Where Were You When I Needed You
Herman's Hermits Lyrics


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Don't bother crying
Don't bother calling
It's all over now
There's no use in stalling
The love I once felt
I don't feel anymore for you
This time I'll even open the door for you
You walked out when I was down
Well now I'm well off
And look, look who's comin' round

Where were you when I needed you
Where were you when I wanted you
Where were you when I need you
Where

You're looking good, it's hard to fight it
But no use explain'
I've already decided
That goin' with you
Is worse than without you
I won't spend a lifetime worryin' about you
When things got bad
You disappeared
But I'm back on my feet
And look, look who's standin' there

Where were you when I neeed you
Where were you when I wanted you
Where were you when I needed you
Where

You were so young
And you were so wild
I knew you were nobody's innocent child
That first day I saw you
You really got to me
I thought I could change you
What could you do to me
When times got rought
Ah, you would't wait
Well now you're trippin' back
And babe, babe it's too late

Where were you when I needed you
Where were you when I wanted you
Where were you when I needed you
Where

Overall Meaning

Herman’s Hermits’ “Where Were You When I Needed You” is a song about a past relationship gone awry. The singer in the song is frustrated with an ex-partner who left them during tough times, only to come back when the singer has moved on and is doing well. They address their ex-partner directly in the lyrics, saying that it is pointless for them to come back now that they are doing okay without them. The singer goes on to reflect on the relationship, recalling their initial optimism that they could change their partner, who was wild and not innocent, but who left them when they were down. The chorus repeats a refrain of “Where were you when I needed you?” emphasizing the betrayal and disappointment the singer feels, and underscoring the ex-partner’s inconsistency and inconstancy, as they now show up when things are going better for the singer.


The song’s lyrics, while specific to a romantic relationship, could also be relatable to other circumstances where someone experiences abandonment or rejection during difficult times, only for that person to reappear when things have improved. The tone of the song is somewhat bitter, as the singer seems resentful of the return of their ex-partner, and protected against any advances they might make. The song’s lyrics are delivered in a pop/rock style that is upbeat and catchy, with a prominent electric guitar riff driving the melody.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't bother crying
Crying or pleading won't change anything.


Don't bother calling
Calling won't fix anything either.


It's all over now
Our relationship has ended.


There's no use in stalling
Delaying the inevitable won't make any difference.


The love I once felt
I used to be in love with you.


I don't feel anymore for you
I've fallen out of love with you.


This time I'll even open the door for you
I'm letting you go.


You walked out when I was down
You left me when I needed you the most.


Well now I'm well off
I'm doing well now.


And look, look who's comin' round
You've come back around.


Where were you when I needed you
I needed you in the past, but you weren't there for me.


Where were you when I wanted you
I wanted you in the past, but you weren't there for me.


Where were you when I need you
I needed you in the past, but you weren't there for me.


You're looking good, it's hard to fight it
You look attractive, but it won't change anything between us.


But no use explain'
It's pointless to try to explain things to you.


I've already decided
I've made up my mind.


That goin' with you
Being with you.


Is worse than without you
I'm better off without you.


I won't spend a lifetime worryin' about you
I don't want to spend my life worrying about you.


When things got bad
When the situation was difficult.


You disappeared
You left without a trace.


But I'm back on my feet
I'm doing well again.


And look, look who's standin' there
You're back in my life.


You were so young
You were very young.


And you were so wild
You were carefree and unpredictable.


I knew you were nobody's innocent child
I knew you weren't innocent or naive.


That first day I saw you
The first time I saw you.


You really got to me
I was captivated by you.


I thought I could change you
I believed I could change your behavior or personality.


What could you do to me
I thought you couldn't hurt me.


When times got rough
When things were difficult.


Ah, you wouldn't wait
You didn't stick around.


Well now you're trippin' back
You've come back to me.


And babe, babe it's too late
But it's too late for us to have a happy ending.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: P.F. Sloan, Steve Barri

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A great and classic song by Herman's Hermits.

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