I don't know why
Helen Reddy Lyrics


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I don't know how to love him
What to do, how to move him
I've been changed, yes really changed
In these past few days when I see myself
I seem like someone else

I don't know how to take this
I don't see why he moves me
He's a man, he's just a man
And I've had so many men before
In very many ways, he's just one more

Should I bring him down?
Should I scream and shout?
Should I speak of love?
Let my feelings out
I never thought I'd come to this
What's it all about

Don't you think it's rather funny
I should be in this position?
I'm the one who's always been
So calm, so cool, no lover's fool
Running every show, he scares me so

I never thought I'd come to this
What's it all about?
What's it all about?

If he said he loved me
I'd be lost, I'd be frightened
I couldn't cope, just couldn't cope
I'd turn my head, I'd back away
I wouldn't want to know
He scares me so




Oh, I want him so
I love him so

Overall Meaning

Helen Reddy's song "I Don't Know How to Love Him" is a touching ballad about a woman trying to come to terms with her feelings for a man she deeply desires, but is scared to love. The song is from the 1970 rock opera "Jesus Christ Superstar," which tells the story of Jesus Christ's final days before his crucifixion. The singer of the song is Mary Magdalene, a follower of Jesus and a former prostitute, who has fallen in love with him. The lyrics of the song express her struggles in coming to terms with her emotions towards Jesus.


In the first verse, Mary admits that she doesn't know how to love Jesus and doesn't understand why she's been changed by him. She feels like she's someone else and can't figure out how to move or approach him. In the second verse, Mary questions if she should bring Jesus down, scream and shout, or speak of love to let her feelings out. She's scared and confused, having never felt this way before. In the final verse, Mary confesses that if Jesus were to declare his love for her, she wouldn't know how to cope with it. She would turn away from him and back away because he scares her so much, although she loves him deeply.


The lyrics of "I Don't Know How to Love Him" tap into universal human emotions of love, fear, and vulnerability. Mary Magdalene's struggle to accept her feelings for Jesus is a relatable experience many people have gone through at one point in their lives. Despite Mary's fear of love, she cannot deny her affection for Jesus. The song tells a tale of an internal battle with one's heart.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't know how to love him
I am unsure of how to love him


What to do, how to move him
I am uncertain of how to impress or make him respond to me


I've been changed, yes really changed
I have undergone a significant transformation recently


In these past few days when I see myself
During recent days, I've perceived a change within myself


I seem like someone else
I appear to have become a different person


I don't know how to take this
I am uncertain how to handle this situation


I don't see why he moves me
I cannot understand why he attracts me


He's a man, he's just a man
He is merely a human being, a male


And I've had so many men before
I have experienced many men in the past


In very many ways, he's just one more
He is similar to many other men I have known


Should I bring him down?
Should I criticize him or belittle him?


Should I scream and shout?
Should I express my frustration or anger loudly?


Should I speak of love?
Should I confess my love to him?


Let my feelings out
Should I express my emotions openly?


I never thought I'd come to this
I never expected to be in this situation


What's it all about
What is the significance or meaning of all of this?


Don't you think it's rather funny
Do you not find it ironic?


I should be in this position?
I cannot believe I am in this circumstance


I'm the one who's always been
I am typically the one who is


So calm, so cool, no lover's fool
I am composed, collected, and not easily deceived in love


Running every show, he scares me so
I am usually in charge, but he intimidates me


If he said he loved me
If he were to confess his love for me


I'd be lost, I'd be frightened
I would feel confused and scared


I couldn't cope, just couldn't cope
I would be unable to handle it


I'd turn my head, I'd back away
I would avoid the situation and retreat


I wouldn't want to know
I would avoid hearing his confession of love


He scares me so
He intimidates and frightens me


Oh, I want him so
Despite all of this, I still have a strong desire for him


I love him so
I have strong romantic feelings for him




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Andrew Lloyd Webber, Tim Rice

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Comments from YouTube:

midnight skies

Hello Joel. I appreciate your accomplishments and your working with Helen. But in my opinion, you did Helen a great dis-service. She's is no doubt an exceptional vocalist, but this (in my opinion) is one of her least appealing LPs.

Joel Diamond

Thank you so much for taking the time to write & I’m sorry it took so long to get back to you...I always try to add meaningful, loving, and many times interesting YouTube Links to my Channel...Please join my YouTube Channel by going to https://www.youtube.com/user/jdia1943 and hit “SUBSCRIBE” button” so you can always see all the new videos going up… thank you also passing this information on to your friends and relatives to join...Warmest regards and let’s stay in touch, Joel Diamond

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