I Ain't Gonna Take It This Time
Hall & Oates Lyrics


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You push my buttons hard
And don't even realize what you're doing is killing my soul
Do you think I'm just some prize
You can win and then discard after the thrill is gone?
Well, listen then

[Chorus]
I ain't gonna take it this time
I ain't gonna take that from anyone
I ain't gonna take it this time
Guess I'm gonna break out

You know I try to please
I lay awake at night
Trying to find the words you'll understand
But when I'm nothing but sincere
I know you can't be hearing
Cause you say it's more of the same
Well, listen then

[Chorus]

Do you think I'd ever try to fool you
There are enough lies in the world
You don't need mine




If I can't win your heart and move you
You must be blind

Overall Meaning

In Hall & Oates's song I Ain't Gonna Take It This Time, the lyrics focus on a strained relationship where one partner feels unappreciated and undervalued. The opening lines of “you push my buttons hard and don't even realize what you're doing is killing my soul” sets the tone for the entire song. The singer is clearly frustrated with the way he is being treated by his partner and is making it clear that he will not tolerate it any longer. He questions his partner’s intentions and asks if they only see him as a prize that can be won and then discarded. The chorus offers a more defiant tone, stating that he won't take it anymore, and he's going to break free from the cycle of being undervalued.


Throughout the song, there is a sense of desperation to be understood and valued not just by his partner but also by the world. The line “I lay awake at night trying to find the words you'll understand, but when I'm nothing but sincere, I know you can't be hearing” speaks to the omnipresent feeling of not being seen or heard by those around him, despite his best attempts. The last two lines of the song, “if I can't win your heart and move you, you must be blind” represents the last glimmers of hope for the relationship. The singer is still holding out hope that his partner will come to appreciate his worth but is starting to recognize that perhaps their partner's ability to see him is lacking.


Line by Line Meaning

You push my buttons hard
You continually do things that bother me and ignore the emotional impact it has on me.


And don't even realize what you're doing is killing my soul
You hurt me deeply without even understanding the harm you cause.


Do you think I'm just some prize
You treat me like a game or a meaningless object.


You can win and then discard after the thrill is gone?
You want me only for what I can offer you in the moment and will easily abandon me when you grow bored.


Well, listen then
Pay attention to what I'm saying, as I won't tolerate this behavior anymore.


I ain't gonna take it this time
I won't put up with this treatment any longer.


I ain't gonna take that from anyone
I won't allow anyone to treat me this way again.


Guess I'm gonna break out
I'm going to assert my personal boundaries and seek a better life for myself.


You know I try to please
I constantly seek your approval and try to make you happy.


I lay awake at night
I can't sleep because I'm so consumed with trying to fix our relationship.


Trying to find the words you'll understand
I struggle to communicate my feelings in a way that resonates with you.


But when I'm nothing but sincere
When I'm being completely honest and genuine with you.


I know you can't be hearing
You aren't really listening to my thoughts and emotions.


Cause you say it's more of the same
You don't value my perspective and see it as more of the same complaints.


Do you think I'd ever try to fool you
I would never intentionally deceive you.


There are enough lies in the world
There's already too much dishonesty and I don't want to contribute to it.


You don't need mine
You shouldn't have to doubt my sincerity or honesty.


If I can't win your heart and move you
If I can't gain your affection and inspire you to change your harmful behavior.


You must be blind
You're choosing not to see how your actions and treatment of me is causing damage.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: DARYL DAVID HALL

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