Living Room
Grouper Lyrics


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I′m looking for the place the spirit meets the skin
Can't figure out why that place feels so hard to be in
We′re all of us at this ill-fitting party
Busy pretending to relate
And it's getting harder and harder to fake
Acting like everything's in its place
I′m looking for the place the spirit meets the skin
Can′t figure out why that place feels so hard to be in
We're all of us at this ill-fitting party
Busy pretending to relate
And it′s getting harder and harder to fake
Acting like everything's in its place




Harder and harder to fake
Acting like everything′s in its place

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Grouper's song "Living Room" are full of introspection and self-reflection. The singer expresses their desire to find a place where spirituality and physicality intersect, yet they cannot seem to locate it. They feel uncomfortable in the situation they find themselves in, surrounded by people who are pretending to connect with each other, when in reality, they are just putting on a façade. The singer expresses the difficulty of faking everything and how, with time, it has become more challenging to maintain that illusion.


The song can be interpreted in several ways, such as a critique of how superficial our social interactions can be, where we wear masks to fit in and gloss over our insecurities. It speaks to a sense of disconnection and isolation that stems from the superficiality of our relationships. However, the song also carries a sense of hope, as the singer continues to look for that connection that transcends the physical and emotional barriers that separate us.


"Living Room" is a beautiful and somber song that speaks to the desire for authenticity in a world where so much is artificial. It reminds us of the importance of being true to ourselves and the difficulties that come with that pursuit.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm looking for the place the spirit meets the skin
I am searching for the intersection of the intangible and tangible parts of being, where emotions and physicality merge.


Can't figure out why that place feels so hard to be in
It's confusing why this intersection isn't easier to exist in.


We're all of us at this ill-fitting party
As humans, we are all equally out of place in this world.


Busy pretending to relate
We keep ourselves occupied by pretending to understand and connect with others.


And it's getting harder and harder to fake
As time progresses, it becomes increasingly difficult to maintain that pretense.


Acting like everything's in its place
We are putting on a facade, acting like we have everything under control and are at peace with our surroundings.


Harder and harder to fake
It is becoming more and more challenging to uphold this illusion.


Acting like everything's in its place
We continue to pretend that everything is fine and in order, but the reality is the opposite.




Writer(s): Elizabeth Anne Harris

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