Hard to Handle
Grateful Dead Lyrics


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Baby, here I am and I'm a man upon the scene
I can give you what you want
But you got to come home with me
I got a whole lot of good ole
Loving and I got some in store
When I get through throwing it on to
You got to come back for more
Boys and things will come by the dozen
Ain't nothing but drug store love
Pretty little thing let me light your candle
Cause mama, I'm sure hard to handle
Now yes I am

Action speaks louder than words and I'm
A man with great experience
I know you got another man
But I can love you better than him
Take my hand
Don't be afraid I'm gonna prove
Every word I say
I'm advertising love for free so won't
You place your ad with me?

Boys and things will come by the dozen
Ain't nothing but drug store love
Pretty little thing let me light your candle

Give it to me baby, I got to have it
Some of your love




It's all I need, early in the morning
Late in the evening

Overall Meaning

The Grateful Dead's Hard to Handle is a song about a man trying to convince a woman to come home with him because he can give her what she wants. The song opens with the man boldly announcing that he is a man of the scene and that he can give her the kind of loving that she desires, but only if she goes home with him. He reminds her that he has a lot of good old loving, and there's even more in store for her once they get started. He's confident in his abilities and promises to be hard to handle.


Throughout the song, the man puts on a show of bravado and self-assuredness. He tries to convince the woman that he's better than any other man she's been with and that he can prove it. He pleads with her not to be afraid to take his hand and come home with him to experience his love for herself. The chorus, 'Boys and things will come by the dozen, Ain't nothin' but drug store love, Pretty little thing, let me light your candle,' serves to remind the woman that she has options, but none like him. He's more than just pretty words; he's got action and experience behind him.


The song captures the essence of a man trying to convince a woman to come home with him, promising to give her what she wants and needs. But despite his bold words and confident demeanor, it's not entirely clear whether the woman will take him up on his offer, adding a layer of romantic tension to the song.


Line by Line Meaning

Baby, here I am, and I'm a man upon the scene
I am here, present and ready, as a confident and experienced man


I can give you what you want, but you got to come home with me
I am willing and able to fulfill your desires, but only if you join me in my space


I got a whole lot of good old loving and I got some in store
I have a lot of love to give, both now and in the future


When I get through throwin' it on to you, got to come back for more
Once I show you the depths of my love, you will desire to return for more


Boys and things will come by the dozen
There will be many suitors eager to win your heart


Ain't nothin' but drug store love
But their love will be shallow, meaningless and easily attained


Pretty little thing, let me light your candle
Beautiful lady, allow me to ignite your passions and desires


'Cause, mama, I'm sure hard to handle; now, yes, I am
Because I am a challenging lover, but ultimately worth the effort


Action speaks louder than words, and I'm a man with great experience
My actions will prove my worth, as I have accumulated much knowledge and skill in love


I know you got another man, but I can love you better than him
I am aware you are seeing someone, but I am confident in my abilities to provide more fulfilling love than him


Take my hand, don't be afraid; I'm gonna prove every word I say
Trust in me and I will prove to you that my words are true, through my actions


I'm advertising love for free, so won't you place your ad with me?
I am offering my love freely and openly, so would you be willing to reciprocate?


Give it to me, baby, I got to have it - some of your love
Give me your love, it is necessary for me to survive


It's all I need, early in the morning, late in the evening
Love is the only thing I require, at all times and in every moment




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Comments from YouTube:

Chris Chandler

I love you Pigpen beyond words. But I can't express how huge of a magical sound these four guys made this night & this jam!!!

John Smithers

I love that I can sit hear and jam out watching live Grateful Dead from 1971. Thank you YouTube. And thank you to whoever originally filmed this. And thank you to the person who put it all together. And thank you to the person who posted it here.

bluesyoucanuse

Not to mention the amazing clarity of the recording. Simply out of this world. Best Dead song ever recorded!

Moti Ben Shoshan

Bless Kreutzmann! Amazing fill and a unique way of holding this jam together.

420chaiguy

The Kreutz!!The legend!!

Larry Luv

Right was thinking the same and as always to PIG now and forever….

Kyle F

one of my all-time favorite songs. really wish we'd been blessed with more Pigpen. gone too soon...⚡️⚡️ music never stops..!

Skydog

One of the best examples of why my favorite era of the Dead was with PIGPEN!

David Oettinger

@Jim Hostetler Couldn't agree more. I saw both Keith and Brent and found there was no comparison. It would get frustrating and clawing listening to Mydland constantly "lean" on his keys. And those songs he wrote? There's a reason why the Dead, The Other Ones, Further or Dead & Company didn't play them. But no one in the history of the GD could have been any worse than Vince Welnick. That era is largely unlistenable in large part due to his "playing." What were they thinking when they brought him on board?

Karmic Experiment

Cheers to that

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