning

The opening verses of "Love/Hate" by Girls Aloud depict a situation where the singer is in a love-hate relationship with her partner. Despite being together for a long time, the singer doesn't understand what her partner's feelings for her are. The lyrics also suggest that the partner is struggling with some issues but is putting up a brave face. The remnants of their relationship linger on the singer's skin, but the partner is nowhere to be seen. As the chorus starts, the singer urges the partner to open up and communicate their feelings clearly, asking if their relationship is love or hate, if they are going to make it work, and if their reciprocity is genuine. The singer also expresses a sense of being short-changed, as their giving is not being matched by the partner's contribution to the relationship.


The lyrics of the song suggest that Girls Aloud, the band, are interested in exploring the dynamics of a relationship where the line between love and hate is a thin one. However, it's also worth noting that the lyrics of "Love/Hate" can be interpreted as a commentary on the desperation that some people experience while they chase after people who repeatedly fail to reciprocate their love.


Line by Line Meaning

Same old routine
The same monotonous life, nothing changes


It's just a different day
Regardless of the day, life remains the same


Still I don't know what's going on
Uncertainty and confusion persist in life


With you
The state of things is related to a person, implied that it's not going well with them


The smell of you, still lingers on my skin
Physical presence still affects her even though they are apart


But you are nowhere to be seen
The person is inaccessible, detached or disappeared


And boy
Addressing a male person


I bet you're balling up
Assuming that the person is having a hard time


Even though it's tough
The assumed struggles are not simple


I'm gonna lay it on the line
She will be forthright in confronting the situation


And if I'm asking you boy
Regardless of the fear of the answer, she still wants to know the truth


Open up and let me know
The request for honesty, transparency and sincerity from the other person


Is it love, hate?
A question regarding the nature and quality of their relationship


What's it gonna be?
An invitation to express their intentions, whatever they might be


Baby make, break
She's dependent and determined and needs to know where they stand


Tell me what you see
Asking that they provide insight into their perspective


Is it you, me?
Asking the person to clarify whether the issue is them or the artist


Are we gonna make it through?
If the relationship can be saved, or if they are effectively doomed


Always up, down
Their relationship is extremely volatile, with frequent ups and downs


Running me around
The person tends to manipulate, control, or make difficult the situation


When I give, take
The relationship feels one-sided, where the artist is always giving and the other is always taking


You don't reciprocate
The other person does not demonstrate or communicate their love, affection, interest, or devotion


No one deserves
The singer does not deserve the difficult, harmful situations they've been in


What you have put me through
The other person is responsible for the artist's pain and suffering


Won't tolerate a life this way with you
The singer can't and won't live like this any longer


Worth so much more
The singer deserves better than what they are currently living


That a bad excuse to leave
The other person or relationship is not an acceptable excuse to leave, one wants to leave on their terms


You take a piece of me
The relationship drains, exhausts or impacts negatively on the artist


Oh, oh
Vocalization possibly to display emotion, exasperation, or frustration




Lyrics © Peermusic Publishing, WORDS & MUSIC A DIV OF BIG DEAL MUSIC LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: BRIAN THOMAS HIGGINS, EVE BICKER, MATTHEW DEL GRAY, MYRA ANTONIO BOYLE, NIARA SCARLETT, SHAWN LEE MAHAN, TIM ELLIOT LARCOMBE, TIMOTHY MARTIN POWELL

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