Big Girls Don't Cry
Glee Cast Lyrics


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Rachel:
Laladada...
The smell of your skin lingers on me now
You're probably on your flight back to your hometown
I need some shelter of my own protection, baby
Be with myself and center, clarity, peace, serenity

All:
I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It's personal, myself and I
We've got some straightenin' out to do

Blaine:
And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
But I've got to get a move on with my life
It's time to be a big girl now
And big girls don't cry
Don't cry, don't cry, don't cry

Rachel:
The path that I'm walkin' I must go alone
I must take the baby steps 'til I'm full grown, full grown
Fairy tales don't always have a happy ending, do they?
And I foresee the dark ahead if I stay

All:
I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to with you
It's personal, myself and I
We've got some straightenin' out to do

Rachel:
And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
But I've got to get a move on with my life
It's time to be a big girl now
And big girls don't cry

Kurt:
Like the little school mate in the school yard
We'll play jacks and Uno cards
I'll be your best friend and you'll be mine, Valentine

Blaine:
Yes, you can hold my hand if you want to
'Cause I want to hold yours too
We'll be playmates and lovers and share our secret worlds

Rachel:
But it's time for me to go home
It's getting late, dark outside
I need to be with myself, and center, clarity, peace, serenity, yeah

All:
I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It's personal, myself and I
We've got some straightenin' out to do

And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
But I've got to get a move on with my life
It's time to be a big girl now




And big girls don't cry
Don't cry, don't cry, don't cry

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Big Girls Don't Cry by Glee Cast are about moving on from a relationship and being independent. Rachel sings about the lingering scent of her former lover on her skin, revealing that he is on his flight back to his hometown. She acknowledges that she needs to be with herself to find clarity and peace. She tells her partner that their breakup has nothing to do with him, but it is something personal that she needs to work through.


Blaine joins in, saying that he will miss his partner like a child misses a blanket, but he knows it is time to move on with his life. He reminds himself that it is time to be a big girl now and big girls do not cry. Rachel repeats that she needs to walk her path alone, take baby steps until she is full grown, and acknowledges that fairy tales do not always have happy endings.


Kurt and Blaine then sing about being best friends and lovers, sharing their secret worlds, and holding hands. Rachel concludes by saying that it is time for her to go home and be with herself. The repetition of the chorus reinforces the theme that although it may be difficult to move on from a relationship, it is necessary to grow and thrive as an individual.


Line by Line Meaning

The smell of your skin lingers on me now
I still feel your presence on me very strongly


You're probably on your flight back to your hometown
You are most likely already leaving for your hometown by now


I need some shelter of my own protection, baby
I need some time for myself to be protected and safe


Be with myself and center, clarity, peace, serenity
I need to be alone to be calm, focused, clear-headed and peaceful


I hope you know, I hope you know That this has nothing to do with you It's personal, myself and I We've got some straightenin' out to do
I hope you realize that my actions are not about you, it's just personal issues that I need to resolve by myself


And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket But I've got to get a move on with my life It's time to be a big girl now And big girls don't cry Don't cry, don't cry, don't cry
As much as I'll miss you, it's time for me to move on and be strong, because big girls don't cry.


The path that I'm walkin' I must go alone I must take the baby steps 'til I'm full grown, full grown Fairy tales don't always have a happy ending, do they? And I foresee the dark ahead if I stay
I have to go through this journey by myself and take small steps until I become fully mature. Not every story has a happy ending, and I can see myself going through a rough phase if I don't leave now.


Like the little school mate in the school yard We'll play jacks and Uno cards I'll be your best friend and you'll be mine, Valentine
We can play childhood games like jacks and Uno, and I'll be your best friend just like you'll be mine.


Yes, you can hold my hand if you want to 'Cause I want to hold yours too We'll be playmates and lovers and share our secret worlds
We can hold hands and be lovers while still enjoying our playful and secret worlds together.


But it's time for me to go home It's getting late, dark outside I need to be with myself, and center, clarity, peace, serenity, yeah
It's time for me to return to my own space, as it's getting late and dark. I need to be alone, focused, calm and peaceful.


And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket But I've got to get a move on with my life It's time to be a big girl now And big girls don't cry Don't cry, don't cry, don't cry
Even though I'll miss you dearly, I have to be strong and move forward because big girls don't cry.




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Da da da da
The smell of your skin lingers on me now
You're probably on your flight back to your home town
I need some shelter of my own protection, baby
To be with myself and center
Clarity, peace, serenity
I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It's personal, myself and I
We've got some straightenin' out to do
And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
But I've got to get a move on with my life
It's time to be a big girl now
And big girls don't cry

But it's time for me to go home
It's getting late and dark outside
I need to be with myself and center
Clarity, peace, serenity
I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It's personal, myself and I
We've got some straightenin' out to do
And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
But I've got to get a move on with my life
It's time to be a big girl now
And big girls don't cry



All comments from YouTube:

dxye art

I always thought Rachel and Blaine's voices worked really well together, and I wish they got more duets!

kit l

dxye art well Darren (Blaine) and Lea (Rachel) are going on tour together so there are many new videos of them singing together

dxye art

Kit L I guess, but I meant on glee

Adah Kaplan

They both have rich voices with depth and it blends beautifully

Rebecca Lynn Stewart

Lea and Darren have a Christmas song too. It's not glee, but if you like their voices they're still the same lol

VanilaxStars

Yeah

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Blake Fletcher

i always loved how glee worked. I wish real life was like this....you start singing a sad song and out of nowhere your best friend and his boyfriend dont even ask they just back you up perfectly.

sofiaboo

YES

Bridget David

Blake Fletcher Same here

Dakota Grady

YES

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