It's My Party
Helen Shapiro Lyrics


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It's my party and I'll cry if I want to
Cry if I want to, cry if I want to
You would cry too, if it happened to you

Nobody knows where my Johnny has gone
But Judy left the same time
Why was he holding her hand
When he's supposed to be mine

It's my party and I'll cry if I want to
Cry if I want to, cry if I want to
You would cry too, if it happened to you

Judy and Johnny just walked through that door
But like a queen with her king
Oh, what a birthday surprise
Judy's wearing his ring

It's my party and I'll cry if I want to
Cry if I want to, cry if I want to
You would cry too, if it happened to you

It's my party and I'll cry if I want to
Cry if I want to, cry if I want to
You would cry too, if it happened to you

It's my party and I'll cry if I want to
Cry if I want to, cry if I want to
You would cry too, if it happened to you

It's my party and I'll cry if I want to
Cry if I want to, cry if I want to
You would cry too, if it happened to you

It's my party and I'll cry if I want to




Cry if I want to, cry if I want to
You would cry too, if it happened to you

Overall Meaning

In this popular oldies song, Helen Shapiro is expressing her sadness and frustration over her boyfriend Johnny's recent departure from her party with another girl, Judy. She belts out the famous lyrics, "It's my party and I'll cry if I want to. You would cry too, if it happened to you," to emphasize her right to feel hurt and upset. She wonders why Johnny was holding Judy's hand when he's supposed to be hers. When Judy and Johnny come back, she is shocked to see Judy wearing his ring, which adds insult to injury. However, Shapiro stands her ground and repeats the famous line, reminding herself and listeners that it's completely valid to react emotionally to this kind of hurtful situation.


The lyrics have been interpreted in different ways, some as a statement of female empowerment, while others see it as an exaggerated response to a teenage heartbreak. However, regardless of the interpretation, the song has stood the test of time and remains a classic representation of teenage heartbreak and the universal human emotion of grief.


Line by Line Meaning

It's my party and I'll cry if I want to
I have the right to express my emotions and cry if I feel like it during my party


Cry if I want to, cry if I want to
I will not hold back my tears just because it's my party


You would cry too, if it happened to you
If you were in my situation, you would also feel emotional and cry


Nobody knows where my Johnny has gone
I don't know where my boyfriend Johnny is


But Judy left the same time
Judy, who is supposed to be my friend, also left at the same time as Johnny


Why was he holding her hand
I feel betrayed and confused that Johnny was holding Judy's hand when he's supposed to be with me


When he's supposed to be mine
I believed that Johnny was my boyfriend and that we were exclusive


Judy and Johnny just walked through that door
Judy and Johnny have arrived at my party


But like a queen with her king
Judy is acting as if she has won Johnny's affection and is triumphant


Oh, what a birthday surprise
The fact that Judy is wearing Johnny's ring is an unexpected and unpleasant surprise on my birthday


It's my party and I'll cry if I want to
Regardless of what is happening around me, I will not hold back my emotions during my party




Writer(s): Wally Gold, Tyrone Griffin, D. Yates, John Jackson, John Gluck Jr, Rodney Price, Taiwan Green, Herb Weiner, Marcus Sepehrmanesh, Herb Wiener, T. Williams, Herbert Weiner, Seymour Sy Gottlieb, Elof Loelv, Wyclef Jean

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Comments from YouTube:

@VinDcator

Grows on 'ya.

@BennettGreenspon

It drags. It's a totally different interpretation of the song. Lesley was defiant, where Helen seems mopey and depressed.

@rogerczerwin9495

The original version of "It's my party", not Shelly Fabres

@michaelcalcina1446

The correct spelling of her name is Shelley Fabares!

@pause10two4

It is Lesley Gore’s version credited as the first single. Shapiro’s wasn’t released soon enough.

@laurah6845

I prefer Lesley Gore's version 100%

@musicrocksoffical

I think Helen did great on this. It’s a close one for me.

@lenb7275

Who doesn't this version is dreadful 🤮

@lenb7275

This is dreadful version its probably her deep voice and it's too slow I prefer Lesley gore by 100 %

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