Get An Ugly Woman To Marry You
Harry Belafonte Lyrics


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If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

A pretty woman makes her husband feel small
And very often causes his downfall
As soon as he marries her then she starts
To do the things that will break his heart

But if you make an ugly woman your wife
You'll be happy for the rest of your life
An ugly woman cooks meals on time
She'll always give you peace of mind

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

Don't let your friends say you have no taste
Go ahead and marry anyway
Though her face is ugly, her eyes don't match
Take it from me, she's a better catch

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

Say man!
Hey baby!
I saw your wife the other day!
Yeah?
Yeah, an' she's ugly!
Yeah, she's ugly, but she sure can cook, baby!
Yeah, alright!


If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife




So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

Overall Meaning

At first glance, Harry Belafonte's song "Get An Ugly Woman To Marry You" appears to be a crude and tactless ode to finding happiness through marrying an unattractive partner. However, upon closer examination, one can see that the lyrics speak to the idea of finding a partner who provides stability and support rather than one who simply looks good on the surface. The song is a tongue-in-cheek commentary on the shallow nature of society's obsession with beauty and the value we place on it in relationships.


The lyrics suggest that a beautiful woman can make a man feel small and can ultimately cause their demise, while an unattractive woman can provide peace of mind and a happy life. Belafonte encourages men to ignore societal norms and look past physical appearances in order to find true happiness. He even addresses the reactions of others to the choice of a less attractive partner, telling listeners to ignore their criticism and follow their heart.


Overall, the song is a playful yet pointed commentary on the importance of considering personality and compatibility when choosing a life partner. It encourages listeners to look past the superficial and instead focus on finding a partner who will bring them true happiness and support.


Line by Line Meaning

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So from my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you
According to my personal experience, if you want to live a happy life, never marry a pretty woman but instead choose an ugly girl as your life partner.


A pretty woman makes her husband feel small And very often causes his downfall As soon as he marries her then she starts To do the things that will break his heart
Marrying a beautiful woman can often lead to feelings of inadequacy for her husband and can ultimately lead to his ruin, as she may start doing things that can hurt him emotionally.


But if you make an ugly woman your wife You'll be happy for the rest of your life An ugly woman cooks meals on time She'll always give you peace of mind
If you marry an unattractive girl, you will experience long-term happiness because she will always take care of your needs, notably providing timely meals, and give you emotional stability.


Don't let your friends say you have no taste Go ahead and marry anyway Though her face is ugly, her eyes don't match Take it from me, she's a better catch
It's not necessary to follow what others say about your choice of a partner; you should marry who you want. Even if an ugly woman's eyes don't match, she's an excellent catch because of her qualities as a life partner.


If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So from my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you Say man! Hey baby! I saw your wife the other day! Yeah? Yeah, an' she's ugly! Yeah, she's ugly, but she sure can cook, baby! Yeah, alright!
Once again reiterating the theme of the song, it advises you to marry an unattractive girl if you want to live happily. The conversation between the two characters emphasizes that an ugly woman might not be attractive, but she can cook well and be an excellent partner.




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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@taniele84

Everyone thinks I’m lying and I made this song up whenever they hear me singing it.
For as long as I can remember, it’ll just randomly pop up in my head while I’m cleaning or working out or something requiring an upbeat rhythm, and I start singing it- usually repeating the chorus over and over because it’s all I remember- and it never fails, everyone starts staring, cutting me off, making me repeat the words and then arguing with me when I tell them it’s a real song and it’s classic and perfect lol
They look it up to prove Em wrong and always end up shocked and stunned. They play the song. They love it. And my work is done.
😉
I’m lucky to know these kind of gems. My mom was a special lady, she had me late in life, single mom, it was her and I against the world. And we would go for rides all over the backroads, along the reservoirs, into the mountains, and the whole time she’d have her music playing, the nostalgia was so strong that it would rub off on me, even though the entire time I was actually experiencing the moments that would one day be the entire focal point of my own most intense nostalgia. Too young to have actually known what it was at the time, I swear to God I still felt it though, through her. Through my mom. She’d share her stories, her childhood stories, as I got older she’d share more of her teen years and so on. The music going, the 60’s alive in the car with us, her stories happening live in my mind as she told them. We’d always find some hidden gem of a burger stand in the valleys of the mountains, looking over the reservoirs, with a bunch of picnic tables to eat at, the only other people we’d end up seeing were usually bikers. Which is how my love for riding first began. These guys, and gals, would ride out together along the curves and bends of the mountains, all seasons, all days and all nights, whether it was a summer nights full moon and the smell of pines and the campfires that were burning from somewhere miles away or whether it was the crisp and savory fall air that wrapped you up like a blanket of cozy happiness, with the colors of nature at her most beautiful and magical, the mountains burning with the fiery colors of autumn, the leaves blanketing the roads, the picnic tables at those secret burger joints decorated with huge oak leaves and sweet smelling maples leaves.
I swear, we didn’t have much, my mama slept on a broken couch so that I could have my own real bedroom (her choice, I wanted to share with her but she wouldn’t have it), we lived in a tiny studio with a flimsy plaster wall that was thrown up to make it into a one bedroom and charge as much as possible, the electricity was cut off usually once every three months or so and we’d had special “camp out” nights, with candles and blankets on the floor by her couch and we’d tell stories and even roast marshmallows using our candles, she worked so much and so hard to give me everything she could, and even though we could afford summer vacations or weekends at the movies or the mall or whatever it was other kids did with their families, I swear to God I really believe we actually ended up having it so much better in the end because of the struggle and hardships. My father was a bad man, she protected me from him, kept us away from him, became everything I needed without anyone’s help, we had something so important and special, mother and daughter, the world before them.
Wow. Didn’t plan on all this.
But.
The song popped up in my head.
I’m cleaning so I figured I’d find it on YouTube.
Decided to leave a comment about how none of my friends ever believe me when I tell them I didn’t make this song up.
And ended up revisiting the happiest days of my life and basking in how blessed I was to have the mother I had and to experience all the we experienced together.
I love you Mama. And I know you’re right here with me.
To anyone who managed through my grammatically toxic rambling- bless your heart. I’m sorry for the babble lol



All comments from YouTube:

@ronroberts1281

I AM 73 AND STILL REMEMBER THESE GUYS, SAW THEM AT THE CINNAMON CINDER CLUB IN ORANGE COUNTY CALIF. 1964. YEOW.

@DScott-be7pg

Must've AMAZING!!!

@greatPJ

Super cool!

@jamesbehrje4279

I used to think bands like this were awesome growing up. Im a eighties baby but this would always me on the oldies station my dad would listen too. They rocked just as hard if not harder then bands do today just with older technology and different instruments!!! Nowadays nobody even knows how to play their own songs well enough at concerts to play em without having them play a prerecorded instrument or vocal track over them. Its really sad what music is today. It seems like it became progressively worse over time. I think it has to do with the culture of the participation trophy generation. even though they suck, they get air play. If you dont support their crap then your looked down on like your the problem whatever they use to justify their views. It's kinda ridiculous if you all me. Good is good and crap is crap. . . And most music today is prefabricated manufactured sh#t!!!

@StriderZessei

WHY ARE WE YELLING??

@themadplotter

@@StriderZessei HE'S 76 AND HE'S BEEN AT KICK ASS GIG'S HIS WHOLE LIFE!

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@ncdave4life

#1 song to never play at a wedding reception.

@rentslave

Another one is Gloria Gaynor's "I Will Survive."

@Seven-_-Doves

Hahahahaha

@bubblebubblegum2732

lol. did u lol. oh no

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