Good To Me
H.E.R. Lyrics


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Mm, oh
Little faster

Wanna try, I wanna thrive
Not just survive, no fakin'
And every night when it's feelin' right
Feel like you're livin' lies and now I'm breakin'
But I cannot stay
And I'm not okay
All on my own
You got to be good to me
Please give me peace
And make me believe
That I'm not alone
You got to be good to me, me
You got to be good

It's 3AM, I gotta know (gotta know)
Where were you? I been waitin'
I let it go, but prove me wrong
Oh, something's off, am I crazy?

I cannot stay
But I'm not okay
All on my own
You got to be good to me
Please give me peace
And make me believe
That I'm not alone
You got to be good to me
You got to be good to me (be good)
You got to be good

Don't know what I'm chasin'
I can't erase what I'm feelin' deep inside
Oh, but I

I cannot stay
But I'm not okay
All on my own
You got to be good to me
Please give me peace
And make me believe
That I'm not alone
You got to be good to me (be good)
You got to be good to me (be)
You got to be good to me (got to be good)
Be good to me, baby
Got to be
Got to be

Do we have enough?
Uh, what did I say?
I'ma just write down shit and then
I know for a fact you said "warmth" and "unconditional love"
Alright, okay, so what if
In the beginning, I'm saying
In my eyes, you're a combination of
The kindness and compassion of my mother
And the warmth and what did I say?
Warmth and unconditional love of my father
And when we're together, this and that, and I feel this
And the way that you treat me is this
And I feel, I feel, I, it takes me back to this
And, and that feeling is good, but are you really good to me?
And then it's
Who are you when I'm not around? Is it the same?
That's fire
Are you, basically, like if we could say it in a cool way
Like, do you act like you're single when it's not us two?
You know? Like that kind of thing, you know what I'm saying?
Like, really kind of dig in and make this story, like, set up in a way that's like "oh shit"
Do I get that? I'm recording, right? Do I
Is it, is it deceit? You know? Or is its, is it real? But only when
Is it real, is it real around me and to the world you, you fake something?
You know?
Right
And, 'cause some people, some people aren't really
Some people aren't really, um, bad people
But they feel like they have to be, you know?
Right
To get even deeper into it
Like, I think some men were raised a certain way
But they get around other kind of men and get insecure
And feel like they have to be that way
You know what I'm saying?
Like, they have to be that way or they feel like
"Okay, this is how I'm gonna
This is the way it's supposed to be because my boys told me that"
You know?
So I think it's kind of like the other perspective of not, like
Coming from the perspective of a woman who's with a man that's no good
But it's a man that is good to me
But you have be good to me when I'm not around
And you have to think of who you really want to be
Right
Ah, la, la, la, you got to be good to me
Yeah, anyway




Had to dig into it real quick
What did I say?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to H.E.R.'s song "Good To Me" explore themes of longing for genuine love and the fear of being alone. The song begins with a desire to thrive and not just survive, expressing the need for authenticity and a meaningful connection. It emphasizes the importance of being treated well and finding peace in a relationship. The line "You got to be good to me" is a plea for the partner to provide emotional support and make the singer feel like they are not alone.


As the song progresses, doubts and insecurities surface. The mention of it being 3 AM and waiting for someone indicates a time of vulnerability and questioning loyalty. The singer wants reassurance and proof that something is not amiss, questioning their own sanity. There is a constant struggle between wanting to leave and not being okay on their own, highlighting the deep emotional dependence on the partner.


The lyrics also touch on the complexity and confusion in relationships. The singer admits not knowing what they are chasing and trying unsuccessfully to erase their feelings. They acknowledge that they can't control the emotions they feel deep inside, but they still want to be treated well and find solace in the presence of their partner.


Line by Line Meaning

Wanna try, I wanna thrive
I want to take risks and succeed


Not just survive, no fakin'
I don't want to just get by, I want to be genuine


And every night when it's feelin' right
When everything seems perfect


Feel like you're livin' lies and now I'm breakin'
It feels like you're being dishonest and it's causing me to crumble


But I cannot stay
I can't continue in this situation


And I'm not okay
I'm not emotionally fine


All on my own
Without any support


You got to be good to me
You need to treat me well


Please give me peace
Provide me with tranquility


And make me believe
Help me have faith


That I'm not alone
That I have someone by my side


It's 3AM, I gotta know (gotta know)
At this late hour, I need answers


Where were you? I been waitin'
I've been patiently anticipating your presence


I let it go, but prove me wrong
I tried to move on, but show me I'm mistaken


Oh, something's off, am I crazy?
Something doesn't feel right, am I losing my mind?


Don't know what I'm chasin'
I'm unsure of what I'm pursuing


I can't erase what I'm feelin' deep inside
I can't ignore my intense emotions


But I cannot stay
I can't remain in this situation


But I'm not okay
But I'm not emotionally fine


You got to be good to me
You need to treat me well


Please give me peace
Provide me with tranquility


And make me believe
Help me have faith


That I'm not alone
That I have someone by my side


You got to be good to me (be good)
You need to show me kindness (be good)


Do we have enough?
Do we have sufficient resources?


Uh, what did I say?
Wait, what did I previously mention?


I'ma just write down shit
I'm just going to jot down random things


And then I know for a fact you said 'warmth' and 'unconditional love'
And then I remember clearly that you mentioned 'warmth' and 'unconditional love'


Alright, okay, so what if
Fine, so what would happen if


In the beginning, I'm saying
Initially, I'm expressing


In my eyes, you're a combination of
From my perspective, you embody the qualities of


The kindness and compassion of my mother
The gentle and caring nature of my mother


And the warmth and what did I say?
And the loving and what did I mention?


Warmth and unconditional love of my father
Warmth and love without conditions, like that of my father


And when we're together, this and that, and I feel this
And when we're in each other's presence, this happens and that happens, and I experience a certain feeling


And the way that you treat me is this
And the manner in which you treat me can be described as follows


And I feel, I feel, I, it takes me back to this
And I feel, I feel, I, it transports me back to this state


And, and that feeling is good, but are you really good to me?
And, and that feeling is pleasurable, but are you truly treating me well?


And then it's
And then the question arises


Who are you when I'm not around? Is it the same?
Are you the same person when I'm not present?


That's fire
That's impressive


Are you, basically, like if we could say it in a cool way
Are you, essentially, if we can phrase it in a trendy manner


Like, do you act like you're single when it's not us two?
Do you behave as if you're not in a relationship when we're not together?


You know? Like that kind of thing, you know what I'm saying?
You understand? Like that sort of situation, do you comprehend what I'm trying to convey?


Like, really kind of dig in and make this story, like, set up in a way that's like 'oh shit'
Truly delve into this narrative and construct it in a manner that elicits a strong reaction


Do I get that? I'm recording, right?
Do I understand what I'm trying to explain? I'm currently recording, correct?


Do I, Is it, is it deceit?
Do I, Is it, is it deception?


You know? Or is its, is it real?
You know? Or is it, is it genuine?


But only when
But solely when


Is it real, is it real around me and to the world you, you fake something?
Is it genuine, authentic when we're together and you pretend in front of others?


You know?
You understand?


Right
Exactly


Ah, la, la, la, you got to be good to me
Oh, the person must treat me well


Yeah, anyway
Well, regardless


Had to dig into it real quick
I needed to explore it briefly


What did I say?
What did I previously mention?




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, DREAM TEAM PUBLISHING
Written by: David Arcelious Harris, Gabriella Wilson, Keithen Foster, Max Moore, Sam Ashworth

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Intro]
Mmm, oh
Little faster

[Verse 1]
Wanna try, I wanna thrive
Not just survive, no fakin'
And every night when it's feelin' right
Feel like you're livin' lies and now I'm breakin'

[Chorus]
I cannot stay
But I'm not okay
All on my own
You got to be good to me
Please give me peace
And make me believe
That I'm not alone
You got to be good to me, me
You got to be good

[Verse 2]
It's 3 AM, I gotta know (Gotta know)
Where were you? I been waitin'
I let it go, but prove me wrong
Oh, something's off, am I crazy?

[Chorus]
I cannot stay
But I'm not okay
All on my own
You got to be good to me
Please give me peace
And make me believe
That I'm not alone
You got to be good to me
You got to be good to me (Be good)
You got to be good

[Bridge]
Don't know what I'm chasin'
I can't erase what I'm feelin' deep inside
Oh, but I

[Chorus]
I cannot stay
But I'm not okay
All on my own
You got to be good to me
Please give me peace
And make me believe
That I'm not alone
You got to be good to me (Be good)
You got to be good to me (Be)
You got to be good to me (Got to be good)
Be good to me, baby
Got to be
Got to be

[Outro]
Do we have enough?
Uh, what did I say?
I'ma just write down shit and then...
I know for a fact you said "warmth" and "unconditional love"
Alright, okay, so what if...
In the beginning, I'm saying...
In my eyes, you're a combination of
The kindness and compassion of my mother
And the warmth and—what did I say?
Warmth and unconditional love of my father
And when we're together, this and that, and I feel this
And the way that you treat me is this
And I feel, I feel, I, it takes me back to this
And, and that feeling is good, but are you really good to me?
And then it's...
Who are you when I'm not around? Is it the same?
That's fire
Are you... basically, like if we could say it in a cool way
Like, do you act like you're single when it's not us two?
You know? Like that kind of thing, you know what I'm saying?
Like, really kind of dig in and make this story, like, set up in a way that's like "oh shit"
Do I get that? I'm recording, right? Do I...
Is it, is it deceit? You know? Or is its, is it real? But only when...
Is it real... is it real around me and to the world you, you fake something?
You know?
Right
And... 'cause some people... some people aren't really...
Some people aren't really, um, bad people
But they feel like they have to be, you know?
Right
To get even deeper into it
Like, I think some men were raised a certain way
But they get around other kind of men and get insecure
And feel like they have to be that way
You know what I'm saying?
Like, they have to be that way or they feel like
"Okay, this is how I'm gonna...
This is the way it's supposed to be because my boys told me that"
You know?
So I think it's kind of like the other perspective of not, like
Coming from a woman who's with a man that's no good
But it's a man that is good to me
But you have be good to me when I'm not around
And you have to think of who you really want to be
Right
Ah, la, la, la, you got to be good to me
Yeah, anyway
Had to dig into it real quick
What did I say?



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@triceyf8344

‘I wanna thrive, not just survive’... this really hit me deep on a personal level

@jessicabell5482

Tricey F Yes it did

@jeauxjo4845

🙌🏾❣️✨ #Relatable

@tinabrown5753

Yea me too

@hopel.4611

Omg yes

@QueenBrown90

Depression at its finest with these statement

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@JoshuaOtusanya

Lowkey, if you’re reading this have a great day today. You deserve it :)

@wellokaythen

You too buddy

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You too

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