Used to It
Harry Valentine Lyrics

In "Used to It," Harry Valentine expresses the pain and frustration of being in a toxic relationship that he has grown accustomed to. The lyrics convey a sense of desperation and resignation to the situation at hand.

The first verse sets the tone by describing the other person's behavior as "sniffing around" and "looking through" Harry, which suggests a lack of trust and an invasion of privacy. Despite feeling hurt, Harry mentions that he has become used to this treatment, indicating that it has become a regular occurrence in the relationship.

The chorus emphasizes Harry's realization that he needs to let go of this toxic relationship. He repeats the phrase "I've got to let you go" multiple times, reinforcing his determination to move on. The repetition also highlights the difficulty of this decision, as he acknowledges the internal struggle of finally breaking free.

In the second verse, Harry reflects on the complexity of their relationship, which used to be simple and easy. He expresses his obsession with hoping that the other person will invite him, revealing his vulnerability and dependence on their validation. This admission of weakness further emphasizes how deeply entangled he has become in this destructive dynamic.

The repetition of the chorus strengthens the message of letting go, as Harry reaffirms his decision to move on. The bridge, consisting of "All right, all right" followed by the phrase "I guess I got used to it," indicates a sense of resignation and acceptance. Despite acknowledging the pain caused by the relationship, Harry has grown accustomed to enduring it, making it even harder to break free.

In the final chorus, Harry echoes his determination to let go, emphasizing the urgency to leave and walk away from the toxic situation. The repeated phrase "I guess I got used to it" serves as a reminder of his willingness to accept the pain for a long time but also signifies his readiness to finally break free from this toxic cycle.