The sisters grew up in a musical family, and began playing instruments from an early age in the cover band Rockinhaim, fronted by their parents, Moti and Donna. The two elder sisters, Este and Danielle, began performing with the pop group "Valli Girls" in 2005. They released a few songs on soundtrack and compilation albums under that name, but left the group shortly after an appearance at the 2005 Nickelodeon Kids' Choice Awards. They formed Haim with younger sister Alana in 2007, but did not seriously consider it a professional career for some years. After Danielle became a successful touring guitarist, first with Jenny Lewis and later with Julian Casablancas, Haim reformed as a full-time operation in 2012.
The group's first release, Forever EP (an EP released as a limited-time download), combined with positive reception at the South by Southwest festival, led to a deal with Polydor Records and a management deal with Jay-Z's Roc Nation group in mid-2012. The band began recording material for their first album, Days Are Gone, in sessions between touring dates, including appearances at the Glastonbury Festival. The album charted in the top ten in several countries, including the number-one spot in the UK, and the group had won several "best of" awards by the end of 2013. The group was nominated for Best New Artist at the 57th Annual Grammy Awards. Their second album, Something to Tell You, was released in July 2017. Their third album, titled Women in Music Pt. III, was released on June 26, 2020. The group received nominations at the 63rd Grammy awards for Album of the Year and Best Rock Performance (for "The Steps").
In 2024, the sisters blacked out the band's Instagram, seemingly teasing new music by putting "writing... writing... writing..." in the account's bio.
FUBT
HAIM Lyrics
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'Cause every now and then I wanna feel that empty space
I kinda like it when you say the things you shouldn't say
'Cause those are all the things that I was thinkin' anyway
It's wrong
But you could do no wrong
And baby, even though
It's fucked up but it's true
That I love you like I do
I'm just gon' keep on loving you
It's tough to get through
Either way, I'm gonna lose
So I'm just gon' keep on loving you
I spend my mornings overthinkin' all my old mistakes
But I would never judge your problems in the same way
You beat yourself up and I let you take it out on me
Another day, another hour, no apology
How can I sleep when I can't dream at night?
All of my needs I say I don't need
How can I sleep when I can't dream at night?
All of my needs I say I don't need
And it's fucked up but it's true
That I love you like I do
But I'm just gon' keep on loving you
It's tough to get through
Either way I'm gonna lose
So I'm just gon' keep on loving you
It's fucked up but it's true
Gonna keep on loving you
'Til my days are through
The lyrics to HAIM's song "FUBT" speak of a complicated and dysfunctional relationship that the singer is struggling to maintain. The first verse expresses a desire for space and independence but also an attraction to the chaos and unpredictability brought on by the other person. The chorus acknowledges the wrongness of the situation and the messiness of feelings but admits that the love is still present and overpowering. The second verse explores the double standard in the relationship and the singer's ability to forgive and take responsibility for their partner's mistakes. The bridge repeats the conflicting thoughts and emotions of the chorus, emphasizing the complexity and intensity of the singer's love.
Overall, the lyrics suggest that the singer is stuck in a cycle of love and pain, unable to break and unable to let go. The phrase "FUBT" could stand for "Fucked Up But True" and serves as a shorthand for the mixed emotions and conflicting thoughts present throughout the song.
Line by Line Meaning
I kinda like it when you leave me at the party late
I enjoy being left alone sometimes
'Cause every now and then I wanna feel that empty space
I crave solitude to feel my emotions freely
I kinda like it when you say the things you shouldn't say
I appreciate your honesty even if it's not socially acceptable
'Cause those are all the things that I was thinkin' anyway
I have the same thoughts as you but didn't say them out loud
It's wrong
Our situation is not ideal
But you could do no wrong
I blindly trust you
And baby, even though
Despite the negative impact on me
It makes me miserable
I can't help but love you
It's fucked up but it's true
Our love is unconventional but genuine
That I love you like I do
I care deeply for you despite the challenges
I'm just gon' keep on loving you
I won't give up on us
It's tough to get through
Our relationship is a struggle
Either way, I'm gonna lose
No matter what happens, I'll be hurt
So I'm just gon' keep on loving you
I choose to love you through the hardships
I spend my mornings overthinkin' all my old mistakes
I ruminate on my past and feel regret
But I would never judge your problems in the same way
I won't criticize you for your flaws
You beat yourself up and I let you take it out on me
You blame yourself and vent to me, and I listen
Another day, another hour, no apology
You don't apologize, but I forgive you anyway
How can I sleep when I can't dream at night?
I'm restless and can't find solace in my dreams
All of my needs I say I don't need
I deny and suppress my own needs
It's fucked up but it's true
Our love is complicated but undeniable
That I love you like I do
I care deeply for you despite the difficulties
But I'm just gon' keep on loving you
I won't give up on our relationship
Gonna keep on loving you
I'll continue to love you no matter what
'Til my days are through
Until the end of my life
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Ariel Rechstaid, Alana Mychal Haim, Danielle Sari Haim, Este Arielle Haim, Rostam Batmanglij, Taylor Monet Parks
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
@alyndahundt1959
I kinda like it when you leave me at the party late
'Cause every now and then I wanna feel that empty space
I kinda like it when you say the things you shouldn't say
'Cause those are all the things that I was thinkin' anyway
It's wrong
But you could do no wrong
And baby, even though
It makes me miserable
It's fucked up but it's true
That I love you like I do
I'm just gon' keep on loving you
It's tough to get through
Either way, I'm gonna lose
So I'm just gon' keep on loving you
I spend my mornings overthinkin' all my old mistakes
But I would never judge your problems in the same way
You beat yourself up and I let you take it out on me
Another day, another hour, no apology
How can I sleep when I can't dream at night?
All of my needs I say I don't need
How can I sleep when I can't dream at night?
All of my needs I say I don't need
And it's fucked up but it's true
That I love you like I do
But I'm just gon' keep on loving you
It's tough to get through
Either way I'm gonna lose
So I'm just gon' keep on loving you
It's fucked up but it's true
Gonna keep on loving you
'Til my days are through
@nabbanjacecilia2079
This is one hell of a beautiful song. Happy to find it as a sound track in Sex/Life
@laurabyrne3494
Same!!!
@rindershow212
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@joanydisoloka9855
Same 🤣
@rwest4537
same!
@iracemadias711
Yes👌👌👌
@aclarkeme
That opening guitar feels like a massive hug to me, and I want to stay wrapped in it forever. Yes I've had an edible. This album is sensational, easily their best.
@warrenhair1740
it is the best album...this also sounds very prince with that opening...especially purple rain and the beautiful ones
@ocaiogutemberg
easily AOTY.
@jloyer14
😂😂