Beat Me
Goo Goo Dolls Lyrics


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Beat me, Jenny,
Beat me slowly, now
Beat me, Jenny,
Don't you know, I said
Beat me, Jenny,
Beat me slowly, now
Beat me, Jenny,
Don't you know
I didn't love you
All of the time
But now you left me
And it's a crime

Shanamama, I ain't beaten now
Shanamama, don't you know, I said
Shanamama, I ain't beaten now
Shanamama, don't you know

Beat me, Jenny,
Beat me slowly, now
Beat me, Jenny,
Don't you know, I said
Beat me, Jenny,
Beat me slowly, now
Beat me, Jenny, don't you know

I could've loved you
I didn't try




You made me happy
Oh, I've gotta fly.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Goo Goo Dolls' song "Beat Me" may seem straightforward at first, but upon closer analysis, there are different interpretations of the song. One interpretation is that the singer is asking his ex-girlfriend, Jenny, to hurt him emotionally because he is unable to do it himself. The fact that he repeats the same line, "beat me slowly, now," implies that he is looking for a slow and painful emotional torment. He admits that he did not love her all of the time, but now that she has left him, he feels that it is a crime. This might suggest that he wants to be punished for not fully loving her when he could have.


Another interpretation is that the singer is telling his ex-girlfriend, Jenny, that she did not love him enough, and he is now changed because of it. By asking her to beat him slowly, he is demanding that she hurts him emotionally, so he can feel the pain that he has been hiding from. When he says "I didn't love you all of the time," he is reminding Jenny that she did not always show him love, and now that she has left him, he realizes how much she meant to him.


Overall, the song portrays a jarring image of an individual looking for emotional pain, either to punish themselves or to feel the depth of love that was lacking in their previous relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

Beat me, Jenny,
Asking Jenny to emotionally hurt him.


Beat me slowly, now
Asking Jenny to take her time to inflict the emotional pain.


Don't you know, I said
Ensuring that Jenny is listening to him and acknowledging his request.


I didn't love you
Admitting that he didn't love her all the time.


All of the time
Acknowledging that his love wasn't consistent.


But now you left me
Realizing that he lost her.


And it's a crime
Feeling remorseful that he didn't appreciate what he had with her.


Shanamama, I ain't beaten now
Addressing someone named Shanamama, letting them know that he is no longer emotionally vulnerable.


Shanamama, don't you know, I said
Ensuring that Shanamama is listening and understanding his current state.


I could've loved you
Regretting that he didn't try harder to love her more consistently.


I didn't try
Admitting that he didn't put in the effort to love her more.


You made me happy
Realizing that she did bring him happiness.


Oh, I've gotta fly.
Accepting that he needs to move on from the relationship in order to grow and be happy.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: GEORGE TUTUSKA, JOHN T RZEZNIK, ROBERT C. JR. TAKAC

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