Standing In The Way Of Control
Gossip Lyrics


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Your back's against the wall
There's no-one home to call
You're forgetting who you are
You can't stop crying
It's part not giving in
And part trusting your friends
You do it all again
And I'm not lying

Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh
Oh oh Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh

Standing in the way of control
You live your life
Survive the only way that you know

I'm doing this for you
Because it's easier to lose
And it's hard to face the truth
When you think you're dying
It's part not giving in
And part trusting your friends
You do it all again
But you don't stop trying

Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh
Oh oh Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh

[x4]
Because Standing in the way of control
You live your life

Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh
Oh oh Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh

Standing in the way of control
We live our lives
Because we're standing in the way of control
We will live our lives
Because we're standing in the way of control
We live our lives
Because we're standing in the way of control
We will live our lives

Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh

Your back's against the wall
There's no-one home to call
You're forgetting who you are
You can't stop crying
It's part not giving in
And part trusting your friends
You do it all again
You don't stop trying

Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh
Oh oh Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh





Standing in the way of control
Survive the only way that you know

Overall Meaning

In Gossip's song "Standing in the Way of Control," the lyrics describe a person who feels trapped, alone, and unsure of themselves. The first verse paints a picture of someone with their "back against the wall" and "no one home to call," feeling like they've lost touch with their identity and unable to stop crying. The chorus repeats the line "standing in the way of control" as a metaphor for this individual's struggle to live their life and survive, as they face personal and societal obstacles that hinder their ability to be true to themselves.


The second verse suggests that the singer is singing to or on behalf of this person, saying, "I'm doing this for you / because it's easier to lose / and it's hard to face the truth / when you think you're dying." This could imply that the "hard truth" is something like coming out as queer, revealing some other aspect of themselves that isn't accepted by others, or just living authentically in a way that might cause others to judge or reject them. However, the singer encourages the person to "not give in" and "trust [their] friends," and reminds them that even if they fail, they can always try again.


Line by Line Meaning

Your back's against the wall
You feel trapped and facing an impossible situation


There's no-one home to call
You are alone with your problems and have no one to turn to


You're forgetting who you are
You have lost touch with your true self


You can't stop crying
You are overwhelmed and can't help but express your emotions


It's part not giving in
You know that the only way to get through this is to not give up


And part trusting your friends
You need the support and help of the people closest to you


You do it all again
You are faced with this challenge repeatedly and have to keep fighting it


And I'm not lying
You are being honest about the difficulty of the situation


Standing in the way of control
Your own obstacles are preventing you from making progress


You live your life
You are doing everything you can to survive and keep going


Survive the only way that you know
You are doing the best you can with the limited resources and options available to you


I'm doing this for you
I am trying to help you without making things worse


Because it's easier to lose
It might be easier to give up, but that is not the answer


And it's hard to face the truth
It's difficult to acknowledge the reality of the situation


When you think you're dying
You feel like this situation is life-threatening and unbearable


But you don't stop trying
You are relentlessly persevering despite the odds


We live our lives
We all face our own struggles and are doing our best to navigate them


Because we're standing in the way of control
We all have our own obstacles that we need to overcome




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: HANNAH BLILIE, MARY BETH PATTERSON, NATHAN HOWDESHELL

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@elagazela

Your back's against the wall
There's no-one home to call
You're forgetting who you are
You can't stop crying
It's part not giving in
And part trusting your friends
You do it all again
And I'm not lying
Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh
Oh oh Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh
Standing in the way of control
You live your life
Survive the only way that you know
I'm doing this for you
Because it's easier to lose
And it's hard to face the truth
When you think you're dying
It's part not giving in
And part trusting your friends
You do it all again
But you don't stop trying
Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh
Oh oh Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh
Because Standing in the way of control
You live your life
Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh
Oh oh Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh
Standing in the way of control
We live our lives
Because we're standing in the way of control
We will live our lives
Because we're standing in the way of control
We live our lives
Because we're standing in the way of control
We will live our lives
Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh
Your back's against the wall
There's no-one home to call
You're forgetting who you are
You can't stop crying
It's part not giving in
And part trusting your friends
You do it all again
You don't stop trying
Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh
Oh oh Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh
Standing in the way of control
Survive the only way that you know



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