Say It Isn't So
Hall & Oates Lyrics


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Say it
Say it isn't so
Say it
Say it isn't so

Say it isn't so painful to tell me that you're dissatisfied
Last time I asked you I really got a lame excuse
I know that you lied
Now wicked things can happen you see 'em goin' down in war
But when you play in a quiet way that bites it even more

Say it
Tell me what you want yeah I'll do it baby I promise right now
Say it
Who propped you up when you were stopped low motivation
Had you on the ground

I know your first reaction you slide away hide away goodbye
But if there's a doubt maybe I can give out a thousand reasons why
You have to say it isn't so

(It isn't so) I say it isn't so
(It isn't so) I say it isn't so
(It isn't so) said it isn't so
(It isn't so) oh no

Say it
We like to be the strangers at the party, two rebels in a shell
Say it
You like to move with the best of them you know we move so well
Don't need someone to lean on, I know that there's an open door
But if I'm faced with being replaced I want you even more
So baby say it isn't so

(It isn't so) say it isn't so
(It isn't so) I say it isn't so
(It isn't so) said it isn't so
(It isn't so) oh no

Say it
Say it isn't so
Say it
Say it isn't so

Say it
Say it isn't so

Why you gonna go, do you have to say
Do you wanna go ooh ooh baby
Say it isn't

(Say)
Say say say it isn't so
(Say it isn't so)
(Say it isn't)
Why do you have to say it isn't
(Say it isn't)
(Say it isn't)
(Stop, say it isn't)
I know it's so hard for you
(Say it isn't)
So hard
(Say it isn't)
Don't say baby
(Stop, say it isn't)
There must be some other way
Don't have to
(Say it isn't)
Some other way
(Stop, say it isn't)
You gonna have to say
(Say it isn't)
(Say it isn't)
Don't have to say




(Stop, say it isn't)
You know I won't make you

Overall Meaning

The song "Say It Isn't So" by Hall & Oates is about a relationship where one partner suspects the other is dissatisfied but doesn't want to come out and say it. The singer feels like they are being lied to and can see wicked things happening under the surface of their quiet relationship. They implore their partner to be honest and tell them what they want because they will do it, even if it means facing the possibility of being replaced. The chorus repeats the title phrase in a pleading tone, asking their partner not to say that it's over.


The lyrics suggest a deep emotional connection between the two people in the relationship, as they refer to themselves as "two rebels in a shell" who don't need someone to lean on. They don't want to lose each other but are worried that the silence between them may lead to an unwanted ending. The singer is willing to do anything to make their partner happy, even if it means risking their own vulnerability.


Overall, the song is about the fear of losing someone important and desperately asking them not to say it's over. It captures the feeling of uncertainty that often comes with romantic relationships and emphasizes how important communication is to maintaining strong connections.


Line by Line Meaning

Say it
Tell me what is troubling you


Say it isn't so
Deny that you are unhappy or dissatisfied


Say it
Reiterate that you want to know what is bothering you


Say it isn't so
Plead for the other person not to confirm your fears


Say it isn't so painful to tell me that you're dissatisfied
Admitting that you're unhappy is hard, but please do


Last time I asked you I really got a lame excuse
The last time I asked, you avoided the question


I know that you lied
I am aware that you weren't truthful with me


Now wicked things can happen you see 'em goin' down in war
Terrible things can happen during war, but this is not a war, it's a relationship


But when you play in a quiet way that bites it even more
You hurt me even more when you remain silent and don't speak your truth


Tell me what you want yeah I'll do it baby I promise right now
Ask for what you want and I'll try to make it happen


Who propped you up when you were stopped low motivation
Who was there to help you when your motivation was low


Had you on the ground
You were struggling and needed help to get through tough times


I know your first reaction you slide away hide away goodbye
I know you might want to run away and avoid the conversation


But if there's a doubt maybe I can give out a thousand reasons why
If you're unsure about something, I can give you many reasons why it's important to talk about it


You have to say it isn't so
Please deny that what I'm fearing is true


(It isn't so) I say it isn't so
I'm denying it too, trying to convince myself as well


(It isn't so) said it isn't so
Still denying it, hoping it's not true


(It isn't so) oh no
Oh no, I hope it's not true


We like to be the strangers at the party, two rebels in a shell
We enjoy being outsiders, not following the crowd


You like to move with the best of them you know we move so well
You enjoy keeping up with the cool kids, but we also have a great dynamic together


Don't need someone to lean on, I know that there's an open door
You don't need anyone else, I am here for you and I want to listen


But if I'm faced with being replaced I want you even more
If you leave me, I will want you even more and regret not trying harder to make things work


So baby say it isn't so
Please deny it and give us a chance to work on it


Why you gonna go, do you have to say
Why do you have to leave? We still have a chance to save this


Do you wanna go ooh ooh baby
Do you really want to break up? Let's try to make this work


Say it isn't
Please deny it


(Say) Say say say it isn't so
Please say it's not true


(Say it isn't so)
Keep denying it


(Say it isn't)
Still hoping you will deny it


Why do you have to say it isn't
Why can't you just deny it and give us a chance


(Say it isn't)
Still hoping you will deny it


(Say it isn't)
Keep denying it


(Stop, say it isn't)
Please put an end to my fears and say it isn't true


I know it's so hard for you
I know it's hard for you to admit the truth


(Say it isn't)
Just deny it already


So hard
I understand how hard it is


(Say it isn't)
Hoping for denial


Don't say baby
Don't make me more heartbroken


(Stop, say it isn't)
Please, just deny it already


There must be some other way
There has to be a way to make this work


Don't have to
You don't have to leave


(Say it isn't)
Still hoping for the denial


Some other way
There has to be another way besides breaking up


(Stop, say it isn't)
I can't take it anymore, just deny it already


You gonna have to say
You have to say what's going on


(Say it isn't)
Please deny it


(Say it isn't)
Still hoping for the denial


Don't have to say
You don't have to say it if it's going to hurt us


(Stop, say it isn't)
Please just deny it and make this easier


You know I won't make you
I won't force you to say it if you don't want to




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Daryl Hall

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@danielscotland1971

This longer version with the Saxophone solo still rocks after 40 years.

@heart_tru_tress

YESSSSSS❤

@johnnyenglish9622

Yes for sure and Obe on One is the ultimate love song

@oneofihcoy

amin amin amin
and not only doth it still rock after forty yearnesses but also it wilt rock forever

@reynaldojerusalem790

An 80's boy and I'm on my 50s now, but still rock and rolling with Hall and Oates, fantastic band with great beat to their music!

@YoGGiiYo

Me too!

@rodneycline5854

Same! Fortunately my 14 year old is big 80s music fan thanks to my influence. Our car rides are bliss

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I can never ever get enough of this song. One of the greatest songs of all time!!!

@wildecat1814

You may be right

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