Older
Gracie Abrams Lyrics


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Pinch me now, you're caught in my crossfire
Fell into my arms but they got tired
We were so good, weren't we?
'Til it just stopped working
Almost like we tore out the same page
And left a lot of room for new mistakes
You never quite let me in
When you felt cracks again

I stopped waving a flag
I just dropped all caring for that
I went quiet, and you went cold
Guess that happened when we got older

Humor me, could taking a break be the better thing?
Just letting each other breathe
Won't you just look at me?
Or am I too draining?

You spent hours awake holding back
I know I'm to blame
For the small talk and tip toeing over
Guess that happened when we got older

Mm-hmm
Mm-hmm

You spent hours awake holding back
I know I'm to blame




For the small talk and tip toeing over
Guess that happened when we got older

Overall Meaning

The first verse of Gracie Abrams's "Older" seems to capture the complicated feelings of a relationship that has gradually grown apart through the years. The opening lines "Pinch me now, you're caught in my crossfire / Fell into my arms but they got tired" evoke a sense of exhaustion and disillusionment. The singer seems to be highlighting the conflict that has emerged between them, as they remain caught in the same "crossfire" but no longer have the energy or enthusiasm to work through their problems.


The verse continues with a reflection on what went wrong in the relationship: "We were so good, weren't we? / 'Til it just stopped working / Almost like we tore out the same page / And left a lot of room for new mistakes". There is a sense of regret and a recognition that they had something special that they have lost. The metaphor of "tearing out the same page" is particularly poignant, highlighting the idea that they were once on the same page but diverged at some point, leaving a blank space that can only be filled with new mistakes.


The chorus of the song sees the singer reflecting on the changes that have happened in their relationship as they have grown older: "I stopped waving a flag / I just dropped all caring for that / I went quiet, and you went cold / Guess that happened when we got older". There is a sense of resignation and sadness in these lines, as the singer reflects on how things have changed in their relationship. The chorus ends with a plea for a break, a chance to "just letting each other breathe", but it's not clear whether this will be enough to fix what has been broken.


Overall, "Older" is a thoughtful and deeply felt reflection on the challenges of long-term relationships and the changes that come with growing older. The song balances moments of sadness and regret with a sense of hopefulness and a belief that things can still get better.


Line by Line Meaning

Pinch me now, you're caught in my crossfire
I feel like you're stuck in the middle of my personal struggles, and it's causing tension.


Fell into my arms but they got tired
You relied on me for comfort, but I couldn't keep giving without draining myself.


We were so good, weren't we?
We had a great relationship early on.


'Til it just stopped working
But something changed and we couldn't make it work anymore.


Almost like we tore out the same page
Our relationship ended abruptly, as if we both decided to end it.


And left a lot of room for new mistakes
We didn't really resolve our issues, so we were open to making new ones.


You never quite let me in
I always felt like there was a wall between us that you wouldn't let me through.


When you felt cracks again
Whenever something went wrong, you shut me out even more.


I stopped waving a flag
I gave up trying to fix things between us.


I just dropped all caring for that
I stopped caring about our relationship altogether.


I went quiet, and you went cold
I stopped talking to you, and you became distant.


Guess that happened when we got older
Maybe growing up made us realize that our relationship wasn't sustainable.


Humor me, could taking a break be the better thing?
Do you think we should take a break to see if it improve our relationship?


Just letting each other breathe
Maybe we need some space from each other.


Won't you just look at me?
Please pay attention to me and listen to what I'm saying.


Or am I too draining?
Am I asking too much of you?


You spent hours awake holding back
You kept your thoughts and feelings to yourself for a long time.


I know I'm to blame
I realize that I played a role in our relationship failing.


For the small talk and tip toeing over
We weren't truly communicating with each other, and it caused tension.


Guess that happened when we got older
Again, maybe we just grew apart as we got older.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Gracie Madigan Abrams

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

arsh

[Verse 1]
Pinch me now
You’re caught in my crossfire
Fell into my arms
But they got tired
We were so good, weren’t we?
Till it just stopped working
Almost like we tore out the same page
Left a lot of room for new mistakes
You never quite let me in
When you felt cracks again

[Chorus]
I stopped waving the flag
I just dropped
Oh, caring for that I went quiet
And you got cold
Guess that happened when we got older

[Verse 2]
Humour me
Could taking a break be the better thing?
Just let each other breathe
Would you just look at me?
Or am I too draining?

[Chorus]
You spent hours awake
Holding back
And I know I’m to blame for the small talk
And tiptoeing over
Guess that happened when we got older

[Chorus]
You spent hours awake
Holding back
And I know I’m to blame for the small talk
And tiptoeing over
Guess that happened when we got older



All comments from YouTube:

aubrie james

this song feels the scene in a movie with earbuds in on the train home after breaking up with your partner and a little movie of your memories with them plays

Aditya Anugrah

Omg yes. I'm thinking the same way

Fromwindow1 _

Omg I do play this song when im in the train and flashback and cry and repeat this song for 10 hours 😭😭😭😭😭💔

Amanda Matthews

Exactly!! ❤️

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♡Kim Parkook♡

Her voice is just:- I don't have any words. She's just another level.

harunito

i have never heard such a pretty song like this one before. the piano, the strings & her voice everything is just so beautiful and soft. it feels like a hug

harunito

@Andy S. i love 1sf3sb :)

Andy S.

You should definitely listen to 1 steps forward, 3 steps back by olivia rodrigo. It gives off almost the same vibe!

arsh

[Verse 1]
Pinch me now
You’re caught in my crossfire
Fell into my arms
But they got tired
We were so good, weren’t we?
Till it just stopped working
Almost like we tore out the same page
Left a lot of room for new mistakes
You never quite let me in
When you felt cracks again

[Chorus]
I stopped waving the flag
I just dropped
Oh, caring for that I went quiet
And you got cold
Guess that happened when we got older

[Verse 2]
Humour me
Could taking a break be the better thing?
Just let each other breathe
Would you just look at me?
Or am I too draining?

[Chorus]
You spent hours awake
Holding back
And I know I’m to blame for the small talk
And tiptoeing over
Guess that happened when we got older

[Chorus]
You spent hours awake
Holding back
And I know I’m to blame for the small talk
And tiptoeing over
Guess that happened when we got older

storyofalysha

dear gracie, i hope you know just how special you are and the gift you have. thank you for writing "this is what it feels like" that's really deeply meaning for me, your masterpiece is medicine. i love the way you write a song, i love the way you sing and thats the way i love you. i love your masterpiece always!♡

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