Play With Fire
Hilary Duff Lyrics


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I can't believe it's really you
Been so long, you look good
I hear you're doing really well
Don't ask me, let me tell you
How I've been since when you left
Since you left me for dead
Finally every tear has dried
I've wiped you from my life

Do you remember all the times you said you'd call me
'Cause I remember all the reasons people warned me
And now I hear you saying that you still adore me
But if you think I'd ever get with you again
Then you can just

Love me, love me
Feed the flame
If you want me back again
Burns in the sky, higher and higher
Baby, can you play with fire?

(Come on and feel the sky)
Love me, love me
(Come on and feel the sky)
If you want me

You never know just what you got
'Till it's gone, you forgot
But I'm not falling for the game
Boys like you never change
You made me feel I wasn't enough
Wasn't enough for your love
But it was insecurity that made you run
It wasn't me

So don't you sit there trying
To give me more excuses
I don't have time 'cause it's
I'm off to play in Houston
And I'm too busy with a million things I'm doing
You can't make up for what you've done
But you still try to be the one

Love me, love me
Feed the flame
If you want me back again
Burns in the sky, higher and higher
Baby, can you play with fire?

Oh, by the way
By the way I've found someone who gives me space
Keeps me safe, makes me sane
Found someone to take your place
Now I'm safe in his arms
And I decide
Only he can play with fire

Love me, love me
Feed the flame
If you want me back again




Burns in the sky, higher and higher
Baby, can you play with fire?

Overall Meaning

In Hilary Duff's song Play With Fire, she sings about an ex-lover who left her feeling insecure and not enough for his love. The lyrics touch on the feeling of longing for someone who has left and then returns, only to realize that they were never good for you. The singer expresses how they have moved on and found someone who makes them feel safe and sane, and only that person can play with fire.


The song's lyrics capture the emotional cycle of a toxic relationship where lovers continually drift apart and come back to each other, trying to rekindle the flame of love but always ending up getting burned. The chorus, "Love me, love me, feed the flame. If you want me back again. Burns in the sky, higher and higher. Baby, can you play with fire?" speaks of the relationship's highs and lows, highs that are worth playing with fire for, and bottoms that leave scars that no apology can heal.


In conclusion, the song's lyrics are both relatable and empowering, highlighting the importance of loving oneself and not settling for less. It emphasizes the need to move on, find someone who makes you feel secure, and refrain from going back to a harmful relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

I can't believe it's really you
The singer is surprised to see the person whom they address.


Been so long, you look good
The singer comments on the time gone by since they saw the other person and compliments their appearance.


I hear you're doing really well
The singer has heard that the other person is doing well.


Don't ask me, let me tell you
The artist wants to share about their own life before being asked about it by the other person.


How I've been since when you left
The artist wants to share about how their life has been since the other person left them.


Since you left me for dead
The singer feels like they were abandoned by the other person when they left.


Finally every tear has dried
The singer has fully gotten over the emotional impact of the other person's departure.


I've wiped you from my life
The artist has moved on and doesn't want to have anything to do with the other person anymore.


Do you remember all the times you said you'd call me
The artist reminds the other person about their past behavior of promising to call but not following through.


'Cause I remember all the reasons people warned me
The artist recalls that others warned them about the other person's unreliable behavior.


And now I hear you saying that you still adore me
The other person is expressing love or admiration towards the singer in the present time.


But if you think I'd ever get with you again
The artist expresses that they have no interest in being with the other person romantically again.


Then you can just
The singer prepares to give a response to the other person's attempt to woo them back.


Love me, love me Feed the flame If you want me back again Burns in the sky, higher and higher Baby, can you play with fire?
The singer is challenging the other person to win their love back and prove themselves by taking risks and showing assertiveness.


You never know just what you got 'Till it's gone, you forgot
The singer comments on the irony of realizing the importance of someone after they are gone.


But I'm not falling for the game Boys like you never change
The artist has learned from experience that people with the other person's characteristics never change, and they will not allow themselves to be hurt again.


You made me feel I wasn't enough Wasn't enough for your love But it was insecurity that made you run It wasn't me
The artist identifies the other person's insecurities as the reason for the breakdown in their relationship rather than any fault of their own.


So don't you sit there trying To give me more excuses I don't have time 'cause it's I'm off to play in Houston And I'm too busy with a million things I'm doing
The singer does not want to hear any more apologies or reasons from the other person, as they are focused on moving forward with their life without them.


You can't make up for what you've done But you still try to be the one
The singer has come to terms with the other person's actions and realizes that they cannot make up for them, yet the other person keeps trying anyway.


Oh, by the way By the way I've found someone who gives me space Keeps me safe, makes me sane Found someone to take your place Now I'm safe in his arms And I decide Only he can play with fire
The artist has found a new partner and is happy and fulfilled with them, and is now the only person who is allowed to take risks in their life.


Love me, love me Feed the flame If you want me back again Burns in the sky, higher and higher Baby, can you play with fire?
The artist reiterates their challenge to the other person to prove themselves and win their love back.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: Will Adams, Kara Dioguardi, Hilary Duff, Rhett Lawrence

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Comments from YouTube:

@xarliorigliasso

It's 2023 and I'm still playing this song on my playlist ❤ the Dignity era was my favorite.

@calicomoonchild

Her finest, most artistic moment. It’s just a shame it never had an extended dance/ club mix.

@Spyrica

Is the Richard Vision Remix not good enough for you?

@TheAndyVegan

I just absolutely love Hilary Duff. Always have. Always will. She is just uniquely herself and I love it. Metamorphosis was amazing. The self-titled “Hilary Duff” album was gold. “Dignity” is such a treat. Even her newer music is beautiful.

@mcleanblades9234

her christmas CD is great too

@porcelainboy264

Fifteen years and this is still a banger

@ZoeeSavX

When this song was released I was so young I didn't know you could just google lyrics to songs, so I tried to write the lyrics down by listening to the song over and over again hahaha 

@samanthabuss3314

I used to do that too when I was really young till I was about 15 or 16 them I would Google search them! LOL!!

@brendabanuelos8851

Lmao omg i would do that too!

@cosetteshuman1815

I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE

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