STRONGER
Hewitt Jennifer Love Lyrics


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I'd like you to meet the girl they call next door
You'll know her 'cause you've seen her face before
He left you and he broke your heart in two
You don't know if you'll ever make it through

He had to go leave you all alone
I promise you're much better on your own
Take it from me 'cause I've been there
I once had a man who didn't care

Promised myself I would never love again
I've been hurt, I've been blind, and that's the end
I have fought, I have cried, I have bled
For the love that never has been said

He'll love you, he won't love you
But you've got to ‘cause you're stronger than you were before
You'll be there, he won't be there
But you've been there and you're stronger than you were before

Take a minute, make a new plan
Take a while before a new man
Find the one that I adore
But better yet, the one who loves me more

Girl to girl, I know we've all been there
In the mirror I know that we've all stared
To find a place that's within our hearts
Never let your soul and spirit part

He'll love you, he won't love you
But you've got to ‘cause you're stronger than you were before
You'll be there, he won't be there
But you've been there and you're stronger than you were before

Girl I know you'll feel better if you cried
But you will be stronger if you look inside
Love doesn't always mean that you'll see eye to eye
But great love will always help you learn to fly
You can hold him close and let him kiss you
But just not too tight, he's gotta miss you
Make a love that you know your heart will preserve
Live a life that all of us deserve
And he will

He'll love you, he won't love you
But you've got to ‘cause you're stronger than you were before




You'll be there, he won't be there
But you've been there and you're stronger than you were before

Overall Meaning

"Stronger" by Jennifer Love Hewitt is an empowering song for every woman who has been left heartbroken and looking for strength to move on. In the opening verse, Hewitt introduces the "girl next door" who has been betrayed by her partner, leaving her shattered and unsure if she will ever get through the pain. However, Hewitt assures her that she will make it through and that being alone is better than being with someone who doesn't value her.


Hewitt then shares her own story of being hurt and blind in love, which led her to vow never to love again. She encourages the girl to take her time, make a new plan, and find someone who loves her for who she is. She emphasizes the importance of self-love and finding a place within our hearts where our soul and spirit can be one. Hewitt imparts wisdom that love doesn't always mean agreeing with everything your partner says, but true love will help you soar.


The chorus repeats the message of finding strength in oneself, allowing oneself to be vulnerable in love, holding on but not too tightly, and living a life that we all deserve. The song sends a positive message of finding strength within oneself, healing, and moving on from the pain of heartbreak.


Line by Line Meaning

I'd like you to meet the girl they call next door
Introducing a relatable girl that everyone knows


You'll know her 'cause you've seen her face before
She's like any other girl you've seen


He left you and he broke your heart in two
She's been hurt by someone she loved


You don't know if you'll ever make it through
She's uncertain if she'll recover from this heartbreak


He had to go leave you all alone
Her ex-partner abandoned her


I promise you're much better on your own
Being single is better than being with someone who doesn't appreciate you


Take it from me 'cause I've been there
The artist has been through a similar experience


I once had a man who didn't care
The artist was with a partner who didn't treat her right


Promised myself I would never love again
She made a vow to never let herself get hurt again


I've been hurt, I've been blind, and that's the end
Her painful experience has ended her romantic journey


I have fought, I have cried, I have bled
She's gone through an emotional battle trying to find true love


For the love that never has been said
She's searching for love that's never been expressed


He'll love you, he won't love you
There's uncertainty when it comes to love


But you've got to ‘cause you're stronger than you were before
She acknowledges her strength and ability to handle whatever comes her way


You'll be there, he won't be there
She's preparing for the possibility of being alone


But you've been there and you're stronger than you were before
Again, she acknowledges her strength and ability to handle anything


Take a minute, make a new plan
She's offering advice to take a moment and come up with a fresh approach


Take a while before a new man
It's important not to rush into a new relationship


Find the one that I adore
She's looking for someone she genuinely loves


But better yet, the one who loves me more
She also wants someone who loves her equally or more than she loves them


Girl to girl, I know we've all been there
She's speaking to other women who have gone through a similar heartbreak


In the mirror I know that we've all stared
Reminding listeners of times they've looked at themselves in the mirror and reflected on their own struggles


To find a place that's within our hearts
She's encouraging listeners to look within themselves to find comfort


Never let your soul and spirit part
She's urging listeners to stay true to themselves


Girl I know you'll feel better if you cried
It's okay to express your emotions through tears


But you will be stronger if you look inside
Strength comes from within


Love doesn't always mean that you'll see eye to eye
Love isn't always easy and requires compromise


But great love will always help you learn to fly
A good relationship can help you grow and achieve your goals


You can hold him close and let him kiss you
It's okay to be physically close to your partner


But just not too tight, he's gotta miss you
Don't suffocate your partner


Make a love that you know your heart will preserve
She's encouraging listeners to create a lasting, meaningful relationship


Live a life that all of us deserve
Everyone deserves happiness


And he will
She's hopeful that her listeners will find the love they deserve




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: JENNIFER LOVE HEWITT

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