Mr. Pushover
Hey Monday Lyrics


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No action, just like a sponge
You take it 'til you've made the final plunge
So sad that you've lost your spine
I hurt for you like this whole mess is mine

You are as good as dead now
Dead end, you've got no way out
Nobody's got the guts to tell you
But I do
But I do

Poor, poor Mr. Pushover
Never had a doubt
Now you're going crazy
Back, back to the drawing board
Once again believing
"They're on to me
The haters are hating
The haters, they hate me
Lovers are loving
But the lovers, they hate me too"

Some say that true love is blind
They never said that you should lose your mind
You are just that kind of guy
Who cannot look the problem in the eye

You are as good as dead now
Dead end, you've got no way out
Nobody's got the guts to tell you
But I do
But I do

Poor, poor Mr. Pushover
Never had a doubt
Now you're going crazy
Back, back to the drawing board
Once again believing
"They're on to me
The haters are hating
The haters, they hate me
Lovers are loving
But the lovers, they hate me too"

You think differently
So don't get lost inside the sea
Don't forget yourself
And I am begging
Don't you forget me
Not me, yeah

Poor, poor Mr. Pushover
Never had a doubt
Now you're going crazy
Back, back to the drawing board
Once again believing
"They're on to me
The haters are hating
The haters, they hate me




Lovers are loving
But the lovers, they hate me too"

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Hey Monday's song "Mr. Pushover" speak of a person who is constantly taken advantage of without any action, just like a sponge. This person is unable to confront the problem head-on and is described as spineless. The lyrics refer to the singer's empathy for this person's situation and how they feel responsible for the unfortunate state of affairs. The song describes the situation as a "mess" and the person as being "as good as dead now" with "no way out."


The chorus repeats the phrase "poor, poor Mr. Pushover" and highlights how this person has never had a doubt but is now going crazy and back to the drawing board, once again believing that they are hated by everyone. The lyrics suggest that the person thinks differently, and the singer urges them not to forget themselves and not to forget them. The song ends with a repetition of the chorus, highlighting the person's unfortunate state.


The song's lyrics are about the self-destructive behavior of someone who cannot take a stand for themselves and is repeatedly taken advantage of. The lyrics also encourage and urge the person to stand up for themselves and realize that they are more than a pushover. The song's catchy melody and upbeat tone of the music contrast with the sad message of the lyrics.


Line by Line Meaning

No action, just like a sponge
You don't take action and instead absorb everything until you are overwhelmed.


You take it 'til you've made the final plunge
You keep taking everything until it's too much for you to handle.


So sad that you've lost your spine
It's unfortunate that you no longer have the courage or ability to stand up for yourself.


I hurt for you like this whole mess is mine
I feel so strongly for you, it's as if your problems are my own.


You are as good as dead now
Your situation is so dire that there's almost no hope for you.


Dead end, you've got no way out
You've reached a point where there's no possible escape.


Nobody's got the guts to tell you
No one has the bravery to be honest with you and tell you the truth.


But I do
I am willing to be truthful with you.


Poor, poor Mr. Pushover
You are pitiful, a person who allows themselves to be manipulated by others.


Never had a doubt
You always act without questioning anything.


Now you're going crazy
Your behavior has become erratic and out-of-control.


Back, back to the drawing board
You need to start over and reassess your approach to life.


Once again believing
You are falling back into your old ways of thinking.


"They're on to me The haters are hating The haters, they hate me Lovers are loving But the lovers, they hate me too"
You feel paranoid and that everyone is against you, even those who supposedly love you.


Some say that true love is blind
There's a common saying that love can make you overlook flaws or problems.


They never said that you should lose your mind
However, nobody ever said that love should cause you to act irrationally or in a foolish manner.


You are just that kind of guy
You're the type of person who lets love make them crazy.


Who cannot look the problem in the eye
You are unable to confront or face your problems head-on.


You think differently
You have a unique perspective or approach to things.


So don't get lost inside the sea
However, you shouldn't become too immersed in your own thoughts or ideas.


Don't forget yourself
You need to stay true to who you are and not lose sight of that.


And I am begging Don't you forget me Not me, yeah
I am pleading with you not to forget about me or our relationship while you're struggling with your problems.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: CASSADEE POPE

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