But Not for Me
Gladys Knight Lyrics


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Old man sunshine listen you
Never tell me dreams come true
Just try it and I'll start a riot
Beatrice Fairfax don't you dare
Ever tell me he will care
I'm certain it's the final curtain
I never want to hear from any cheerful Pollyannas
Who tell you fate supplies a mate
It's all bananas

They're writing songs of love but not for me
A lucky star's above but not for me
With love to lead the way I've found more clouds of gray
Than any Russian play could guarantee

I was a fool to fall and get that way
Hi-ho, alas, and also lack-a-day
Although I can't dismiss the memory of his kiss
I guess he's not for me

I was a fool to fall and get that way




Hi-ho, alas, and also lack-a-day
Although I can't dismiss the memory of his kiss

Overall Meaning

Gladys Knight's song "But Not For Me" is a powerful and emotional song about unrequited love. The lyrics explore the feelings of heartbreak and despair when someone you love doesn't love you back. The song begins with the singer rejecting the idea that dreams come true and that fate will supply them with a mate. They believe it's all nonsense and the final curtain has been drawn on their love life. They go on to express their frustration with optimistic people like Beatrice Fairfax, who try to convince them that their luck will change. The singer knows better and is sure that love is not in the cards for them.


The song then moves into a melancholic reflection on the singer's romantic failures. They lament that while others have found love, they have not been so lucky. The imagery of the lucky star above, representing the hope of finding love, only serves to emphasize the pain of their own situation. The singer describes how their attempts to find love have led to disappointment and an endless sea of "clouds of gray". The reference to a "Russian play" speaks to the weight of the sorrow they feel, as Russian literature and theatre are known for their dark and profound depictions of sadness.


The final verses acknowledge the singer's own foolishness in falling for someone who doesn't love them back. They realize that they must move on, but cannot dismiss the memory of the person's kiss. The longing and sadness present throughout the song make it an emotionally charged exploration of the pain of unrequited love.


Line by Line Meaning

Old man sunshine listen you
The singer addresses the concept of hope in life


Never tell me dreams come true
The singer rejects the notion that aspirations actually become reality


Just try it and I'll start a riot
The singer uses hyperbole to emphasize their skepticism


Beatrice Fairfax don't you dare
The artist warns against trusting another person's claims about relationships


Ever tell me he will care
The artist doubts the possibility of finding genuine affection


I'm certain it's the final curtain
The singer speaks with conviction that their love life is over


I never want to hear from any cheerful Pollyannas
The singer rejects the optimism of those who insist on brighter days ahead


Who tell you fate supplies a mate
The artist dismisses the idea of fate determining their romantic future


It's all bananas
The artist finds all romantic claims absurd and illogical


They're writing songs of love but not for me
The artist bemoans the absence of love songs that apply to their life


A lucky star's above but not for me
The singer acknowledges that fortune does not favor them


With love to lead the way I've found more clouds of gray
The artist notices that love has brought more sadness than happiness


Than any Russian play could guarantee
The singer uses hyperbole to emphasize the extent of their heartache


I was a fool to fall and get that way
The singer criticizes themselves for falling in love and getting hurt


Hi-ho, alas, and also lack-a-day
The singer uses old-fashioned, melancholic expressions to describe their emotional state


Although I can't dismiss the memory of his kiss
The artist admits that they can't completely forget the positive moments of the past relationship


I guess he's not for me
The artist concludes that the person they fell in love with is not meant for them




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: George Gershwin, Ira Gershwin

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on Mr. Love

I'm 84 years old and I've never heard this beautiful message. My daughter introduced it to me and I'm gonna keep listening. I love it

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