Don't Be A Stranger
Graham Coxon Lyrics


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God it takes you so long just to think
You're um and ah-in, I ain't laughing
Your brain so dead it's starting to stink
It's dripping awful by the earful nice, tonight

God it takes you so long just to think
You're um and ah-in, I ain't laughing
Your brain so dead it's starting to stink
It's dripping awful by the earful nice, tonight

Big rock, dog eating indie frog

Light yourself a cigarette, fix yourself a drink
Don't be a stranger, don't be stranger
Light yourself a cigarette, fix yourself a drink
Don't be a stranger to your shrink

I'm convinced that you're the missing link
Looking scary, very hairy
Half your nose is floating in the sink
I saw your nostrils forming eyeballs late last night

Big rock, dog eating indie frog

Light yourself a cigarette, fix yourself a drink
Don't be a stranger, don't be stranger
Light yourself a cigarette, fix yourself a drink
Don't be a stranger to your shrink

Big rock, dog eating indie frog

Light yourself a cigarette, fix yourself a drink
Don't be a stranger, don't be stranger
Light yourself a cigarette, fix yourself a drink
Don't be a stranger to your shrink

Light yourself a cigarette, fix yourself a drink
Don't be a stranger, don't be stranger




Light yourself a cigarette, fix yourself a drink
Don't be a stranger to your shrink

Overall Meaning

The lyrics in Graham Coxon's song "Don't Be A Stranger" are like a rolling stream of consciousness that seems to focus on the idea of not stuffing emotions or thoughts deep within oneself, and rather reaching out to others, especially a shrink. The song seems to be directed towards someone who’s lost their close ones because they are not dealing with their demons. The singer tries to encourage the person to open up to a shrink and not keep thoughts and emotions bottled up. The lyrics can be perceived as humorous at times and scathing at others, with lines like "Your brain so dead it's starting to stink" and "Half your nose is floating in the sink."


The chorus seems to suggest that people who become strangers to their own needs, emotions, and their shrink, have a tendency to disappear into a headspace that's completely inaccessible to others. "Light yourself a cigarette, fix yourself a drink, Don't be a stranger to your shrink" can be interpreted as light a cigarette, pour yourself a drink, but don't forget to communicate with your shrink, implying that people should reach out and connect with someone, instead of being a stranger or isolated.


Line by Line Meaning

God it takes you so long just to think
You are very slow in processing information


You're um and ah-in, I ain't laughing
You hesitate and stutter while speaking, which is not funny


Your brain so dead it's starting to stink
Your brain is lacking activity and is becoming unpleasant


It's dripping awful by the earful nice, tonight
Your thoughts are coming out in a negative and harsh way tonight


Big rock, dog eating indie frog
Random, nonsensical phrase that may mock someone's creativity or intelligence


Light yourself a cigarette, fix yourself a drink
Take some time to relax and unwind


Don't be a stranger, don't be stranger
Don't distance yourself, stay connected


Don't be a stranger to your shrink
Don't avoid seeking help from a professional


I'm convinced that you're the missing link
I believe that you are unevolved or not advanced in some way


Looking scary, very hairy
Your appearance is frightening and unappealing


Half your nose is floating in the sink
You are very messy or possibly under the influence of drugs


I saw your nostrils forming eyeballs late last night
You may have been hallucinating or experiencing strange visions




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Royalty Network
Written by: Coral Gordon, Geoff Gurd, GEOFFREY ROBERT GURD

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Comments from YouTube:

@terebi916

He's so great and I love him.

@keiwa11

Perfect song, Love Graham and Blur!!

@MedievalRichard

Great song.

@xpanda92

Graham has a fucking great voice.

@lbkeay

love the xylophone rock!

@epsohapshiro

1:52 most blurish part of the song.

@ImpacillaCarpisung

it is Graham, if Damon is singing it will be called Blur - Don`t be a stranger, hehe, jk

@Uzgenouzmis

it's Graham.

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