Don't Try to Hurt Me
Herman's Hermits Lyrics


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I’ve been hurt by love
Too many times
Not to know the signs of breaking up
When they have been

Don’t try to hurt me
Don’t try to harm me
Don’t try to hurt me
Or You pay

‘Cos You know I get magic or bad
And when I get mad
You know I do things
I really shouldn’t do

I’ve told You once before
And I’ll tell You once again:
Don’t try to hurt me, or You pay

I’ve told You first time – easy girl
But that was almost second time
But there won’t be forgive

Don’t try to hurt me
Don’t try to harm me
Don’t try to hurt me
Or You pay

‘Cos You know I get magic or bad
And when I get mad
You know I do things
I really shouldn’t do

I’ve told You once before
And I’ll tell You once again:
Don’t try to hurt me
Don’t try to harm me
Don’t try to hurt me
Or You pay

Overall Meaning

In "Don't Try to Hurt Me," the singer expresses his fear of getting hurt by love again. Having been hurt too many times in the past, he is equipped with the knowledge of recognizing the signs of a failing relationship. He warns his lover not to try to hurt him, as he will not take it lightly. He knows that he has the potential to act irrationally when hurt, and he doesn't want to be put in that situation again. The lyrics make it clear that he has communicated this warning before and will not forgive any further attempts to cause him emotional harm.


The song portrays a level of vulnerability from the singer that showcases his fear of getting hurt more than anything else. He's been hurt before, and he's not willing to go through it again. He warns his lover to think twice before trying to break his heart. The lyrics also showcase his self-awareness; he knows he is not perfect and may act poorly when hurt. Therefore, he is trying to prevent any potential heartbreak before it happens.


Line by Line Meaning

I’ve been hurt by love
I have experienced emotional pain caused by love


Too many times
This has happened on multiple occasions


Not to know the signs of breaking up
I'm familiar with the indicators that a relationship is coming to an end


When they have been
As soon as I recognize these signs


Don’t try to hurt me
Please don't intentionally cause me emotional pain


Don’t try to harm me
I hope you won't cause me any physical harm


Or You pay
Otherwise, there will be consequences


‘Cos You know I get magic or bad
You know that I have unpredictable moods


And when I get mad
Especially when I become angry


You know I do things
I may behave inappropriately


I really shouldn’t do
Actions that I might regret later


I’ve told You once before
I have already communicated this message


And I’ll tell You once again
I'm restating it for emphasis


But that was almost second time
The previous time I warned you was close to being the last


But there won’t be forgive
If you hurt me again, I cannot forgive you




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Philip Kassabian


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A great and classic song by Herman's Hermits.

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