My Say So
Gus Dapperton Lyrics


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I wear a mask
And you've become so scared of that
You wear your past
The truth I wouldn't dare to ask
I know that it's weak to believe me
But I just can't see who you're seeing
So I squint and throw my hands up
You glance through a broken camera

I aim low and take the blame
You love the way that people change
My say so still stays the same
So I say so in different ways

Sometimes I'm wrong
And I can't quite admit my fault
Ball in my court
I'm turning to the last resort
You let me win too easy
Happy to lose completely
It rains, you run for cover
Everything's in watercolor

I aim low and take the blame
You love the way that people change
My say so still stays the same
So I say so in different ways
I aim low and take the blame
You love the way that people change
My say so still stays the same
So I say so in different ways

I'm committed to change, so don't worry
Don't want any more pain, so don't worry now
I be using my brain, so don't worry
Wanna be on your page, so don't worry now
When I make a mistake, I say I'm sorry
If you're one and the same, you'll encourage that
I'm in it 'til the end, I'm in it 'til the end
I'm in it 'til the end

I aim low and take the blame
You love the way that people change
My say so still stays the same
So I say so in different ways (I'm in it 'til the end)
I aim low and take the blame
You love the way that people change
My say so still stays the same
So I say so in different ways

Overall Meaning

The opening lines of "My Say So" by Gus Dapperton presents an interesting juxtaposition between the two people in the relationship. The first person is wearing a mask, and the second person has become scared of it, whereas the second person is wearing their past, and the first person wouldn't dare ask about it. This shows how both of them have their own insecurities that they are trying to hide from each other. They both have their own ways of coping with their insecurities, but are unable to communicate properly, leading to misunderstandings and confusion.


The chorus of the song, "I aim low and take the blame, you love the way that people change, my say so still stays the same, so I say so in different ways" shows how the person singing is willing to take the blame for things, but the other person in the relationship is obsessed with change, which creates conflict. The use of different vocal inflections and melodies in the chorus reflects the different ways that the singer is trying to communicate with the other person, but their message isn't getting through.


The final verse shows how the singer wants to change and is committed to making things better, but there is still some lingering uncertainty and hesitation. The repeated phrase "I'm in it 'til the end" shows that the singer is committed to making things work, but there are still some doubts that need to be addressed.


Overall, "My Say So" is a song about communication and the difficulties that arise when two people in a relationship are unable to express themselves properly. It highlights the importance of being open and honest with each other in order to build a strong relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

I wear a mask
I conceal my true self or emotions


And you've become so scared of that
You have become afraid of my hidden emotions or true self


You wear your past
You are burdened by your past experiences or mistakes


The truth I wouldn't dare to ask
I am afraid to ask you for the truth about something


I know that it's weak to believe me
I understand that it may appear weak to trust me


But I just can't see who you're seeing
I am unable to understand your perspective of a situation or person


So I squint and throw my hands up
I try to make sense of things but end up feeling helpless


You glance through a broken camera
You view situations or people through a distorted lens due to past experiences


I aim low and take the blame
I take responsibility for things, even if it is not wholly my fault


You love the way that people change
You are drawn to or expect people to change


My say so still stays the same
My opinion or perspective remains unchanged


So I say so in different ways
I express my opinion or perspective in various manners


Sometimes I'm wrong
I make mistakes at times


And I can't quite admit my fault
I find it challenging to accept responsibility for my actions


Ball in my court
It is my responsibility to take action or make a decision


I'm turning to the last resort
I am resorting to a final course of action


You let me win too easy
You allow me to win or succeed without putting in much effort


Happy to lose completely
You are content to fail or lose entirely


It rains, you run for cover
You try to avoid or shelter yourself from difficult situations or emotions


Everything's in watercolor
Everything seems surreal or dreamlike


I'm committed to change, so don't worry
I am dedicated to making improvements or altering my behavior, so there is no need to worry


Don't want any more pain, so don't worry now
I do not desire any further hurt or suffering, so there is no need to worry


I be using my brain, so don't worry
I am thinking logically or critically about something, so there is no need to worry


Wanna be on your page, so don't worry now
I want to be on the same page as you, so there is no need to worry


When I make a mistake, I say I'm sorry
When I make an error or do something wrong, I express regret


If you're one and the same, you'll encourage that
If we are similar in our ways, you will support or endorse that behavior


I'm in it 'til the end, I'm in it 'til the end
I am committed or invested in something until the very end




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Brendan Patrick Rice, Chelsea Wheatley

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@NoSleep-zi4fb

I wear a mask
And you've become so scared of that
You wear your past
The truth I wouldn't dare to ask
I know that it's weak to believe me
But I just can't see who you're seeing
So I squint and throw my hands up
You glance through a broken camera
I aim low and take the blame
You love the way that people change
My say so still stays the same
So I say so in different ways
Sometimes I'm wrong
And I can't quite admit my fault
Ball in my court
I'm turning to the last resort
You let me win too easy
Happy to lose completely
It rains, you run for cover
Everything's in watercolor
I aim low and take the blame
You love the way that people change
My say so still stays the same
So I say so in different ways
I aim low and take the blame
You love the way that people change
My say so still stays the same
So I say so in different ways
I'm committed to change, so don't worry
Don't want any more pain, so don't worry now
I be using my brain, so don't worry
Wanna be on your page, so don't worry now
When I make a mistake, I say I'm sorry
If you're one and the same, you'll encourage that
I'm in it 'til the end, I'm in it 'til the end
I'm in it 'til the end
I aim low and take the blame
You love the way that people change
My say so still stays the same
So I say so in different ways (I'm in it 'til the end)
I aim low and take the blame
You love the way that people change
My say so still stays the same
So I say so in different ways



All comments from YouTube:

@henchmanb

this song should have a video for sure, i can't get it out of my head

@Skate2Pain

Gus is such a bop, his style is always so intriguing and appealing. No matter what music you enjoy.

@wiggygrump

Such an underrated song, Gus helped me through so much just by singing

@skatinwhenican

Even after years, the lyrics still resonate.

@skatinwhenican

Forever Amazing

@UNKN0WN_B0T

This one bops so well, I love the melody.

@EricJae.

My favorite on the album 💿

@ILovHelloKitty13

This dude don’t MISS

@hadins1406

The world sleeps on Gus and this song

@sadbuns6366

My favorite part was all of it 🤭

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