You Can't Put Your Arms Around
Guns N' Roses Lyrics


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It doesn't pay to try
All the smart boys know why
It doesn't mean, I didn't try
I just never know, why

It isn't 'cause I'm all alone
Oh, baby, you're not home
And when I'm home
Big deal, I'm still alone

It's so restless, I am
Beat my head against a pole
Try to knock some sense, down 'side my bones
And even though it don't show
Those guys are so old

Can't put your arms around a memory
Can't put your arms around a memory
Can't put your arms around a memory
Don't try
Don't try

You're just a basket case
And you got no name
Could you live with me?
Go on and say
And even though it don't show
Those guys are so old
Can't put your arms around a memory

Can't put your arms around a memory
Can't put your arms around a memory
Can't put your arms around a memory
Don't try
Don't try

Johnny you're me
Yeah, you're memory




I want to put my arms around your memory
I can't try, I can't try...don't try

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to "You Can't Put Your Arms Around a Memory" by Guns N' Roses suggest feelings of isolation and inadequacy, possibly as a result of failed relationships. The opening lines lament the futility of trying to succeed when the "smart boys" know it won't work out. This indicates a feeling of being stuck in one's circumstances and unable to progress. Despite feeling alone, the singer still tries to make connections but doesn't know why they always fail.


The line "It's so restless, I am" indicates that the singer is struggling to cope with their emotions and to find a sense of stability in their life. They beat their head against a pole in an attempt to "knock some sense" into themselves, but it's clear that this isn't working. From the line "Those guys are so old," it seems that the singer is comparing themselves to others who have managed to achieve more than they have.


The repeating chorus of "Can't put your arms around a memory" reinforces the theme of loneliness and the impossibility of truly connecting with someone who is no longer there. The final line, "Johnny you're me, Yeah, you're memory, I want to put my arms around your memory, I can't try, I can't try...don't try" suggests that the singer is deeply missing someone named Johnny and finds it impossible to move on from that memory.


Line by Line Meaning

It doesn't pay to try
There's no point in trying


All the smart boys know why
People who are aware of the situation know why it's pointless to try


It doesn't mean, I didn't try
Just because I don't have anything to show for it, doesn't mean I didn't put in effort


I just never know, why
I don't understand why my efforts were in vain


It isn't 'cause I'm all alone
Being alone isn't the reason why I can't do what I want to do


Oh, baby, you're not home
You not being here isn't the issue either


And when I'm home
Even when I'm in a comfortable environment


Big deal, I'm still alone
It doesn't matter, I still feel isolated


It's so restless, I am
I'm feeling very anxious


Beat my head against a pole
I'm agitated and upset to the point where I'm figuratively hitting my head against a wall


Try to knock some sense, down 'side my bones
I'm trying to find some clarity


And even though it don't show
Even though I might not seem it


Those guys are so old
The people who understand me are long gone


Can't put your arms around a memory
You can't physically hold onto a memory


Don't try
Don't bother trying to grasp onto something intangible


You're just a basket case
You're emotionally unstable


And you got no name
You aren't anyone important or noteworthy


Could you live with me?
Would you be able to handle being with me?


Go on and say
Speak honestly


Johnny you're me
I see myself in you, Johnny


Yeah, you're memory
You represent a memory for me


I want to put my arms around your memory
I wish I could physically hold onto the memory that you represent


I can't try, I can't try...don't try
I unsuccessfully tried to hold onto that memory before, and I know I can't do it again




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Written by: John Genzale

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Monicx


on Sweet Child o' Mine

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