The Pain We Love to Hide
Gravitonas Lyrics


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I wrote my safe word on your skin
Taking the pain to seek and hide
You broke the surface from within
Lonely together

I stand accused in ball and chains
Walking the aisle where you precide
The bruises fade but scars remain
Now and forever

Everytime that I see you pass me by
Everytime when this river is running dry
Everytime when you hurt me there's a thrill
This thing you killed until we cried

The pain we love to hide
The pain we feel inside
The pain we love to hide (inside)
Inside (inside)

If I refuse the panic room
Will you display your secret code?
Where teardrops fall
The deserts bloom
Now and forever

Everytime that I see you pass me by
Everytime when this river is running dry
Everytime when you hurt me there's a thrill
This thing you killed until we cried

The pain we love to hide
The pain we feel inside
The pain we love to hide (inside)
Inside (inside)

Everytime when you hurt me there's a thrill
This thing you killed until we cried

The pain we love to hide
The pain we feel inside
The pain we love to hide (inside)
The pain we love to hide
The pain we feel inside
The pain we love to hide




The pain we love to hide (inside)
Inside

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Gravitonas's "The Pain We Love to Hide" describe a complex and possibly unhealthy relationship between two people. The first verse begins with the singer writing their "safe word" on the other person's skin, implying that they engage in some form of BDSM or rough play. However, the line "Taking the pain to seek and hide" suggests that they also enjoy the emotional pain that comes with this type of relationship. The second line of the verse, "You broke the surface from within," could refer to the other person breaking down the singer's emotional barriers and exposing their hidden pain. The final line, "Lonely together," indicates that despite their physical and emotional closeness, both individuals feel lonely and possibly isolated.


The chorus of the song reinforces this feeling of addiction to pain and emotional turmoil. The line "Everytime when you hurt me there's a thrill" speaks to the idea that some people enjoy the pain and turmoil of their relationship, even though it causes them harm. The repeated line "The pain we love to hide / The pain we feel inside" further highlights this complicated dynamic. The final line of the chorus, "Inside," emphasizes the internal nature of their pain and the fact that despite their outward displays of affection, they are ultimately alone with their pain.


The second verse adds further depth to this relationship, describing the singer as "accused in ball and chains" and walking down the aisle where the other person presides. The bruises fade but the scars remain, indicating that they have been in this relationship for some time and have experienced both physical and emotional harm. The final lines, "If I refuse the panic room / Will you display your secret code?" speak to the idea of playing a game or having a secret language within the relationship.


Overall, "The Pain We Love to Hide" is a complex song that speaks to the idea of people willingly subjecting themselves to emotional pain in the context of a relationship. Whether this is a healthy or unhealthy dynamic is left up to interpretation.


Line by Line Meaning

I wrote my safe word on your skin
I trust you so fully that I've given you my safe word, which represents my ultimate form of surrender, written on your skin as a symbol of my complete vulnerability to you.


Taking the pain to seek and hide
We mutually seek out and savor the pain that we hide from the rest of the world, and our bond is strengthened by this shared secret.


You broke the surface from within
You shattered my defenses and exposed my deepest vulnerabilities with your love, leaving me more open and raw than ever before.


Lonely together
Though we are together, we both feel the solitude of being trapped in our own pain and secrets that we keep from the world.


I stand accused in ball and chains
I feel trapped by my emotional baggage and the pain that I carry, unable to fully shake it off or move on from it.


Walking the aisle where you preside
I am bound to you, walking the path of our relationship where you hold power and control over my emotions.


The bruises fade but scars remain
Though the physical bruises of our past have healed, the emotional scars they left behind are still painfully visible and present in our lives.


Now and forever
These scars and our shared pain are a permanent part of our lives, something that will never completely go away.


Everytime that I see you pass me by
Whenever I see you, all of our shared pain and memories come flooding back, overwhelming me with emotion.


Everytime when this river is running dry
Even as our relationship seems to be drying up, feeling less and less intense, the pain that we share continues to be a constant source of connection between us.


Everytime when you hurt me there's a thrill
When you hurt me, it hurts so good, like a secret thrill that we both savor and crave.


This thing you killed until we cried
The pain we share is something that you brought to life, something that we both nurtured and grew, until it became so intense that it brought us both to tears.


The pain we love to hide
Our shared pain is something that we both keep hidden from the world, something that would be too raw and too vulnerable to show to anyone else.


The pain we feel inside
This pain is something that we carry with us all the time, a constant weight on our hearts and minds that we can't shake off.


Inside
But even as we keep this pain hidden, it is still inside of us, where it will stay forever, a permanent part of who we are and what we share.




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MystiCult

One of my all time favourites!

Eddy Garcia

Really nice song

Ирина

SUPER