Hurt People
Gryffin Lyrics


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Hurt people hurt people's how it begins
And I don't wanna cause you pain
This ain't the way that I thought we would live

When I start to feel like I'm in trouble again
I just keep it as friends 'cause I know how it ends
When I feel like I'll be the devil again
I'll sit back and pretend like we both never met

I found courage at 16 but lost it at 23
I'm not okay, I'm not okay
And I lost my self-esteem believing in a dream
I lost my faith, I lost my faith, oh-oh

Hurt people hurt people's how it begins
And I don't wanna cause you pain
This ain't the way that I thought we would live
You might think that I'm crazy
You might think you can save me
I wish it was that easy, oh-oh-oh
Hurt people hurt people, that's how it ends
And I don't wanna cause you pain

No, I don't wanna cause you pain
No, I don't wanna cause you pain

When the cracks appear and we fall in-between
Oh, you suddenly see this is far from your dreams
When the chaos comes and we're sleepless awake
I'm a slave to my ways
You deserve better days

I found courage at 16 and lost it when you had me
It's not okay, it's not okay
So don't lose your self-esteem believing in a dream
And lose your way, don't lose your faith, oh-oh

Hurt people hurt people's how it begins
And I don't wanna cause you pain
This ain't the way that I thought we would live
You might think that I'm crazy
You might think you can save me
I wish it was that easy, oh-oh-oh
Hurt people hurt people, that's how it ends
And I don't wanna cause you pain

No, I don't wanna cause you pain
No, I don't wanna cause you pain

Why won't you hear me when I say
You're way too good for me anyway?
Why won't you hear me when I say
You're way too good for me anyway?

Hurt people hurt people's how it begins
And I don't wanna cause you pain
This ain't the way that I thought we would live, ooh
You might think that I'm crazy (Crazy)
You might think you can save me (Save me)
I wish it was that easy (Easy), oh-oh-oh
Hurt people hurt people, that's how it ends
And I don't wanna cause you pain

No, I don't wanna cause you pain
No, I don't wanna cause you pain





Cause you pain
I don't wanna cause you pain

Overall Meaning

The song "Hurt People" by Gryffin and Aloe Blacc is about the cycle of hurt caused by our past experiences and how it can affect our present relationships. The chorus repeats the phrase "Hurt people hurt people" which means that people who have been hurt in the past tend to hurt others in their subsequent relationships. The lyrics express the singer's reluctance to enter into a relationship because they don't want to cause any pain to their partner. The lines "When I start to feel like I'm in trouble again/I just keep it as friends 'cause I know how it ends" shows the singer's fear of getting hurt again and their resolution to keep things platonic to avoid any pain.


The song talks about losing courage and self-esteem and struggling to believe in dreams. The lines "I found courage at 16 but lost it at 23/I'm not okay, I'm not okay/And I lost my self-esteem believing in a dream/I lost my faith, I lost my faith, oh-oh" indicates the singer's past traumas and how they have affected their present state of mind. The lyrics also contain a message of hope and the plea to break the cycle of hurt. The lines "So don't lose your self-esteem believing in a dream/And lose your way, don't lose your faith, oh-oh" encourages the listener to hold onto their beliefs and not let past experiences hold them back.


Line by Line Meaning

Hurt people hurt people's how it begins
People who are hurting emotionally or mentally often hurt others as well, and the cycle continues.


And I don't wanna cause you pain
I don't want to be the cause of your emotional or physical pain.


This ain't the way that I thought we would live
This is not the way I imagined our relationship or situation would turn out.


When I start to feel like I'm in trouble again
When I feel like I'm in a difficult situation and may act impulsively or irrationally.


I just keep it as friends 'cause I know how it ends
I choose to maintain a friendship because I am aware of the negative consequences of pursuing a romantic relationship.


When I feel like I'll be the devil again
When I feel like I am about to act in an unhealthy or harmful way.


I'll sit back and pretend like we both never met
I will avoid the situation entirely and pretend that we never met, to prevent further negative consequences.


I found courage at 16 but lost it at 23
I once had the courage to pursue my dreams or speak my mind, but have since lost that confidence.


I'm not okay, I'm not okay
I am not in a good mental or emotional state.


And I lost my self-esteem believing in a dream
I lost my sense of self-worth by pursuing a dream or ideal that turned out to be unattainable.


I lost my faith, I lost my faith, oh-oh
I lost my belief in something important to me, whether it be a religion or personal value.


You might think that I'm crazy
You may perceive me as irrational or illogical.


You might think you can save me
You may believe that you can help me overcome my issues or problems.


I wish it was that easy, oh-oh-oh
I wish that overcoming my challenges was as simple as someone helping me.


And lose your way, don't lose your faith, oh-oh
Don't lose sight of who you are and what is important to you, even when faced with challenges.


Why won't you hear me when I say
Why don't you listen to me when I express my thoughts or feelings?


You're way too good for me anyway
You deserve someone better than me regardless of my current state.


Cause you pain
Inflict emotional or physical pain upon you.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Spirit Music Group, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Dan Griffith, Dan Smith, Matthew Holmes, Philip Leigh, Corey Sanders

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@erikaventer3592

The moment when I wish my ex could sing this song to me.

Cause I walked out, and I hope that one day he will realize that it was the right thing to do.
This song exactly describes why I did it.
"you found courage at 16
But lost it when you met me
That's not okay"

Great song!!!!!
Goodluck to everyone out there going through a breakup. It's never easy, don't matter who walked out...



@yunindasari2529

Hurt people, hurt people's how it begins
And I don't wanna cause you pain
This ain't the way that I thought we would live

When I start to feel I'm in trouble again
I just keep it as friends 'cause I know how it ends
When I feel like I'll be the devil again
I'll sit back and pretend like we both never met

I found courage at 16 but lost it at 23
I'm not okay, I'm not okay
And I lost my self-esteem believin' in a dream
I lost my faith, I lost my faith, oh

Hurt people, hurt people's how it begins
And I don't wanna cause you pain
This ain't the way that I thought we would live

You might think that I'm crazy
You might think you can save me
I wish it was that easy, oh, oh, oh, oh
Hurt people, hurt people, that's how it ends
And I don't wanna cause you pain, ay-ay, ay-ain
No, I don't wanna cause you pain, ay-ay, ay-ain
No, I don't wanna cause you pain

When the cracks appear and we fall in between
Oh, you suddenly see this is far from your dreams
When the chaos comes and we're sleepless awake
I'm a slave to my ways, you deserve better days

You found courage at 16 and lost it when you met me
That's not okay, it's not okay
So don't lose your self-esteem believin' in a dream
And lose your way, don't lose your faith, oh

Hurt people, hurt people's how it begins
And I don't wanna cause you pain
This ain't the way that I thought we would live, oh

You might think that I'm crazy
You might think you can save me
I wish it was that easy, oh, oh, oh, oh
Hurt people, hurt people, that's how it ends
And I don't wanna cause you pain, ay-ay, ay-ain
No, I don't wanna cause you pain, ay-ay, ay-ain
No, I don't wanna cause you pain

Why won't you hear me when I say
You're way too good for me anyway
Why won't you hear me when I say
You're way too good for me anyway

Hurt people, hurt people's how it begins
And I don't wanna cause you pain
This ain't the way that I thought we would live, ooh

You might think that I'm crazy (Crazy)
You might think you can save me (Save me)
I wish it was that easy (Easy), oh, oh, oh, oh
Hurt people, hurt people, that's how it ends
And I don't wanna cause you pain, ay-ay, ay-ain
No, I don't wanna cause you pain, ay-ay, ay-ain
No, I don't wanna cause you pain

Cause you pain
I don't wanna cause you pain



@WaveInstinct

Lyrics: Gryffin - Hurt People (with Aloe Blacc)

Hurt people hurt people's how it begins
And I don’t want to cause you pain
This ain’t the way I thought we would live

When I start to feel I'm in trouble again
I just keep it as friends
Cause I know how it ends
When I feel like I’ll be the devil again
Ill sit back and pretend
Like we’ve both never met

I found courage at 16 but lost it at 23
Im not ok, Im not ok
And I lost my self-esteem
Believing in a dream
I lost my faith, I lost my faith

Hurt people hurt people is how it begins
And I don’t want to cause you pain
This ain’t the way that I thought we would live
You might think that I’m crazy
You might think you can save me
I wish it was that easy
Oh oh oh Oh
Hurt people hurt people that’s how it ends
And I don’t want to cause you pain

Pain aye aye aye ain
And I don’t want to cause you pain
Pain aye aye aye ain
No I don’t want to cause you pain

When the cracks appear and we fall in between
oh you'll suddenly see
This is far from your dreams
When the chaos comes It will sweep us away
I’m a slave to my ways
You deserve better days

You found courage at 16 and lost it when you met me
That's not ok
It’s not ok
So don’t lose your self-esteem
Believing in a dream


Oh Oh Oh

Hurt people hurt people's how it begins
And I don’t want to cause you pain
This ain’t the way that I thought we would live
Oh Oh Oh OH
You might think that I’m crazy
You might think you can save me
I wish it was that easy
Oh oh oh Oh
Hurt people hurt people that’s how it ends
And I don’t want to cause you pain
Pain aye aye aye ain
And I don’t want to cause you pain
Pain aye aye aye ain
No I don’t want to cause you pain

Why won’t you hear me when I say
You’re way too good for me anyway
Why won’t you hear me when I say
You’re way too good for me anyway

Hurt people hurt people is how it begins
And I don’t want to cause you pain
This ain’t the way that I thought we would live
You might think that I’m crazy
You might think you can save me
I wish it was that easy
Oh oh oh Oh
Hurt people hurt people that’s how it ends
And I don’t want to cause you pain
Pain aye aye aye ain
And I don’t want to cause you pain
Pain aye aye aye ain
No I don’t want to cause you pain



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@gryffin

Thank you all for the amazing support ❤️I'm so grateful for all of you and hope you like Hurt People. This is a really special song for me and I am excited for what's to come http://gryffin.lnk.to/Hurt-People

@yukirideluxe7788

Yesua is God and loves you read the Holy Bible 📖❤️

@gamesvibronicbrush8228

my favorite song

@AirwaveMusicTV

Another masterpiece from Gryffin!

@Miss_Nina.

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@scottpoling5248

Dude it's legit just fire after fire!!! It blows me away how good this stuff is!

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@yukirideluxe7788

Yesua is God and loves you read the Holy Bible 📖❤️

@e.drenalin6138

Wow... it's really sad yet admirable when someone is so self aware to truly understand what's going on inside of them and have the strength to kno they can't push it on another until they heal... this song is beyond beautiful ❤ but in all honesty, some people are willing to take the risk, because the other is worth it.

@yukirideluxe7788

Yesua is God and loves you read the Holy Bible 📖❤️

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