Both Sides of Goodbye
Hank Williams Jr. Lyrics


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When you pack your clothes tonight don't pack up all the blame.
Your not the first to walk away and leave someone in pain.
I know how much its hurting you, hurting me this way.
Believe me I've been in your shoes and I know you can't stay.

I've been on both sides of goodbye. I know there ain't no easy side. I've loved and I've been loved but not at the same time. I've been on both sides of goodbye.
Don't feel so bad for doing what you've got to do.
You can't make your heart love me if it don't want to.
When love just don't work both ways and someones got to go.
So close that door and don't look back, believe me girl I know.

I've been on both sides of goodbye and I know there ain't no easy ride. I've loved and I've been loved but not at the same time. I've been on both sides of goodbye.




I've loved and I've been loved but not at the same time I've been on both sides of goodbye,
Goodbye!

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Hank Williams Jr.'s "Both Sides of Goodbye" depict a break-up between two people who have been in love but can no longer commit to each other. The singer advises his partner not to blame herself for leaving because he has been in her position before and understands that it's not easy to say goodbye. The song speaks to the idea that love is not always a two-way street, and sometimes one person has to walk away for the sake of both parties.


The message of the song reflects the realities of many relationships with its honesty and emotional insight. It acknowledges that love can be painful, and that sometimes one person has to let go in order for both to move on. The phrase "both sides of goodbye" implies that breaking up is not just a matter of one person leaving and the other staying, but rather a complex emotional experience that affects both parties in different ways.


Overall, the song is a moving depiction of the pain and resilience that come with letting go of a relationship that no longer works, and a reminder that sometimes saying goodbye is the only way to move forward.


Line by Line Meaning

When you pack your clothes tonight don't pack up all the blame.
Don't take all the blame as leaving someone is not always your fault.


Your not the first to walk away and leave someone in pain.
You are not alone in walking away and causing someone else pain.


I know how much its hurting you, hurting me this way.
I understand it is hurting me and you to take this decision.


Believe me I've been in your shoes and I know you can't stay.
Trust me, I have been in your position, and I understand that you cannot stay.


I've been on both sides of goodbye. I know there ain't no easy side.
I have experienced breakups from both sides, and it is never easy.


I've loved and I've been loved but not at the same time.
I have both loved and been loved but never at the same time.


Don't feel so bad for doing what you've got to do.
Don't blame yourself for doing what is necessary.


You can't make your heart love me if it don't want to.
You can't force yourself to love someone if you don't feel it.


When love just don't work both ways and someones got to go.
When love doesn't work both ways, it is better for someone to leave.


So close that door and don't look back, believe me girl I know.
Close that door and don't look back, trust me, I've been there before.


I've loved and I've been loved but not at the same time.
I have both loved and been loved but never at the same time.


I've been on both sides of goodbye and I know there ain't no easy ride.
I have experienced breakups from both sides, and it is never an easy ride.


Goodbye!
Farewell!




Lyrics © HARLAN HOWARD SONGS, INC., Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: LEAP, WILLIAMS

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